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Old 10-21-2010, 07:35 PM   #1
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Hey everyone,
long time lurker in this forum, first time poster. I'm somewhere between a fan and obsessed with anal - sex, fingering, rimming, stretching. I've had the occasional hookup or fuck buddy who'd let me fuck them anally, but never anyone genuinely into it and the relationships I've had have been worse. Most of the time I get looked at like I'm weird; sometimes they say it's gross. The best was a girl who really loved me and let me try, but absolutely-fucking-hated-it.

My question then is how do I meet women who do honestly enjoy it? Is there a secret handshake? A scarf tied to certain bar's (back)doors? lol. It's a hard subject to broach when you're just getting to know someone, but by the time you can "feel her out" on the subject, there's probably some attachment and hurt feelings if you break it off. I don't want to hurt anyone, but liking anal is damn important to me in a relationship.

Sooo... that's a rambling confusing lengthy first post. Any thoughts?
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Old 10-21-2010, 08:39 PM   #2
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Hey everyone,
long time lurker in this forum, first time poster. I'm somewhere between a fan and obsessed with anal - sex, fingering, rimming, stretching. I've had the occasional hookup or fuck buddy who'd let me fuck them anally, but never anyone genuinely into it and the relationships I've had have been worse. Most of the time I get looked at like I'm weird; sometimes they say it's gross. The best was a girl who really loved me and let me try, but absolutely-fucking-hated-it.

My question then is how do I meet women who do honestly enjoy it? Is there a secret handshake? A scarf tied to certain bar's (back)doors? lol. It's a hard subject to broach when you're just getting to know someone, but by the time you can "feel her out" on the subject, there's probably some attachment and hurt feelings if you break it off. I don't want to hurt anyone, but liking anal is damn important to me in a relationship.

Sooo... that's a rambling confusing lengthy first post. Any thoughts?
You may not be able to broach the subject of anal right away in the beginning of a relationship but I do think within the first few times of seeing someone that it's relatively easy to see whether they are a freak or adventurous in bed, etc...

Once you know they are then it's just a matter of the patience and her willing to let you try. You have to be extremely careful to minimize the downsides to it until the girl becomes used to it and is having fun/cumming/etc.... then you can afford to be a bit reckless or more aggressive with it.

Also if you have an above average dick it makes it 5 times as hard to accomplish this. I occasionally hear buddies brag about fucking a girl in the ass on a one night stand with no preparation or anything and I think it's hilarious because they don't get that they're telling the whole group of guys that they have a small dick cause there's no way some chick just took it in the ass on a whim unless he had a small dick or she just gets fucked in the ass that often...
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Old 10-21-2010, 08:42 PM   #3
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Chicks who drive buicks love anal. You can bring it up right away.
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Old 10-21-2010, 09:04 PM   #4
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I almost think you will need to find someone on a fetish type site to be happy with the degree you are talking about. I had an ex who would pretty much let me any time but even then I don't think she actually liked it as much as she liked to please.
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Old 10-22-2010, 05:49 AM   #5
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you should get into porn. every girl you'll meet will be into anal.

also, you'll get to cum on their faces.
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Old 10-22-2010, 06:20 AM   #6
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You need to work on your technique. If you make a big deal of it and she is new to it she will freak, but if you just incorporate into what you are doing and make it pleasurable and painless you have a good chance. According to the stats 40% of American women have had anal sex. Just don't go too hard too fast, and if she refuses be a little persistent, and then decide if it is a deal breaker after you have given it a few tries and discussed it. Be honest, but don't try to force her, as after a while she will resent it, and you will have to walk away. Also realize that some women enjoy it, and some just don't, and never will. I'm usually pretty up front about it, and bring it up early when sex is discussed initially. If I get a hostile reaction I walk.
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the anal detecting radar devices are on sale at radioshack
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Old 11-02-2010, 06:12 PM   #8
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well my ex wasnt a fan of it BUT she had the best ass id ever seen like J-lo and she loved swallowing so i figured that 1 out of 2 wasnt bad!!
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Hey everyone,
long time lurker in this forum, first time poster. I'm somewhere between a fan and obsessed with anal - sex, fingering, rimming, stretching. I've had the occasional hookup or fuck buddy who'd let me fuck them anally, but never anyone genuinely into it and the relationships I've had have been worse. Most of the time I get looked at like I'm weird; sometimes they say it's gross. The best was a girl who really loved me and let me try, but absolutely-fucking-hated-it.

My question then is how do I meet women who do honestly enjoy it? Is there a secret handshake? A scarf tied to certain bar's (back)doors? lol. It's a hard subject to broach when you're just getting to know someone, but by the time you can "feel her out" on the subject, there's probably some attachment and hurt feelings if you break it off. I don't want to hurt anyone, but liking anal is damn important to me in a relationship.

Sooo... that's a rambling confusing lengthy first post. Any thoughts?
i feel you on this ,maybe we will get lucky and find them here
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I think your'e trying too hard. My suggestion is that you date girls that you like and are attracted to. Nature will take its course.
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