When you penetrate a girl for the first time...
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When you penetrate a girl for the first time, in an attempt to lessen the pain as much as possible, should you do it slow or fast? I know the best way to avoid pain is to increase the pleasure before the intercourse that will break the himen, because in my experience there is no better counter for pain than pleasure.
I'm worried about this becaue some girlfriends of mine have told me that the first time they did it it, it hurt so much that they couldn't keep going, and the experience was only enjoyable since the second time. On the other hand, others have told me that they barely felt any pain.
So, which will it be, a slow, careful penetration, or a quick one?