Hi, Im currently 20 and a virgin... I was just wondering what men thought about this. Now many will be wondering if I am goodlucking and/or a tease. the answer is that yes Ive been told i am goodlooking (green eye, long eyelashes and long brown hair - if that helps you) and no I am not a tease. I have given and gotten oral sex but I just havent had sex. My reason is that I havent found a good guy that i want to sleep with. My ex's havent cared at all that ive been a virgin but these two ex's turned out to be asswhole who were kind of controlling.. so i didnt want to sleep with them.... So guys... what do you think about a 20 year old virigin?? Good or Bad?? please stay on topic I just wanna know what the consensus is !! Thanks
I think it's absolutely fine to be 20 & still a virgin, especially for a young woman. It's tough because I remember when I went out with a girl for the first time, I respected her BUT it was hard not putting pressure on her because of the way I felt. Now I'm older it's easier for me to control the urges. Waiting until you're ready is the right option as you want your first experience to be someone who respects you.
fbi dude said it all i think its wonderful that your 20 and a virgin nithing at all wrong with that.. if we were going ouiut when i was like 19-20 tho like he said would be hard to not ..want and as much as ifd try to avoid putting pressure on ya the fact is my body would be puttin pressure on me to put pressure on u..lol but like he said now that im older controlling urges and putting respect above all else its easier the choice to keep ot lose yourt virginity is a personal one that shouldnt be influencred by anything oputside yourself when the times right u will know till then why should u care what anyone thinks but you?
It's your body. Do what you feel is right for you. There is plenty of pressure in life already, don't pressure yourself over this.
Nothing wrong with being a virgin. My wife was a virgin at 22 when we got married. She was saving herself for the right guy, who just happened to be me!
"Hi, Im currently 20 and a virgin... I was just wondering what men thought about this." - GirlDreamer I think Virgins are special, and you are precious.
I personally wouldn't have sex with you because you'd most certainly suck in bed. Every experience I've had with virgins was less than acceptable, imo. That said, I know there are guys who will want you purely for the psychological aspect of you being a virgin...
I had a long term relationship with a woman who had been a Catholic nun. She was 35 and I was 25. Our first time together, she was embarrassed to tell me she was a virgin. She ended up being an excellent lover. Too bad our relationship fizzled....
I'm sorry but I don't trust attractive women who claim to be virgins that are 20+. I just, don't believe it sorry. And not for my personal gains, I am engaged, but I just have friends who sometimes go out with 18-20 year old girls who say they're virgins and I always tell my friend she's probably testing you.
You're 20 and a virgin -- so what? Anyone that would actually be concerned about this is a mental midget.
I'm dating a girl right now who is 23 and a virgin, it's no big deal. It's just all the more awesome to get to know her and build trust so she can share her first time when she's ready.
You should feel good about yourself if anything. People are so skanky nowadays. Couples cheating on each other, spreading all types of diseases to each other... absolutely disgusting behavior. You're prime rib. Fresh meat. Be happy that you're one of the remaining few that aren't disgusting slobs. Btw, I lost my virginity at 21, so don't worry. It's tough out there to find a nice person to love and to have love with. Just scout out some nice ladies and take it from there =) Don't be so concerned about what others think. We aren't in high school anymore.
It is very admirable. Make sure you find a genuine Mr. Right though. Believe it or not, not all knockoffs are not made in China! Some are home grown...
