Getting Help while giving head

So I'm not awful at giving head. I've had so many guys tell me how amazing I am. However, one thing I do lack is stamina. I usually end up asking a guy to help me by him getting himself closer to the end and letting me take over to finish. No one has refused this option yet, but I still feel bad about asking. Is it normal to ask for some help/is it rude to ask for help?

Have one of your friends take over for a while. I'm sure your bf won't mind.

Getting help is not that unusual, whilst I love getting head, I usually wank towards the end or it would take ages to cum..

I am skeptical of the seriousness of this thread.

Originally Posted by tricknologist

Have one of your friends take over for a while. I'm sure your bf won't mind.

First of all, I'm not into threesomes. Secondly, I don't have any friends that are. And thirdly, I definitely DEFINITELY do NOT have a bf. Ew.

Originally Posted by Razor50

Getting help is not that unusual, whilst I love getting head, I usually wank towards the end or it would take ages to cum..

See, that's my thing. Guys seriously take forever. I can usually go 20-30minutes, but then I just want it to be over/I'm not having fun anymore. Thank you for making me feel less unique.

Originally Posted by Mothman

I am skeptical of the seriousness of this thread.

I'm not trying to be funny. I really just don't know what's allowed/okay when doing stuff. I've lived a very sheltered life and don't have friends that I'd feel comfortable talking to about this.

Okay I'll bite. If you are serious then let me answer you seriously. I would zip my pants up and leave if a chick asked me to wank to get the job halfway done so I could tag her in later. I would suggest you get more comfortable with your sexuality and learn to throw in some dirty talk, use your hand to give your mouth a break, lick the shaft or stroke said shaft with yo lips and you should be fine.

Originally Posted by Mothman

Okay I'll bite. If you are serious then let me answer you seriously. I would zip my pants up and leave if a chick asked me to wank to get the job halfway done so I could tag her in later. I would suggest you get more comfortable with your sexuality and learn to throw in some dirty talk, use your hand to give your mouth a break, lick the shaft or stroke said shaft with yo lips and you should be fine.

Thank you for your honest answer. This was the reaction I would expect, but no guy has ever complained about it (perhaps at my age compared to yours they're still just happy to have a girl at all?) so I wasn't sure if it was a thing or if I was just different. The other guy said that he helps out, but you say that it's never happened to you, so maybe it's more common than I think, but less common than what should be expected/allowed.

20-30 minutes is quite a lot. Not going to say that you are doing something wrong - I have no idea how exactly you give head - but personally I don't think I ever lasted longer than 15 minutes with any woman. So to me it seems that there maybe something missing?
I'd also find it quite awkward if I heard something like: "sorry can you jack off for a bit? I'll finish you off in a minute."

Originally Posted by Mothman

Okay I'll bite. If you are serious then let me answer you seriously. I would zip my pants up and leave if a chick asked me to wank to get the job halfway done so I could tag her in later. I would suggest you get more comfortable with your sexuality and learn to throw in some dirty talk, use your hand to give your mouth a break, lick the shaft or stroke said shaft with yo lips and you should be fine.

Why don't you be nice and fuck the girl so she'll get something out of it too? Or take turns? I bet you don't have any skills at pussy licking.