[52][M4M][Buffalo] Inexperienced seeks 60+ Daddy

You might've seen other ads from me and yes, they are all over the board. Please don't judge me while I try to figure myself out and figure out what I want.

Another thing you might know about me is I've struggled with my sexuality for years but I have finally accepted and embraced my bisexuality. And to be blunt about it ever since then I have become REALLY horny for guys.

Also since my life as a bisexual I have developed a desire for older men that I never had. I don't know why older men never figured into my fantasies when I was trying to figure things out. Still, in my gay fantasies I'm usually submissive so a man older than me would fit that fantasy.

It's kind of hard to describe what I'm looking for in a man and a relationship. I really want to let my submissive side take over in this, so I guess this would be something like a D/s relationship. I'm looking for some kind of discipline structure a man older than me can provide, but I'm looking for someone more like a mentor. I would like to call that person a Daddy. I look forward to getting tied up, but I also look forward to being challenged and growing from new experiences. Since I'm in my early 50s, someone in their 60s and older would make sense to fit the role but I'll keep an open mind.

I understand any relationship or experience will not happen overnight. It's going to take some time for me to feel comfortable submitting myself to you. The day I give myself to you will be one of the happiest days of my life, but it will be my decision and based on my discretion.

I'm in the Buffalo/WNY/716 area. Please be within reasonable distance. Also please don't be married or involved unless everyone involved is OK with this. Drug and disease free too please. Safe, sane and consensual.

I can't wait to meet you, Daddy! We will make each other so happy!

 

Nice ad! I'm about to turn 62, single and live technically nearby (Niagara Falls, Ontario), but I am unfortunately not a Dom and not into the bondage stuff for the most part. I'm just a masculine top (hoping one day to become versatile) who is mostly gay. It's taken me 30 years to finally figure that out, so I can understand the confused period very well. But I just wanted to wish you all the best luck and good fortune in finding a man of your dreams.

 

Thanks for the wishes! It's an interesting journey.

 

Damn, damn, damn. We're just about as far apart as we can be and still live in the CONUS. I think we would do well together.

Instead I'll just wish you good fortune.

 

Thanks! It's a shame.