if you were in a heterosexual relationship, would you be as pissed if your gf/bf cheated on you with someone of the same sex, as if they cheated with someone of a different sex. i personally wouldnt be mad at all if my gf cheated with a girl, and heres my reason why, if a girl cheated on me with a guy it means that what i have to offer isnt as good as what he has. BUT, i cant offer the same things a woman can, so its ok. but i would be mad i couldnt be there
i had this conversation with somebody the other day. if my boyfriend cheated on me with another guy i would be pretty shocked, but not mad. i'd have alot of questions for him haha
I would be like either I am included next time or were thru maybe she might think i was into it or offended by it :/
If she kissed a girl of more i wouldn't care, i'd wanna join in lol. If it was with a guy, i'd wanna beat his ass but i'd just smoke a bowl and say fuck them.
You know, I think this is one of those situations where I really dont know how I would react. I think I would have to actually be in the situation to know for sure. I think I would feel a little insulted that they didnt talk it over with me first but I'm not sure. Allthough some people would be ashamed to talk about it and go around your back, good question.
I had this conversation with someone this past week, and thats what I said. To be honest, if someone cheated on me I would break up with them whichever sex they were doing it with.
I wouldn't want to continue having sex with my boyfriend if he had sex with another guy. I wouldn't be mad at that, but I wouldn't want his dick in me after he had it in someone else's asshole. I don't do anal sex, so I'm not into that kind of thing.
i think that anal sex has such a bad rap, like ppl think if a chick likes it in the ass shes a slut, NOT TRUE, i know a guy who are with a girl that was a virgin when they met. and she lets him violate the den of sin. so she is definitely not a slut. but i think woman have a different attitude towards gay men, than men have an attitude about lesbians
what if she got fucked with a strap-on? then.. technically the girl is offering something better than what you had..
no.. but you have nipples.. you're just tryin to justify the cheating in whatever way makes you feel "good" about the situation.. cheating is going behind your partners back to do something he/she would not find appropriate.. or want to keep secret from their partner.. thus i can not have trust in this person if i found such a thing out.. its one thing if they would be like "so.. i've really been wanting to have a same sex fuck" and you say "ok" or you say "no".. personally i would say OK in either situation.. because like you said.. its completely different from a m/f relation.. but when its done behind the back.. that just leads to lies.. and more lies.. and less truth..
I concur with all those saying "cheating is cheating". I've been cheated on and it hurts so badly. I have "hooked up" with other people while I was with my girlfriend, BUT I always talk about it before hand with her and gain consent, so in my mind and in her mind, this is not cheating or breaking any laws of our relationship. I don't care who you cheat with, male or female, it is still going behind your partners back and violating their trust. If you want to explore with another person, it is important to verbalize this to your partner. You should both accept these feelings and not be shameful, whether or not you act on these feelings should be discussed rather than doing things hidden and ruining the trust you share. The only "real" boyfriend I had let me hook up with girls all the time... and I turned into a lesbian... so beware to all the dudes that think it'lll be hot if you let your girl love on some other girl!
Don't get me wrong, I love gay guys, in fact a lot of my friends are flaming males and I love the shit out of them... I was just saying that if my boyfriend had sex with a guy and <i>his</i> dick was in that guy's ass... call me old'fashioned, but I don't want that back inside of me. That's how it is. It's a hygiene thing for me. I ono.
If she cheats with a girl...by that time i wouldn't be so surprised..because I always try to encourage my girlfriends to kiss beautiful girls... close your eyes and imagine.. maybe something nice happens afterward...some videotaping maybe some teasing...who knows?? some lap dances..and that might take it to another level..uhh yeah!!...so ill be like hell yeah bring it on babe...now if she cheats on a dude...Ill have to quote my friend reefer rogue...I'd roll a nice fat blunt smoke it with them and wish em the best of luck...theres a lot of fish out in the water...you cant let a minimal thing like that bring your emotions down...If she is meant for you..then it wont happen...Your sou lmate might be still waiting for you...I know mine is..
