Originally Posted by Mr.Writer
In order to train yourself to last longer. By masturbating to the very brink of orgasm and then holding off, and doing this repeatedly, you are exercising your mental and physical power to last longer, you are giving yourself greater psycho-physical control over your penis and ejaculation, and you are making your PC muscles stronger, which increases the power, pleasure, duration, and control of orgasms.
Masturbating without ejaculating is probably the single best exercise you can do for yourself to improve yourself as a sexual being. You gain tremendous sensitivity to the signals in your loins and you are able to be in much greater control of what's going on down there during sexual stimulation, as opposed to being at the mercy of uncontrollable orgasms that may come too soon. It also promotes very good breathing, and mental fortitude. It takes strong psychic discipline to remain teetering on the brink of orgasm for an hour or two or three, and when you feel like ending the exercise, and allow yourself to orgasm, it is obviously of a wholly different caliber and quality.
This is tantric sexual discipline
every man should practice this. do it for your lover.
I think this is very difficult for younger guys to appreciate, I was in my late 40's before learning what the wise Mr Writer has in his 20's!
The pure screaming pleasure of "Teetering on the brink" for an hour or so is reward on it's own - I sometimes do this solo, or with the wife - to watch and feel her having a shattering orgasm underneath me while I'm on the edge as well..... having made the "terrible" desicion already not
to have mine, leaves me physically quivering, still full of passion and arousal, all my senses on fire.
The rest of the day I'm alert, sensitive toward my partner and eagerly looking forward to the next encounter with the 'edge'.
It's hard to explain but if you learn to enjoy those Tantric "mini orgasms" the need to have the full "blow off" every time recedes (some people [especially in female dominant D/s relationships do this for months... not that I would want to!!!) you can build up the sexual tension "edging" more or less daily over a week or so.
The psycological effect, even harder to explain, is perhaps more benefit to us more mature in years, but it's given me more energy, a more caring approach to my partner and generally more zest for life - A trick worth learning, I can thoroughly recommend it