I know it sounds like a crazy question. But when I was younger (I'm 27 now) I came pretty quickly from receiving head. My partners seemed ok with it. Then I got married and my late wife seemed to prefer that it last a long time. I understand that rationale when fucking (and I do last pretty a pretty long time then) and assumed that I should have worked to last longer when being sucked. Now I am back in the dating world and my current girlfriend complained the other day that it hurt her jaw and throat to suck for a long time. She said she thought it was hot when I came in her mouth quickly and unexpectedly.
So what is the consensus?