yeah, i sorta know what you mean. probably do. i mean, it kinda hurts in there after awhile, especaily after i already orgasmed, because it gets all sensitve down there. and i kind of do think, 'cmon, hurry it hurts!' but of course, at the same time, i do enjoy it, because its SEX and i do want him to cum. and usually if he does go at it a bit hard for a few minutes, he does , so thats good.
thats why i like when he cums first, then he doesnt mind going on for more. i cant really, i could, but it does get painful for me.
or when we do at the same time, because then theres no worries
*embarassed that i wrote a whole paragraph on this topic*