There could be a valid reason behind it. Maybe you don't look so attractive to him now than you were before. Try changing your image in a way that...
The proper girl could probably be hiding and waiting for the right time to come out in hiding. Relax! I know that you will have your time....
At the onset, you would know whether the girl is interested with you. If your gut feel is that she isn't, then chances are you are correct....
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