I understand what you mean. I think I got overexcited and made this something in my head that is definitely is not. This is why I typically...
I think I want him to be complicated. And am seriously in danger of projecting my desires of what I want him to be like, and setting the stage for...
I don't disagree with you that the majority of females have a game-playing nature. I agree with that fact, and believe the majority of men are...
I value the advice you've given me, thank you.
Trust my instinct and act, with the security of understanding the worst that could happen is not as painful as losing this opportunity. I have...
It's in my nature to dissect things to death :P
This may be viable. It is probably because I'm female, that I have all these deepseated thoughts about the situation. For him, if his mind is on a...
If there is still anyone reading this thread who is interested in sharing their advice, I want to spell out another concern of mine: Since he's...
I have my own place in a manner of speaking, but it would not be useful for this purpose. I do have access to a private building that I want to...
Do you use "mature" to mean more aged than early 40s, or to mean his level of personal maturity? Sorry for all my clarification requests...
How is what I said evidence for females playing games? (here you are bitterly insinuating dishonesty and teasing). By testing social skills, I...
I do appreciate all your responses. I like seeing a man's perspective and it's helping me make my own thoughts more concrete and decide what...
When I read (reed, not red) this, I understand you as apart of the "normal" spectrum, regardless of your sexual tastes, fetishes, etc. I'm stating...
I appreciate this insight to a man's perspective. As for your 2 described approaches, there is definitely middleground, or other-ground. Neither...
Every human makes a decision, whether conscious or not, in their level of genuineness [as I termed it here- following our higher, integrated...
I too don't understand what you mean by this.
Yes, I definitely would make that clear, and he is already aware I'm moving far away very soon, so it being a fling would already be in his head...
By "true to my nature", I mean approaching everything genuinely and as myself, and not play-acting to manipulate him into getting my way. I guess...
I don't understand what you mean by the second sentence, but yes, one of my "qualifiers" I've decided in my head is that in a context of a serious...
I think I'm torn between either doing the silly things that may be necessary to have him, or just doing what feels right and natural to me, and...
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