I'll admit it, I'm hideous, and thats where you come in

Your not hideous.Your pictures look different because of lighting and angles.Your features are pretty much the same from picture to picture.You have really big eyes so if your looking for makeup tips I would say play those eyes up.A little dark liner and some mascara with a good neutral shimmery shadow would really make them pop.I would suggest you thin your eyebrows out a little,I tweeze the lower part of my brows to thin them and give them more shape.Lots of women are waxing their brows now but I prefer tweezers because of the precision. Other than that you don't need to change a thing. Except maybe your alarming lack of a smile.Even the most beautiful super model isn't all that pretty when she scowls.

Originally Posted by Fingermouse

The attention you are trying to gain from this thread will be a filler for a hole in your mind.
You want to fill it because you know that something is wrong. If people direct you or shower you with compliments that may make the hole feel fuller for a while.

The hole is there for a reason. Don't just bung it up with garbage. Figure out why you're craving attention/reassurance/direction to this degree, and then alter your thought patterns.

If you genuinely think you're "hideous" with all your heart then you are delusional and have a mental disorder. See a doctor.

My guess is this is far more likely to be regular teenage anxiety about looks mixed in with some desire for approval or recognition from the outside world, whether you realise it or not. You're bright enough to know that an obvious plea for nice comments on your looks or sympathy wont get you far ("no sob story here") but to me, the desire in your post is still clear.

this is spot on. get over the insecurity. you're not special when it comes to that matter. there's nothing that needs to be fixed, other than your brain.

Aight girl. l know l smart man ho sad,

-Do you know why girls spend so mutch in-front of the mirror ?
-to look good l guess?
- No and yes Thay go to the mirror look and think damn lm sexy wow l look good in this jacket or jens or brah or whatever.

To be honest you look ok. looks like you dress well, but when l look ate you i feels like you are sad/ugly cant explain it,

only thing l can say is your confined you need to smile!!! Say to your self lm a sexy mother fucker and with one blink of an eye l can make a boy cum in he's pans!

its all in the confidens you need to beliv in your self and in time you will look better cuse you feel better you will be cuter/sexyer.

l have been down there, its not fun, but trust me it wont be better if you just sitt on your ass and think your ugly:P

be possitiv-1! god damnit! you only live ones go out and have fun,,, if some one say your ugly dont even care, ho are him/her to tell you that you look like shit or ugly or what ever....

take care!!

love from Sweden!

lots of teenagers feel the same way you do. maybe try to stop worrying about looks so much and just develop yourself in other ways. get a new hobby, study hard and learn interesting things, go out and meet some new people, go to a music festival, play outside.......distract yourself from superficial things such as the media's interpretation of beauty, which is waaay off to what most people think is beautiful anyways.
if you are confident in your abilities/skills then you WILL be attractive. if all you can think about is being pretty, then you will seem less pretty to people, but instead will seem rather shallow and vain. if you forget about being pretty and just say "fuck it! I don't care what you all think!" then i assure you people will find you more attractive.
also, you're only 15. i felt ugly when i was 15 too. it took until i got into college to realize that i was never ugly the whole time...I was just comparing myself to other "pretty" girls and felt ugly because i didn't look anything like them.
eat healthy, exercise, bathe, and that's all there is to it beauty comes from the inside out!
sorry this post is long, i am rambling...

Eat a balanced diet, get 8-9 hours of sleep a night, exercise, smile, get involved with something bigger than yourself, quit listening to BS "beauty" standards from mainstream media, or Suicide girls for that matter.

she's a young girl so i appreciate the kind wome who have taken the tine to reply to her in a sensitive instead of condenscending and judgemental manner. Yes, we all seek approval in different ways, and her way is a teenager's very age appropriate and innocent way of doing so- and god she didn't post anything provocative- and that says a lot! Pretty girl, don't just look at current fashion, study ALL the decades, and find your fashion and pop and counterculture pop icons, and study their style and then see which of the ones you consider most beautiful and whose style most relates to your soul also most compliments your skin tone and eye color- and ther is a good shade in every color for every color - red blonde and brown- and then there is cut and highlights lowlights, i mean let your soul and your beauty icons guide you- okay ?also, what is your ethnic heritage? Any questions? ASK ME!!!

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Originally Posted by Fingermouse

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Made This Thread The Day She Joined, Then Never Returned...



Cheers Glen.

yeah true this is ridiculous if you can't figure out your own look than its hopeless

You look quite young! How old are you?

I think you need to improve you self esteem for first and foremost. You really aren't hideous.

But i understand..i also have days where i feel yuck about my looks. And for that i usually have my hair done- like blow dry styling. Not knowing your age makes it hard to make suggestions. But um excersise (im not suggesting that you're fat ok?)
I have just noticed for myself that if i take my dog for a walk or a run regularly i feel better about myself in general. The aesthetic benefits are a side issue. I just feel stronger and i suppose the physical exertion gives me an outlet for my intermittent angst.

Assuming that you are as young as you look. Maybe just go with minimal makeup. Experiment with lip stains - these are like lip gloss but watery and leaves a pretty transparent stain on your lips as if you've just eaten berries Some Clear or brown mascara, some tinted moisturiser and that's it
For me though it's all about the hair. If mine is clean, blow dried and smells good and i can feel it soft against my back and shoulders i feel a million bucks

Hope this helps. But remember there really isn't anything wrong with you --At all