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Over-protective controlling parents who refer to your chores as your "job"?
I have a certain time I need to be in my bed at, and a certain time I need to be up and doing my designated chores. I wake up to at least 3 lists of chores (all saying the sane exact things). I get talked to like I'm an incompetent child, who is a spoiled brat and demands material things.
I'm 23 and fucking sick of this. It doesn't matter whether I do the chores on time, follow rules, don't talk back, & cook dinner 3 times a week, I get yelled at either way.
I follow the rules, I get in trouble. I break the rules, I get in trouble.
Not to mention the double standards in this house. It's the "house rule" that computers aren't allowed in bedrooms. Yet, everyone has their laptop in their room. The only one who's not allowed to? Me.
How do I deal with this shit? I'm really getting tired of it. And therapy doesn't help, we've tried it and my parents go back to the sane shit.
Their parenting obviously has flaws, my older sister is anorexic, my brother I'd a shut in, and my other other brother killed himself at 24. Now I know why...