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There are many sides to a connections, and many facits to a diamond.
Having in your own words say you have known this person for a couple of years, and ask about a connection. Thats like saying the wind is blowing, and asking, but will it ever land on me. The Wind only touches us to show us all things change.
Connections are cluster like energies. Stand in a grape vineyard. These clusters are part of the whole, and the whole is part, and one with each grape. So yes you have been a part of each others lives over many life times. and this one.
Now to answer the real question will you ever become a couple, or have a romantic relationship? The answer is this is a choice. To love beyond yourself is a choice. To embrace another in your most intimate places is a choice, and is built on trust. How you love your self is how you love another. How deeply you know who you are is how deeply you will let yourself know another. This goes both ways.
When there is openess, trust, truth, and honesty without manipulations demands, and selfishness you can reach beyond your self without playing emotional games. When the "ME" factor, and all things have to be about one person, you are asking for an emotiona connection that will quickly burn itself out.
As I said there are many faces, and facits to a connection. husband, wife, friend, stranger, child, brother, sister and so on. We place the limits by how we get attached, see things, and where we choose to be in our lives , and what we are willing to face within ourselves.
To make excuses for yourself, or lie to your inner most self to justify your side of the connection is again drawing lessons, and opportunities to your heart so you might know just how deeply your own lover you have have become. Because in truth you love others only as you love yourself. reaching beyond yourself is a chaoice.....in this the connections are there, what we do with them is entirely personal, and again a choice.
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