a different small issue

ok ive been talkin to this chick for the last week or 2.she is a friend of a friend.well the "friend"has been trying to hook us up.just found out the other day.she sounded great on the phone and FB.she doesnt like the cigarette and weed smoking.i want to quit cigs anyways.but i dont want to quit weed.i told her that for now till we see where things are headed(i think she wants a relationship,im not sure what i want yet)that id cut way down and be sober when im with her.finally got to meet her last night.fuckin crazy ass night!!!!!didnt get home till 4:30AM and we left at 10:00PM last night.but she is everything i wanted from my ex.i couldnt pay my ex to wear a dress or skirt.first niht and we were just going for a ride,shes wearing a dress!she says girls are supposed to wear skirts and dresses.alon with other thing that have been said.i think its headed towards relationship soon.

how would i go about telling her i dont want to give up weed?does "doing it on my own time when im wherever and she is at work"sound good?

 

Sounds like weed has become a part of your life, it's now one of the things that make you you. If you don't want to give it up, then you should be honest with her. If she's the right girl for you, then she might tolerate it. If not, then it may not work out.

Either that, or you quit smoking weed. If the feelings you have for her are strong enough, they might manifest themselves in the form of the actual want/desire to quit. In that case, you might be able to quit without much problem.

At any rate, it's only been a couple weeks, so I'd take things one at a time if I were you.

Good luck!

 

oh im takin it one step at a time.im also letting her make the moves.but this has already come up with her and with her friend.she seemed content with me cuttin back and being sober when with her.i did bring it up on the way home,just to explain what it does for me and why i like it.but i guess see what happens once again.but so far im doin good with this chick

 

Your age says you're 31. There's no way. You sound like you're in highschool.

Regardless, you're hardly into any kind if relationship right now, giving up weed sounds like that's giving up a lot for this girl, especially if you're not ready for a relationship.