Originally Posted by broony
Once when you get your first gape id be worried about not being able to hold your shit if you can't reach the bathroom...
It's certainly something to worry about but not in the 1.5-2 inch range.
I've gone as large as 2 inches before and even though I may get a large "urge to go" afterward I can always hold it back. 2 inches is my "that's crazy" limit, but it's fun play and a challenge. Size isn't everything though. You can get a gape from a 1 inch toy easy if you relax properly and leave it in for a little while. That said, anal play near a bathroom is always wise. You may hit a spot that makes you have to go pretty quickly.
If you're interested in gaping yourself or someone else I wouldn't let the "wont be able to hold it in" fear stop you. You're just training a muscle, as long as you dont tear it (always go slow) you will be fine. I'm sure people that go larger than 2 inches will say even that's fine, but I dont think I can do that.
Happy gapes, lol.
Some people on the boards are saying "push out" when you remove the toy to gape. I'm against that. be relaxed and be comfortable. The gape's only going to last a few seconds before your muscles go back to their original shape. Pushing out will just make someone close up soon after and maybe even push something undesired out.
Also, it's not genetics. It's careful sexual play lol.