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Old 07-05-2006, 09:08 AM   #1
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Why that slightly heavy girl is hot (while others are not)
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Is there any chance I could ask you for a quick comment for a short article I'm writing?

Here's the gist: Most guys have encountered a woman or two in their lives who was a bit on the heavy side, maybe 15 to 25 pounds overweight, but for some strange mixture of reasons, it didn't stop this particular woman from being very attractive--even hot. Guys who don't usually like heavier women are attracted to her, before anything sexual occurs.

For some reason, when you look at this particular woman, you don't predominantly "see" a heavy chick in your mind's eye. You only see a sexy chick or a woman you'd like to date.

The question is, Why?

What specifically was it about this particular woman you're thinking of--- looks-wise, physically, personality-wise, whatever---that gave her "it"? What was different about her, or how did she create this aura?

If you could give me any quick insights you have based on a woman you've known like this, that would be terrific. Alternatively, below are some factors the women I've known had in common, and please feel free to comment on any. I'll certainly give you more info about the article before using any of your comments.

They all dressed really, really well
They had top-shelf lingerie and wore it with style --black lace bra under the white shirt, etc.
Long hair
Great skin
Nice hands/toenails---they take care of the small details
Fantastic smile, and they smile very often
They're very good at flirting--they know how to do it a bit aggressively without ever losing control or coming across as desperate
They're athletic--they play tennis, work out, etc.
Voice? Not with the 2 women I knew, but maybe it's a factor for others.

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Old 07-05-2006, 11:52 AM   #2
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I would say that more men than one would think are attracted to large, curvy women but keep it to themselves because it is socially acceptable only to admit attraction to thin women.
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Old 07-05-2006, 12:19 PM   #3
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...it is socially acceptable only to admit attraction to thin women.
I'm not so sure about that. My estranged wife is a very slender woman, and she'd tell you it's apparently considered politically correct for complete strangers to come up to her and say, "I hate you." I've caught flack myself for being involved with such a willowy creature: "Feed that girl something." But there's nothing wrong with her appetite. She's just built that way.

As far as the initial question is concerned, that's never happened to me. I'm not attracted to heavy women at all. I like the "Calista Flockhart" types.
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Old 07-05-2006, 01:08 PM   #4
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why the weight limit in the overweight-edness?

for me (female not male) it's just been that it suits the woman... they still have curves, still retain a good hip to waist ratio, and don't obsess over their weight. I'd rather have an overweight woman who was happy with herself than a skinny one who obsessed over her weight and diet
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Old 07-05-2006, 03:17 PM   #5
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it's because she knows she's hot. How a woman feels about herself is what makes her beautiful.
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Old 07-05-2006, 06:11 PM   #6
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I know a few girls that are in the 15-30 lbs overweight bracket and they are gorgeous.

And I think it goes back to what mamaboogie said...

I don't think weight should be a determining factor if a girl is beautiful or not. I think it is the girl's aura and her self-confidence.
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Old 07-05-2006, 06:13 PM   #7
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it's because she knows she's hot. How a woman feels about herself is what makes her beautiful.
Exactly.

I'm a heavy girl, anyone who has seen me will agree with that. I'm not ashamed of it at all, in fact, my philosophy is "As long as I don't look in a mirror, I'm the hottest thing in the room."

Since i've been old enough to date, I haven't been without a boyfriend. Or a couple boyfriends.

I think Mamaboogie is right. She knows she's beautiful, whether other people know it or not.
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Old 07-05-2006, 06:16 PM   #8
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I think women who are beautiful but don't realize it are much more attractive that the women who KNOW they are goodlooking. Think its the ego and attitute that repulses me.

I like to think that we would find one women from the "line up" more attractive than the others because of something we sense coming from INSIDE her.... but I do find the insides to be what makes me stick around.
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WHO is to decide what "overweight" is? The CDC and medical experts change their mids frequently, and we can't trust the media, as most womyn in the media are frighteninly UNDERweight, and all are judged by them.
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WHO is to decide what "overweight" is? The CDC and medical experts change their minds frequently, and we can't trust the media, as most womyn in the media are frighteninly UNDERweight, and all are judged by them.
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