Discussion in 'Relationships' started by cat, May 18, 2004.

  1. cat

    cat Member

    ......I seem to be incapable of being happy. I'm going out with my bf, he loves me so much, I love him too (I think), but I keep thinking about all these other guys....not just random ppl, guys I've known for years and have always liked, even one of his best mates. I really want this guy I'm with to be The One, but at the same time, I don't. I want another person to be the one. I don't know who tough. I have fun with my bf, and he offers me everything I want but......... I don't know. I just feel like theres somethin missing. I know if I broke up with him I would want him back (thats whats just happened and we're back together) but now I'm back with him, sometimes I'm really happy and the rest of the time I spend thinking about other guys.

    I'm not really looking for advice, I just had to write this. Cat xx
  2. ZePpeLinA

    ZePpeLinA Jump around!

    Hey Cat!!
    I know you are not looking for advise but I feel inspired today...I think it's best for you to chill and not take things so seriously. I know you feel guilty thinking about other guys, but as long as you know that you wont cheat on your guy i dont think it's so horrible!! perhaps you're not ready to commit to a guy, but in any case, just enjoy life and dont complicate yourself with things like these. enjoy your boy's company and enjoy being young!!!!!!!
    Life is too short:)
  3. cat

    cat Member

    Thats probably the best and most uplifting advice I've ever been given on this board. Thank you. Cat xx
  4. kier

    kier I R Baboon

    just take it one step at a time

    don't force yourself to smile, just be yourself. he may not be the one, but just take it how it goes, act how you feel, and have fun!!!

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