2017 New Year Resolutions

Are you going to make any? If yes, what are they?

I have a couple that I have been thinking about.

I want to train for and run in a half marathon next year.

No more crushes on other men. I think I use crushes on other men as a way to validate my ego, and I have come to realize that isn't exactly the most healthiest thing for me, so no more crushes. Instead, I want friends. Not just acquaintances, but quality friends, people who know or want to know what makes me tick, and vice versa. There has been some shit that happened in my personal life very recently that really made me realize who my true friends are, and who is a superficial coward when it comes to standing up for what you know is right.

 

i never do resolutions. if i want to change something, i do it when i decide i want to change it. waiting for new year just gives me an opportunity to change my mind and not end up doing it.

 

i resolved not to, i forget what year it was, haven't broken it yet.

also i find, casting anything in concrete just needlessly makes it harder to do.

if i want to change something, i kind of sneak up on it and change before it gets a chance to resist being changed

so the idea of resolutions to me, is kind of like the idea of a jinx

 

Bring about World Peace.

No, I haven't got any. To be honest I just want to get through Christmas. Last year's was a disaster.

 

Get more shit published, both fiction and journo, and preferably get a full time writing gig as opposed to freebies and freelancing.

Go up a couple of belts in Jujitsu, lose a couple of pounds round the belly.

Get out of the country, haven't traveled anywhere in almost 2 years now. I'm thinking Prague and Lisbon.

 

Not doing a resolution, because like I'minmyunderwear, I change on my own terms and that space between decision and action has a shit ton of doubt in it.

That said, my family's doing the whole30 challenge. Not as a resolution but because we don't like feeling old as shit in our thirties, man.

 

I'm up in court for charges on the 9th, one of which is a hate crime. Homophobia.

You couldn't find a "straight" guy more gay lesbian transgender friendly than me

So I have no resolutions.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=cJRP3LRcUFg

 

Thanks to everyone for not talking about this, it's still a please not talk about situation, and I'm still having a breakdown. I've got the support of lesbianism at least, local people for local pubs.

 

I'm thinking about writing an article about it.

edit. also, I'm not joking. I really am up in court on a charge of homophobia

 

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=AitXDDv155A

 

What does the challenge entail???!?!?!

 

I'm so sorry

 

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=AIacGv3BOHs&list=FLiITNvgjm7dDaWyxNFKtIeA&index=74

 

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=AL8chWFuM-s

 

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=1N5BnNq74KQ

 

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=4kSvN1dQjxc

 

March south

 

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6QuCNQZASWE

 

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=V-w0nweTB1E