I moved into this apartment with my friend and we have a peeping tom problem. This dude likes to watch my roommate get dressed in morning, get undressed at like 3am sometimes through her window. This morning, I saw him gawking at her window. He stands at the Credit Union next door, paces, and looks up and gawks in. Now that a tree has grown leaves, he stands further to the side so that he can get a better view of her inside the apartment. He doesn't have a cellphone, he isn't waiting for anyone. This morning I saw him just pace and leer into the window, as soon as I went to stare back at him from another window, he saw me and took off down our street. Other people have noticed him as well. A friend of ours was scared when she went outside to get something in her car, as he was leering at her, she called us on her cell because she was so uncomfortable, before he left. He was standing in the same spot that I saw him today. Okay, so it's 7:30am when this happened. Description of this man: - About 6' tall, trim build, appears to be in his mid 30s. - Balding almost completely on the top of his head, but has buzzed short brown hair on the sides - Wearing a solid brown golf shirt with white and blue stripes, worn brown cargo shorts, and brown working boots - the kind that a roofer would wear. - He had a yellow rubber cancer bracelet on right hand WHAT DO I DO ABOUT THIS GUY? The previous tenant here was a male, and now it's just the two of us girls living here. I want to confront him or yell at him through the window, but I'm not sure. Also, I've decided that my roommate really needs curtains.
with a friend go confront him the next time he takes up the tree spot... how far away is the tree from your roommates window?
You should get your friend who lives with you to stand in front of the window and get changed while the guy is looking. While she is getting changed call the cops and tell them the guys is looking in windows and he looks like he wants to rob your house and give them a perfect description. Then when the cops arrive to arrest him go down there and say "I've seen this guy staring in my windows while I've been changing and I'm scared he's trying confront me now". Then he'd be FUCKED.
Changing in front of a window without curtains and pretending to be concerned when someone looks sounds fun.
Yes, we're going to report him. It's only a matter of trying and catching him, I think. We have a couple police officer friends that we're going to talk to - and we want to report it. It's not exactly normal for him to come by so regularly. Tree is at least 15 feet away from the window. There is a fence on that side keeping it in too. We live in the upper level of a house. That's a really good idea CC. Hmm...
We've all done it. Please don't blame my roommate okay? This isn't normal. I mean, it's normal for someone to look but this guy has made a habit out of it and is outside my apartment creeping around trying to see in.
I betcha if you lean out of the window and say "Hi!", he stops. But who can be sure? It might be a better idea to make a big deal out of very little.
OK I didn't read the whole thread. But when I get changed, I close the curtains/blinds. Doesn't your friend do the same? If someone wants to see my dick, I show it them. Or punch em in the face. Simple yeah?
Depending if they're a girl, or a guy! Or was it the other way around... Waitaminute, did she do it once? or did she do it several times? EDIT: You're both male. I can say I haven't but you're probably best asking some females.
Well said Prax. I mean, I've got my dick out in bars lots of times. But changing with the blinds open, thats just weird...
depends if I'm feeling cunning or psychotically angry. Gays have lots of fit female friends.And they gossip alot. So logically perhaps I should show my dick to gays too. Altho it worries me they're gonna mince it a gay bar after seeing it and go "Oooohhhhh girlfriend, that sweetie-hunk Resso, he's hung like a horse"
i've never even once changed in front of a window that didn't have blinds or curtains. i mean, c'mon, even i'll look up and watch a girl change, and if it's fairly regular, i'll assume she likes being watched and show up again.
I'm just waiting for the thread "Some pervert keeps flashing at me, when I go to the credit union..." PS its interesting how this thread comes from the resident Radical Feminist Theorist here.Correct Arist? Reminds me of my university.All the women ( not men)had free buses home after dark.Paid for from the *guys* union fees.Because there was a vote deciding "all men are rapists"...