Is there any chance I could ask you for a quick comment for a short article I'm writing?
Here's the gist: Most guys have encountered a woman or two in their lives who was a bit on the heavy side, maybe 15 to 25 pounds overweight, but for some strange mixture of reasons, it didn't stop this particular woman from being very attractive--even hot. Guys who don't usually like heavier women are attracted to her, before anything sexual occurs.
For some reason, when you look at this particular woman, you don't predominantly "see" a heavy chick in your mind's eye. You only see a sexy chick or a woman you'd like to date.
The question is, Why?
What specifically was it about this particular woman you're thinking of--- looks-wise, physically, personality-wise, whatever---that gave her "it"? What was different about her, or how did she create this aura?
If you could give me any quick insights you have based on a woman you've known like this, that would be terrific. Alternatively, below are some factors the women I've known had in common, and please feel free to comment on any. I'll certainly give you more info about the article before using any of your comments.
They all dressed really, really well
They had top-shelf lingerie and wore it with style --black lace bra under the white shirt, etc.
Nice hands/toenails---they take care of the small details
Fantastic smile, and they smile very often
They're very good at flirting--they know how to do it a bit aggressively without ever losing control or coming across as desperate
They're athletic--they play tennis, work out, etc.
Voice? Not with the 2 women I knew, but maybe it's a factor for others.
Thanks very much,