Okay, I'm a guy in my 50's. When I was in my 30's I was diagnosed with adult onset diabetes. I wasn't circumcised when I was born and when I was 30 I started having problems with yeast infections on my penis which made it very hard to pull back the foreskin because it had become tight and when pulling it back it would actually tear and bleed. Very painful to say the least. Meds helped but eventually I had a circumcision at the age of 38! I know, OUCH! Anyway, My cock has become less sensitive since loosing my foreskin and it takes me longer to cum now which I guess is good for my wife but I miss the sensation I had when I wasn't circumcised. So have any of you guy s been cut as an adult and how do you wish you had your foreskin back? Ladies, does it matter to you if a guy is cut or not and do you prefer one over the other?
Simply: Women don't give a fuck. You shouldn't give a fuck either, your little guy had a haircut... so what? Obsessing over what is good/better will bring you no joy, having lots of sex with your newly cut member on the other hand will. PS. I was cut late and i'm happy.
Wow there was another recent thread that claimed the loss of sensation after removing foreskin. I think if you're not trollin' you set the point in stone.
maybe he needs more answers. chromeboy I had same done at similar age for similar reasons except not through diabetes, but had same small tears that when healed made the foreskin tighter. Too tight to come back on its own and tight enough to actually prevent ejaculation. Sooo after a few years i would say its less sensitive than it was then but only slightly so and probably nothing like someone who has had one all their life. Its also super sensitive on the top. Too sensitive at times. e.g during orgasm. I dont regret it at all, I think it looks better and feels better, its a bit harder to get yourself started giving yourself a handjob cos its dry and theres no foreskin to slide over. also theres one thing I have noticed is that in the UK women are just not used to it and their 'with foreskin' technique dont seem to apply the same and explaining is kind of well...not many women are happy to take advice on how to give a handjob lol. It is a different technique though entirely because its just so much more sensitive in certain areas. chromeboy just out of curiosity would you consider your circumcision to be a tight one becase i think i asked the surgeon to make it not like that so i do have some skin that can be pulled over the top of the head a tiny bit but its still a full circumcision. I think i was worried at that stage how it would be and i wasnt technically originally having a circumcision but surgery to enable my foreskin to retract, in the end they did the full circ just not a tight one
I personally do not care, I feel for the most part they can not help it. And foreskin is only natural. But if he does not have any, I don't mind that either.
I think the reason for having a circumcision was that it makes the area more hygienic. That being said, as long as you keep the area clean, (cut or not) most women wouldn't care. There are some who are immature and will only prefer a cut man. The majority of men (in the world) are uncut (not circumcised). And uncut is natural. DH was circumcised when he was a baby, so he doesn't know any different. I agree with a previous poster, enjoy what you have. There's no going back. BUT you should double and triple check with drs to make sure everything healed properly and there isn't a physical issue causing the loss of sensation.
I would have preferred to remain intact given the choice, suppose its like a lolly with a wrapper that won't come off.
I find uncut penises more beautiful and I prefer to worship them than the cut ones. For intercourse, it doesn't matter. The difference is for oral and handjobs. It wasn't your fault. You had to get the circumcision. Don't worry about it. You can't change your penis, but you can change from partner.
Just a thought here, preference is not a case of someone being immature. I prefer them cut because I am used to them cut, only had one partner who wasn't and he always said he wished he was. The difference to me is partly looks but also the feel of it during intercourse, how does that make any woman immature? Some guys like big boobs, some like em small does that make them immature? Nope just says he likes them that way but you don't often see a man or woman turn away someone they fall for because everything isn't perfect, it's honesty being said. My guy likes a mid sized ass, not small ones like mine or chubby ones that bounce around but he loves mine anyway and even makes jokes about it, in a good way and is always playing with it. I think the fact that he told me that makes him mature, he fessed up and was honest right in the beginning. If he had a hood and asked me of I preferred cut ones I would tell him honestly but I wouldn't dump him or make a fuss for him to fix it. That would be immature. I knew and cared for him long before he whipped it out and it turns out it's cut. BTW, he said his first thought was, "No ass but I liking her,,," he still laughs about his first thoughts when he met me, mind you I told him during one of our phone calls before we met, "I got no ass but I like it played with anyway, figure that one out Buddy" he still laughs about that too.
Would that apply to other things too? Like if my girlfriend said "I really like you, your an ugly motherfuxxxr but I really like you anyway" or " i love you, your cock is like a chimps cock and pretty gross but i love you anyway" I don't know if I would like that personally. I personally would find it hard to be critical of someone's body who I loved and actually state my preferences of other body types, sounds really mean, honest but mean. I'd be like go an find yourself a medium sized ass then u cheeky fucker, get the fuck outta here. Get yr hands of my small ass!
Doesn't matter to me. I wouldn't worry yourself though. Not something that was your fault. If it was causing you pain it was probably for best to be circumcised.
When I was in my 20s I had a cycling accident, following an epileptic seizure, when I turned to wheel 90 degrees to the right. The bike stopped dead, and I didn't, causing me to fly straight into the handlebar stem. Next thing I knew there was blood running down my leg, soaking my pants. At the hospital I was found to have torn the foreskin (if it wasn't there it would have seriously damaged the glans). It was decided that the foreskin could be saved by the use of 3 - 4 sutures, and for a while, everything was fine. However, in time, the scar tissue became strained with regular masturbation & (regrettably) less regular sex & kept tearing, albeit very slightly. However, the continual opening of the wound & the repeated healing process caused the skin to gradually tighten until it eventually became difficult & painful to retract the foreskin. Eventually, a couple of years ago, there was nothing else for it but to undergo a circumcision. Fortunately my surgeon was of the school who was opposed to circumcision unless absolutely essential, and as a result he was able to remove the affected section only, leaving me with about ½ my previous foreskin. Even though I still have some of my foreskin left, meaning that I haven't totally shriveled up, as is the case with full circumcisions, if it had been possible I would much rather I had not had to undergo the procedure at all, as it definitely does have a detrimental effect to the sensations experienced. I'm not so sure that women can really tell any difference between a circumcised penis & a non-circumcised on once penetrated, though, as once aroused the foreskin usually retracts completely anyway which, to all intents & purposes, will give it the same physical traits of a fully circumcised penis. The only thing that's likely to make any difference, as far as the woman is concerned are the aesthetic values & in my opinion I personally prefer the appearance of an intact, unmutilated penis (including how my own one used to be) by far.
Cut as a baby, but I have a "loose" circumcision, which allows me to pull what is left entirely over the glans when soft and 2/3 over when erect. I masturbate just iike an uncut guy. Never felt a loss of sensitivity.