Originally Posted by fastline
What a GREAT site! it is actually GD erotic just to read stuff here.
my wife allowed me to try anal on her a few years ago. I like to lick her there anyway and I think she somewhat likes when I put a finger in while my cock is in her vagina. We did anal about 6 times and now she says that it hurts and does not want me to do it. I absolutely LOVE to see that it hurts her a bit and it is a turn on and love to cum in her. Is there any ways through toys and whatnot to better her pleasure so I can keep doing it?
I do not go balls deep and told her I would go half shaft or something but that did not help. I think a lot of it is that she will not relax. She actually bought a toy years ago to get used to anal but we have since been having major sex issues and ANY sex at all is rare.
Fastlane.... I am Linehaul's Girlfriend... WE have an AMAZING Sex LIFE... Not trying to Rub it in or anything.... I feel so sorry for men or women in a relationship that they are Sexually deprived... I am gonna be honest... I am 41 and a mother of 3... I have an Extremely High Sex Drive.... Sexual desire is something that doesn't have to go away... But sometimes it is something that has to be worked on... She needs to find something within herself or something that she wears that makes her feel sexy.... And you have to make her Feel Sexy too... You can't not pay attention and then just want Sex... (not saying you are doing this) Maybe your communication has something to do with it also... A man and woman are very different when it comes to SEX.... Women need Emotional Satisfaction and need to be Romanced... I Love Sex (I guess I should say I love ANAL... I have become my boyfriends ANAL SLUT) and can't get enough!!! I have to agree with The Backdoor Man to some degree... True Desire does come from within... A woman has to be completely comfortable with herself as a Sexual being and be completely comfortable with who she is with... LOVE and TRUST are so important... If a woman is not truely into who she is with, Sex will always be an issue... Much less forget the anal.... Anal REQUIRES TRUST and much more so the desire to please who you are with... And from what I have heard some women just are not pleased by anal... But from what I have experienced... Anal is just like vaginal in the case of the first time isn't easy.... You have to go slow and be patient.... There has to complete Trust, Respect and Real Love for one another.... And if you cause pain ... She will never want it again... again...you have to go slow and caress... in other words... Worship that ASS!!!
I love Anal Sex... And My Boyfriend have only had anal for almost a year now... We are completely committed to ONLY EACH other... and I agree with my Boyfriend in the fact that we just fit better together that way... He is quiet large and I am a smaller woman.... In all ways Large... A very strong man and has an amazing Sex Drive... I love it... Can't get enough of him...
You should Tell your Wife how this is making you Feel... It is very important to have open communication about your Sex Life... And if She Truely Loves you... and you Truely Love her ... you both have to meet each other's needs.... Both Emotionally and Sexually.... I know that She would not you to have your needs met outside of the marriage... Just like you wouldn't want her to do that....
Good Luck... Worship that ASS!!! :-))