69 position and not reaching orgasm

Question: who reaches orgasm from from the 69 position. My wife and I learned a long time ago that neither one could reach orgasm or cum in this position. I think it is a mind game. We are so caught up in pleasing the other that we can’t or don’t allow ourself to cum. 69 is probably our least favorite position. Who else loves it and achieves orgasms or not?
What say you HF members. Men and women

 

Couldn't agree more with you. 69 looks good on paper and in porn. But I have never really enjoyed it. I'm too busy trying to please my partner to really enjoy the blowjob I am getting. I'd rather just take turns giving each other oral.

 

I have not been real successful coming from a blowjob in general, I can't think of any technique change that would improve it but my wife usually gets tired before I blow. We have done 69 to get started and it was helpful getting aroused but yes I agree it is doubtful either of us would finish that way.

 

69 is a good pleasure position but usually end up not either finishing that way

 

My wife doesn't like 69 but she will cum in that position. I've only cum once in that position and that was my buddies first wife when we used to swap.

 

I agree. I’m not a fan of that position. If I’m getting oral I want to be able to lay back and completely enjoy it.
I’ve never orgasmed during 69 and my husband has only once that I can recall. We will usually do it for a couple minutes and then move on to something else.

 

69 i snice for variety. As I enjoy her pussy she'll play with my balls and stroke me. Neither of us cums that way.

 

I am in a 3some relationship with my hubby & our girlfriend. What works well for us is both us girls 69ing each other, hubby learns over the top girl & fucking her arse occasionally getting his dick sucked by the bottom girl. Agree that a lot of people don't cum in this position. Everyone seems to be more focused on pleasing their partner in this position. We seem to be able to cum though

 

Yeah I think I would cum in that circumstance too but I am not sure what number that would be .

 

I myself can easily cum in this position as can my wife and our shared male lover. My wife prefers me in the top position so she can suck both my cock and balls while working a dong in my bung hole which during a sloppy mouth fuck I'll provide a nice load for her just after she orgasms all over my face. With our shared lover it's easy for both myself and him to cum while we're 69 sucking each other because many times my wife is sucking our balls or pegging us with her strap on.

 

While it isn't our favorite position, neither my wife or I have any problem whatsoever reaching orgasm. Compatibility is something that is learned. And practice makes perfect! I love practicing!

 

I love that position simply because I love eating her pussy and making her squirt over and over! I love being on bottom. BUT... it's like most of you, I've never reached orgasm because I'm concentrating on working her pussy with my tongue. And even though she's cock hungry, she rarely has it in her mouth because she's going crazy with orgasms. We don't do it very often anymore because we just do everything else oral.

 

I personally get reach an orgasm because my husband somehow doesn't stop with his tongue in me until I do but he doesn't reach it because I cannot go for more than a few minutes sucking his cock in that position so he always ends up screwing me immediately after because he is erect from the foreplay

 

I agree it is a good start but having her lay back and let me satisfy her is the best. It is the only position I could get her to squirt in . For me looking down seeing her swallowing my cock is great . It does not take me long to cum as she is also playing with my balls

 

We love to do it. There is something lovely and animaly about lying together in that position licking and nuzzling and smelling each other. But no, its just part of the experience and we never finish that way.

 

When we were young my SO could orgasm while in this position. I couldn't and have never orgasmed from oral no matter the position. We had to become careful as one time she bit down when she orgasmed. It was a reflex action and after that she made sure to disengage beforehand. She was very powerful in those days often clamping her legs around my head and bearing down hard on my skull. Then she would shake and tremble all over giving me the ride of my life. She was very multi orgasmic being able to do so both clitoral and vaginally. Many times we orgasmed together when joined. Those were great times in our sex life together.

 

Both my husband and myself can climax when in the 69 position but for me it's not a position I like particularly, less so if I find myself on the underneath so to speak.
He knows I'm not a fan of it but he is so when he initiates the act I say nothing and just go with the flow.

 

Neither of us have a problem cumming in the 69 position

 

Same here .

 

My wife orgasms but I don't...I'm a big fan of the position during foreplay though...love having her sit on my face, I usually have to hold her down as she nears orgasm and I love fingering her ass at the same time!