I think how hard a spanking I like varies, sometimes I like to be stripped and whipped and other times over a knee and hand spanked until I glow...
Have you tried showing him a picture of a well beaten bottom and told him you would love to have that done to your bottom.
Bare bottom, definitely, with a woodbacked hair brush, plastic just doesn't seem to do it. The cane is when I really have been naughty and deserve...
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