What makes a girl good in bed?

I am probably going to get shit for this question, but I was wondering, guys & girls, what makes a girl good in bed?

My girlfriends and I will talk about a guy's performance, but we don't really chat about what makes a girl good in bed? My husband says I am good and he likes it when I am on top of him because 'I fuck him properly' and that I get into it and excite him and make the right movements to make him feel good, he likes when I dance for him. But he can't explain further. Can anyone tell me what they think makes a girl a good fuck?

What makes a girl good in bed? A few things. Don't just lay there. Move. Use your hands, you can hug, rub, scratch etc. Talk to him. I don't know a guy that doesn't like to hear his woman talk to dirty to him. Use discretion though. Saying "Pound me like the football team did in high school" might be a turn off. Every once in awhile give him a blowjob for no reason. Trust me, this means a lot to guys. If he resists, just push him back down. See the movie "White Castle" for reference. No, it's not a porno.

Othe than that there are no answers. Some people just turn you on more than others. Enjoy!

One, enthusiasm. If you're going down on a guy, act like you're into it and enjoy it. I DO enjoy it but make sure you do. Move during sex, don't just lay there as said before. Kiss with passion, don't be distracted. Enthusiasm really matters a lot. Also, take time to learn the partner's body, don't be afraid to experiment and keep your mind open.

[more for a couple than for a one night stand] communication/attentiveness, I say. everyone is different and likes different things, and what you've done with other people may not work with the current one. communication is rarely verbal in the bedroom. you need to watch for good and bad responses and adjust as needed. and don't be afraid to just plain ask - "what do you want me to do to you?", "do you like that?", etc. and try to pick up on those subtle hints dropped when someone wants something, but are too embarrassed to just say it (ie, anal play or watchin porn, etc). hmmm... most women are terrible at giving head, but don't know it.... oooo, and be creative and spontaneous too - nothing is better than a girl that can think of something new to try or do!

also, not only don't just lay there, but open you eyes every now and then - it makes a guy feel like you're not pretending he's a vibrator or another guy. look him in the eyes and SHOW him your passion. and never ever fake an orgasm.

I agree with classic...spontaneity for no reason. Just drop and please him, simply because you want to make him happy. Talk dirty to him during sex. Tell him what you like and how you like it. Tell him when he is doing something you like alot. Play with yourself while he fucks you. Enjoy it, and make him know you like it. Be eager for his cum, like you are opening a present. Give him a hand job while you are sitting on the sofa watching the news, or a movie. Be spontaneous. AND, tell him what you are going to do to him the next time you are together. He will think about it ALL FREAKIN" DAY LONG. Trust me. lol.

What makes a girl good in bed is her actually enjoying and wanting to have sex especially if she makes you feel like you had something to do with it.

If you are faking it or just going though the motions then I'd rather be somewhere else.

1)Responsiveness
2)Trying new , fun stuff
3)Talking about whats good and what isnt.
4)being tactile - there's foreplay for guys too.
5)learning taoist /tantric sex and stuff like that.
hmm other stuff , its hard to describe - that "spark" is a big part of it.

Thanks for the tips guys, it is all helpful, although I like to think I already knew most of it

Some things I forgot.
1)watching where the guy is- is he warmed up?does he want to hold back or step it up a gear.
2)Also intensity is a big thing.There's looking at a guy and *looking* at him
3)How she breathes .Is it fake moaning , or is it "combined" with the guys?
Is she in control of her own pleasure with it
4)Stimulating a guy's whole body.Does she just pull his dick a bit and climb ontop?
Or does she stroke different parts to stimulate them-chest , balls , thighs, neck
- acupressure points etc
5)Setting the mood.

Originally Posted by RessotaspiksMan

Some things I forgot.
1)watching where the guy is- is he warmed up?does he want to hold back or step it up a gear.
2)Also intensity is a big thing.There's looking at a guy and *looking* at him
3)How she breathes .Is it fake moaning , or is it "combined" with the guys?
Is she in control of her own pleasure with it
4)Stimulating a guy's whole body.Does she just pull his dick a bit and climb ontop?
Or does she stroke different parts to stimulate them-chest , balls , thighs, neck
- acupressure points etc
5)Setting the mood.

I think that, particularly, is really important. For both parties. And I love looking into his eyes intensely, and not being coy and embarrassed about eye contact, as it is one of the biggest turn-ons, in my opinion, when you are looking deep into each others' eyes while doing what you're doing..