Let's say that two people in a relationship have different opinions on what makes a room comfortable to sleep in. The man likes the room to be cold no matter what the weather is like, no matter what the temperature happens to be. He would like the air condition on 24/7 and has it on as often as possible. He even sleeps with a fan on. And only uses a sheet. He hates falling asleep to music. The woman likes to be comfy and snug..If she feels cold, she would like the heater on. She always sleeps with a blanket. Room temperature doesn't bother her. The sound of a fan is actually bothersome to her, but will deal with it for her partner. She likes silence (with the exception of nice soothing music to fall asleep to..) I was in this exact scenario in a relationship and while it seemed simple to solve, this caused so many issues and constant fighting. I would tell him to go ahead and have a fan on himself in the bedroom, just to please keep it off of me. This would never work and we'd end up sleeping in completely different rooms. He would be on the couch with his fan blaring and often with the ac on. I would be in the bedroom and just close the ac air vent. What would your solution be in a scenario like this? have you ever gone through something like this?? I'd like to hear from both men and women and see how they would handle this. ..or it could be the other way around where the man prefers to be warm and the woman cold and with whatever gender//orientation is your preference Should I make sure that my next partner has the same ideal of sleep comfort as me next time around??