Literotica is a veritable fountain! Love that site. Maybe some day I'll write something down and post it, if I can get my hands out of my crotch...
Whenever I can....! I'm all for the slow buildup, too - getting close and then easing off again and again makes for a much more intense orgasm!
I think porn is slowly making a turn for the better, but it's still mostly a male-dominated business. Personally, I'm pretty happy with either...
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