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Old 06-18-2011, 10:51 AM   #1
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my dad and I have been having sex 15 years......
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I know I'll probably get a lot who won't like a postlike this but it just happened. I just barfed. I guess there are things everyone doesn't like intheir life. My dad has always said the first time he touched me was when I was about 1. I don't remember it or any abuse back then. I don't have many memories of what my life was like as a child. No one at school knows that I do this I try to stay out late stay with friends to stay away. I use make up to hide the bruises. I feel like since I'm a 16 year old guy that no one believe me pplus consentwise since I live there is it even sexual assault anylonger. I felt I needed to get it out there I've never admitted this to anything or anyone.
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Old 06-18-2011, 06:04 PM   #2
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hey hun, i' m glad u were able to share your story. I am 100% sure that someone in this forum is going through the exact same thing. This is sexual abuse and you are still a minor, its illegal.

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Don't ever say that, there are people who will listen and help out. 16, your still in h.s, i'm pretty sure your school counselor is able to help you out, or a close by community center.

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yes it is.

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Old 06-18-2011, 06:16 PM   #3
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first off congratulations in making the first step to progress, even if it is only admitting it to strangers.

to clarify things for you, YES this IS SEXUAL ABUSE! Do not try to convince yourself that any type of related behavior on your father's part is ok, because it's NOT.

I encourage you to get help, but unfortunately I don't have any good suggestions. I know several teachers who have told me that getting proof of parent abuse is near impossible even when they know it for certain themselves. It's a damn shame. With rape there are examinations that can be done within 24-48 hours for "proof." I'm not positive but that might be something worth looking into as you begin defending yourself.

do you and your father openly discuss things, you say he told you he touched you as early as when you were 1 yr old...I was just thinking, perhaps you could record him saying stuff or coming onto you, or whatever might be good evidence against him. Doing that might take some time, but I honestly think it might not be too bad of a plan as long as you can conceal the recorder and get good sound quality.

you can pm me too if need be, for anything. i really want you to know this is wrong, and i encourage you and support you in getting help!
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Old 06-19-2011, 08:45 AM   #4
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when I was younger he talked about the good old times. He never talks about it now. He usually uses a condom because I have sex with other girls and I've infected him before. I don't think people would believe me since I've been promiscuous and my dad seems reputable that it wouldn't sound plausible. Plus people think I'm disgusting for letting it happen. I'm 16. And the age of consent is 16 why I wonder if it's abuse or not.
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you have a statute of limitations on whatever happened before you were sixteen.

plus I think it is extended because of the nature of the crime, too. the way things are nowadays, if you accuse him, there WILL be an investigation.
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when I was younger he talked about the good old times. He never talks about it now. He usually uses a condom because I have sex with other girls and I've infected him before. I don't think people would believe me since I've been promiscuous and my dad seems reputable that it wouldn't sound plausible. Plus people think I'm disgusting for letting it happen. I'm 16. And the age of consent is 16 why I wonder if it's abuse or not.
Your a minor still, so its sexual abuse, and your father is sick, and you can't predict what people will think of you. If you want this to stop happening you should go to a counselor asap. if you don't speak how can someone help you.

What state do you live in?
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Old 06-19-2011, 03:31 PM   #7
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no statutes of limitations on rape. Your dads a sick person . It's not your fault.
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Old 06-21-2011, 08:05 PM   #8
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You were raped, and it was not your fault. You should talk to somebody, sadly we here can't really do anything more than offer our oppinion. Speak out, there is bound to be someone who can do something for you...
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Old 08-23-2011, 05:22 PM   #9
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the thing that concerns me is that your dad is not in jail?and if he abused you at one he must have told you?man heavy stuff /you may love your dad but how many more kids is he diddling <friends nephews,do these other innocents a favour report him NOW the police will look into abuse cases even 15 years on good luck
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Old 09-03-2011, 12:48 AM   #10
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this about brought tears to my eyes
you just need to know that your dad is a sick man...
no father in their right mind would do that. he needs
to be institutionalized. he could possibly have mental
problems which lead to his criminal behavior...
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