I would have to write a thesis on the subject to really tell you what I think you should do.
I'm not about to do that.
Forget about everything you have seen on pornographic movies or what you have read on toilet walls.
I don't think I am even close to being a master.
I can give you some hints to what I think women like though, and what turns them on.
Women like in a man, what men like in a women.
Take your own personal hygiene seriously.
I make sure I'm really clean and well groomed, that doesn't mean you have to be a queer eye or metro. ( Ok it does ) LOL !!
Wearing clean and smart clothes, women like that.
Of course women like a man to be fit and healthy.
Before "making love" I make sure my mouth is clean and my teeth are brush and gargle with mouth wash.
Make sure you ears are clean some women hate dirty ears.
Make sure shes not tired and don't pressure her for sex, use the carrot not the stick ( no pun intended or implied) LOL !!!
I always take my time, I start with their head by running my fingers through their hair makeing sure I don't pull it out ( their hair must be clean ) this has a cathartic affect which relaxes them, followed by a lot of foreplay, gentle slow passinate kissing, gently suck their bottom lip, this has to be practiced to get good at it, then gently kiss, nibble caress them all over their body, backs of their arms, their neck ( very sensitive erogenous zone ) the way you tell if a women is turned on by it is you look for "goose bumps" on their skin that means its working.
When you have done all this start again ...
Caress their enitire body with your hands, your hands must be as gentle and subtle as the wings of a butterfly, that glide over their bodies ever so gently, tummy, backs, sides of their torsos, derriere, backs, front, sides of their legs, feet ( avoid tickling them too much, don't pay too much attention to any one part ( as much as we want to
Pay special attention to the front, back and sides of their thighs, inner and outer, circular caressing ( when your arms start to ach, change over to your other arm ) keep this up for as long as you can, I know its hard and your eager to just put it in and start humping but you must be patient, they will appreciate what your doing and it will make them wet ( their vagina is preparing for your penis).
The difference between average sex and really hot sex is the foreplay, the longer you can prolong this the better it will be.
If your foreplay is "affective" and "prolonged" and you increase a womens sexual tension enough she will eventually have a "real" orgasm.
Through these different theoretical stages, each is marked by different things that happen to the "breasts", vulva , vagina, etc.
Only thru trial and error will you learn how to be a great lover.
Wait until she is begging for you to enter her, never think of yourself, put her first and you will never be asking her for sex, you'll be saying not tonight love I am too tired. LOL !!!
Its not luck its good foreplay, being considerate, educating yourself, learning about the menstraul cycle because they are horniest mostly before and after their period "rags", these kinds of things will make you a better lover and she will be impressed by your knowledge and skill.
Women like oral but I'm not really into that but I should be.
see how you go with that ...
I hope it helps.