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Old 05-14-2012, 12:23 AM   #1
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What's wrong with me.. 22 year old male
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About 7 months ago I got out of a 5 year relationship, I was 17 when I entered it.

Now, my knowledge of picking up women is almost nothing, I have, some how in the last few months done that but I can't for the life of me remember what I did..

Regardless, my issue is as follows... I have lost all motivation of picking up a member of the opposite sex, I go out, mostly to get drunk or party with friends, I'm having a great time, mind you.
But I see women I'm attracted to, but I feel no push to go up to them and start a conversation. I'm not a complete social moron, but I'm wondering if I have some sort of hormone imbalance.

I spend four days a week working out, I take vitamin supplements from GNC, the performance pack for men, it contains some tribulous, Omega 3, B12, stuff like that.

Is there something wrong with me?
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Old 05-14-2012, 12:49 AM   #2
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I have no idea dude, Im the same way I think. I never try and pick up women or go out of my way to talk to them, but somehow it just happens. I go out to get fucked up and drunk, next thing I know Im fucking some chick. Happens usually once every couple of weeks. Theres nothing wrong with you, its common sense. if you dont have to go out of your way to get laid why would you?
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Old 05-14-2012, 08:04 PM   #3
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yeah, you have a problem: stop over analyzing things. guys don't always make an effort to pick up a person they're attracted to. sometimes you just don't bother with it.
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Old 05-15-2012, 12:15 AM   #4
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you just think too much why 2+2=4 . you must think that 2+2=4 , and yeah ok next .
or in few words . go out and try it with some girls . maybe lost , or maybe winning .
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Old 05-15-2012, 12:18 AM   #5
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Advice - this will be controversial, but take it from a former bloke who has been among girls since age 4 - hit on as many as possible until you get a score. Nuff said.
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Old 05-16-2012, 12:54 AM   #6
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Not all men are on a sex crazed mission to fuck every woman in the world. I noticed losing interest in that as I grew older and more confident.

As long as you are happy with what you are doing. Sure, it's fun to have sex, and there was something about having a new girl, but when I used to pick up women it never really felt like it was worth the effort once I had had my fun.. If all you want is to blow your load, masturbation really isn't far off sex with a random. The best nights I've had have usually not ended in sex, but with hanging out with friends.
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Old 05-16-2012, 01:29 AM   #7
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I don't know why you would think something is wrong with you just because you don't act predatory towards the female persuasion.
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...I go out, mostly to get drunk or party with friends, I'm having a great time, mind you. ....
Sobriety and talking to female acquaintances is a better place to learn social skills with women than being drunk and trying to talk to women at a party.
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You aren't ready for a relationship is all. When your ready you will make a move.
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Old 05-17-2012, 02:21 AM   #10
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Yeah getting out of a 5 year relationship is like getting out of jail.

Not that I've ever been in jail .....
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