A question for those that like to give pleasure......

Some of us would rather give pleasure than receive in bed. What turns you on so much about giving pleasure? For me, I just like to lick and use my mouth. I like exploring the other person's body. Hearing the other person moan and making then orgasm is just part of the thrill, but my body gets very turned on at giving someone pleasure.

 

Same. I think I like it because I'm in control and I'm always submissive so it's nice to take the reins.

 

Absolutely. I love to give pleasure for all the same reasons.

 

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definitely - I get pleasure and turned on by getting someone else turned on.

Simon :sunny:

 

there is a certain satisfaction when the person your licking has juice flowing into your mouth its like a prize for a job well done.

 

I love making the wife orgasm, and usually when she feels really grateful, the reciprocation is awesome too

But yes, if you are a generous lover, you will find your pleasure increases tenfold. Nothing better than knowing you did a job well done

 

Going down on a woman and her orgasming is a wonderful thing.

 

Have any "receivers" felt suprised at your preferences? My friends that like to receive pleasure demand that their partners give them multiple orgasms or give pleasure in hopes that they would receive something back. That's not important to me. Sure, it's nice to be able to orgasm, but I would be more angry if I couldn't worship someone else's body.

 

Hmmm... Interesting question for sure. I wonder if that isn't a teeny tiny part of the motivation lol...

Could be for some for sure.

Sounds like you are a very giving partner... Any luck finding the bloke that liked that sort of thing?

Anyway, back on topic, I know a girl that absolutely positively HAD to have her pussy licked first or she wouldn't orgasm, and if she didn't orgasm she got pretty pissy about it after....

:afro:

 

See, some of the best intimacy sessions I've had is when I didn't orgasm. I feel bad for orgasming too soon, because I lose interest after I've had that first orgasm. I have yet to experience multiple orgasms.


I haven't been actively dating. Need to put myself out there again!
It will take time though to get to know someone and bring up that topic.

 

For me the same as many other people here, I love to see her in total pleasure.

But receiving is pretty good too, always has been my favorite...

 

That's one of the beauties of sexual intimacy, if it's done right. If you do your best to give pleasure to your partner, you receive it in turn. It's a win-win situation.

When receiving Anal, assuming my partner is acting in a considerate manner, I'm getting serious prostate stimulation which, in turn, causes me to have involuntary orgasmic contractions, which tighten around his penis, thus increasing his own experience, causing him to further adjust his pace accordingly.

Of course, the same situation of giving resulting in receiving applies to all other forms of sexual activity as well. "So As Ye Give, Ye Shall Receive!"

 

I just like satisfying people in general, sexually or not. Doing a good deed makes me feel good...and that transfers to the bedroom. Plus, the noises I can make my boyfriend make is also entertaining.

 

Please consider this: . . before you start dating it might be more productive to explore every aspect of giving yourself pleasure (just fingers, no vibrators etc) . . . teach your genitals to be just as sensitive as your mouth now is . . . enough exploration and I'm guessing that given enough time you'll find them super-similar . . . and interconnected along with probably other spots on your body . . . but don't expect self induced multi-orgasms

After you become an expert on teasing and pleasing your own genitals it's time to add a partner's input and go in search of mutual multiple orgasms.

Enjoy your pursuit of pleasure!

 

I masturbate frequently and vibrators can make my clitoris cum quite intensely. I've tried to have g-spot orgasms, but pressuring myself doesn't work.

After using vibrators, I find that my fingers no longer work as well. It's a good idea to take a break from the vibrator.

 

For me same as the original posting. I am a total bottom, the thought of being a top doesn't even get me hard. I love having my legs over my bf's shoulders and him knowing he can hammer my ass as hard as he wants. But nothing for me beats giving him a blowjob from start to finish and feeling him shoot a big load down my throat. It's part of my submissive fantasies I guess.

 

The G spot orgasm is incredibly hard for a woman to do on her own I would imagine... But yes, multiple orgasms can't be done when pushed.

When you are horny, and you have an orgasm, and you just aren't into it anymore, well, odds are you can't have multiple orgasms. It's when you come once and you are still horny that you can do multiple orgasms.

I love making my wife cum 4 or 5 times before blowing my load inside her, of course by the 5th time she is cumming her pussy sucks my dick so hard it's not an option to not cum, it just happens! :afro: