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Forum Description: Whatcha gonna do when it's only you? Discuss masturbation techniques. No soliciting for cyber sex here.
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Old 05-03-2009, 11:55 PM   #1
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Masturbating to porn doesn't feel good anymore
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It sucks. I'll come, but with minimal pleasure. Anyone know why it might be like this? I also ejaculate prematurely, but not always. I wanna know why this is going on.
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Old 05-04-2009, 12:05 AM   #2
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Maybe you're just bored of it and need some variety. Not necessarily in the porn itself, but the way you approach masturbation.
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Old 05-04-2009, 12:20 AM   #3
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Well, that's a pretty simple answer. To be honest, using fantasies almost always feels better.

I was just wondering if it was something curable or not.
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Old 05-04-2009, 12:28 AM   #4
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I think that would be the cure, to mix it up a bit and find something else that excites you. As for the premature ejaculation, mind over matter has helped a lot of my guy friends. Maybe look into some tantric mind techniques.
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Old 05-04-2009, 12:34 AM   #5
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i think its desensitization. I'd say just stop masturbating for a while, dont watch any porn, etc. and then of course changing up what you do isnt ever a bad thing either.
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Old 05-04-2009, 04:36 PM   #6
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I find the type of porn makes a great difference.

Lesbian porn leaves me cold. Plain masturbation & oral doesn't do much more for me.

Even when a video promises to be a good one, if (as is usually the case) the guy withdraws to ejaculate for the camera, that's the point at which I lose interest.

Consider the type of porn you're watching. Look for different types.

However, perhaps if you're peaking too soon maybe you need something to be a little less arousing. Try written erotica, as available on my own site, Erotic To The End.
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Old 05-04-2009, 08:11 PM   #7
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Maybe you've tried this -- I love video of amateur women masturbating. Not the fake porn shit, where they're screaming and bucking and carrying on. Just a women alone, on her bed, concentrating, quietly getting into it and bringing herself to orgasm.

In addition to the real amateur stuff, there are a series of videos called "I Feel Myself." They originate at ifeelmyself.com, but you can find them on imagefap.com under video search and other porn search engines. These are professionally produced, but they are of normal looking women getting naked and masturbating. They're nicely shot, but again, no screaming and fake shit. Just straight up masturbation.

To me, there are few things more beautiful in this world than a woman masturbating. It never fails to do the trick for me. I don't watch it on line very much anymore, though, I've got lots of video of my wife going at it, which is the best.
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Try masturbating to Captain Planet.

It's a fucking rush, man.

I think this is the only time in my life where I will ever google "captain planet masturbation" for images....

Nothing good came up, but this will suffice.

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sometimes a good GAG clip will get me off, but desensitization is exactly what it is..
Most porn dont do anything for me.. but,

The video of my ex and I works every time.. her bare feet hanging over my hip.. yum.
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Old 05-04-2009, 08:45 PM   #10
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Hey Shaw-Min - some of us are not dependent upon anything more than our minds to think. True about sex also. Do you need a pile of gold to look at to think about $$s or investing? Porn suddenly becomes available and guys get lazy. I have masturbated about once (or more) a day since I was 11.9 years old. Locations have varied but two things have not: I have never used any but my own thoughts (fantasy) and I have never become desensitized. For several million years, men have masturbated at will without porn. Now in thirty years time they've become dependent on it. You don't have to change handholds, you needn't try gadgets nor abstinence. What has to change, if you want to never lack for excitement and a blast when you splash, is you freedom of thought. Anything, anybody, any act, any theory will work and the wilder the better. Relax laying down and get comfortable first. This is the one thing we can do for ourselves which is free, satisfying and very personal. Plan on it for a couple of hours. Get away from the computer. Look forward to a trip and then settle down and DO It! Hang a sign on your brain - "No Help Needed." If you abstain from anything, try abstaining from porn. Give your mind the freedom to imagine. My fantasies are better than any porn I've ever seen. And they last a long time. Wow! Now, excuse me, I have to go upstairs for a while....
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