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Old 01-14-2011, 08:30 PM   #1
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Friend just called - she is starting a new stage in her relationship with a guy who wants to be a Dom with her. He claims he has experience, and has apparently asked his subs in the past, to call him "Daddy". She is very upset by this, largely because she was, and still is, abused by her father, and said she would call him anything else, but any 'Dad' type names. He asked her to come up with alternative suggestions, but she doesn't know. Only Sir, or Master, both of which he apparently turned down.

She asked me for suggestions, but I haven't a clue, especially as I too was abused by my father, and the idea would freak me out completely and have me heading for the hills faster than he could blink, so I do feel for her! When she told me - she said that he had asked her for alternatives on the 'D' word.....I offered her "D*ckhead!". Sadly, she wasn't as amused by that, as I was...ssiigghhss. Lol.

Anyway, so I thought I would turn it over to 'the experts' on this board...What are your alternative words to imply a dominant father figure, but without making any Dad or Daddy type name terms... if that makes any sense at all.

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Old 01-14-2011, 09:37 PM   #2
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Daddy, mama, and all that always disgusted me. Even baby is kinda weird.

What's his problem with master? It seems to me like he's just being uncooperative and inconsiderate.
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Old 01-15-2011, 03:29 AM   #3
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Old 01-15-2011, 03:36 AM   #4
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Perhaps the Daddy part of the game to him is part of him being dominant and the whole point of the game.

If she is not comfortable with this "pet name" perhaps she is also not going to like to being dominated very much.

She may want to rethink this.
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Old 01-15-2011, 04:06 AM   #5
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Perhaps the Daddy part of the game to him is part of him being dominant and the whole point of the game.

If she is not comfortable with this "pet name" perhaps she is also not going to like to being dominated very much.

She may want to rethink this.
Well, obviously by not wanting to be called that; she's not being very submissive, and that might be why he's being troublesome about a replacement word. But any good dom-sub relationship, whether personal, casual, or professional, needs it's boundaries; and he just plain isn't being respectful.

But yes, you are right that she should reconsider.
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maybe he should just start fucking his daughter.
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if she doesn't want to be dominated, then she shouldn't go through with it.


if she does and just needs to find a good name, well


if she is from the UK, "my lord" sounds like a good one!


... or how about "your royal penis"!
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Old 01-15-2011, 07:04 AM   #8
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Do you know what all subs have in common?

NONE OF THEM KNOW HOW TO FUCKING LISTEN!!!!!!!!!!

OK seriously the whole dom/sub thing is just a more extreme version of a "normal" relationship. Even in the most standard vanilla relationship there are dominant and submissive partners and a constant power exchange. We all have words that we don't want to hear our signifigant other say ever and the person on the other end needs to learn to respect that.

That being said I think that there is a move able boundry set here. The whole "D-word" thing sounds a little too demanding on the Doms part. Actually reading it while I'm writing it there is your answer "DOM" there is the fucking name.

Repeat it for me:
"Yes Dom,"

Louder Bitch!

Like you fucking mean it!

Sorry got a little carried away there.

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Oh, the irony

Abused / Dominated by her father

But doesnt want to call the dom daddy, so that it ........is in no way similar to what her dad does???
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Thanks for your replies.

I agree - the boundaries should be set - she said she is willing to do anything asked except be reminded of the mental and violent abuse she suffers at home, as a child to present date. I don't think thats unreasonable. Maybe she isn't suited to be a sub - but she wants to give it a go, and the guy appears respectful and intelligent enough. This is the first real issue she's had with him. We'll see what happens.

Thanks Rev - she said she will suggest Dom to him later. Let's see what he makes of that one.
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