20 year old having a non-sexual relationship with a 14 year old.

Man, she's a kid, a child. Your feelings aren't "wrong" but it would be wrong to pursue this relationship anymore. You obviously don't seem to know this. There are millions of women your age out there, there's no reason for you to be leading this child on.

I mean this nicely- Grow up, be a man, and date a woman. Let the kid go about her own life and don't lead her on. You mentioned you broke up with a 19 year old. Because this girl didn't like it? That means she thinks you're hers, and it shows that you have intent to be hers.

Seriously, let it go and move on. I can't believe this child's father has allowed this. Even though it may seem innocent, you're an adult and she's a child.

op>wrong...bordering on criminally wrong...stop being an idiot..YOU are the one that needs to grow up here and walk away..before they carry you away

you are wasting this girls time. let her experience her childhood without her having to feel obligated to you. this is not fair what you're doing to her, especially since you are sleeping with other women

I was pretty good friends with a 19 year old girl when I was 12 but in your case the physical shit (hands, kissing potentially), just presents itself as a slippery slope to me, anyway

I wish I had a better answer than "that's fucked up."


But I really don't.


Sorry, that's fucked up.

yeah man wtf? only a loser would date a girl who is 14 when he is 21. a guy who is 21 should not even go below 18 in my opinion. I think the limit should be a 3 year gap. so a 20 yearold with a 17 yearold should be fine.

What could you possibly have in common with a 14 year old girl? this is just wrong man.

Get out more.
And the same oppinion
Just leave it alone mannn.

Originally Posted by Ddoright

I know you really don't want to hear all this man. My guess is you quit reading this tread already - It ain't what you want to hear.

Nope, he'll be with this thread to the bitter end.

It's funny I ran across this thread because I was in the 'Most Memorable Moments' thread and almost listed Sininabin and his 'relationship' posts as one of them. I guess he's still around. Never fully figured out if he was troll or just one fucked up dude.