good point. she did give me a lot of happiness. I think I relied on her too much for that. that's what makes this so hard but you're right.
no I dont think you're trying to make me feel bad. this whole ordeal just crushed my soul. its just very confusing because she knew what she...
I tried to be supportive with her. another poster mentioned that this relationship is toxic for both of us and they were right. i told her i...
thanks man you're right. I need to focus on myself. I spent so much time focusing on and pleasing her that I can now use that energy on improving...
thanks to everyone who responded to this thread. its hard to talk about things like this with people in the real world face to face. I can tell it...
I'm sure it will reach that point. but not for the time being. its only been a week and a half and I'm still pretty raw over it. I was so...
thanks. you're right. I haven't been rude or verbally abusive towards her or anything but I've been very resitant and resentful over this, and...
I agree with eveything you said. and its not the fact that we split which bothers me. its the deception days beforehand. I just didn't appreciate...
yeah good call on that one. she just messages me and tries to guilt me. she's trying to keep her options open and my heart is my biggest weakness....
this seems to be what she wants. I've poured my heart out to her after the breakup. she knows how I feel about her but still feels the way she...
thank you for the advice. its all just confusing because she said she didn't feel like this when she was at home with me but maybe now that she's...
thanks this helps put things into perspective a bit. but she's 21 and I'm 27. I haven't had much experience in relationships so my heart and my...
rescued or salvaged......sorry it wouldn't let me fit my whole post
I could really use some help putting my my relationship into perspective. me and my ex dated for about a year and I could tell you we both loved...
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