feeling lonely

[Dancefairy]

Been home from school for a couple weeks and I feel lonely here. It's really conservative and there aren't really any like-minded people to hang out with. Just about nobody except my close friends know I'm Bi and i'm really longing to connect with a female - Not really interested in guys at all, especially the meat market scene. At least there's some fun festivals coming up!

*~sigh~*

[rocknroll_girl]

Wait, you're in college?

If that's the case, thank your lucky stars, my friend, most of the time you're free. I'm sorry you feel lonely, though. Definitely hit up those festivals and thoroughly enjoy yourself. If you're anywhere near Rhode Island (where I am), there's a fantastic Pride celebration coming up next weekend. Should be a lot of fun.

I know the feeling of needing the female connection when you're bi...I mean not exactly, I'm a lesbian, but there was a point where I felt I was bi but always had those consistant pulls. It's a pretty strong feeling.

[Hippy_Smurf]

*hugs* lady. I know how you feel...

P.S. I added you :)

[Patch]

i also kind of know how you feel...it's hard when not everyone know's you're gay...i am pretty lonely too...where i am it is really hard to find people...aside from the occasional hookups i have not had a relationship in 2 years (the second year aniversary of my big time break up is in 6 days...eep) and around this time of year i get really lonely...oh well.

[interval_illusion]

yep, i know how you feel too...

and i also live in the north east and it's way too conservative where i live. :(

[butterfly]

Sometimes I just wonder where all the gay/bi girls ARE!! They can't all be hiding! It's torture!

[tourmaline]

mmm....yes the loneliness - essential to the human condition

i find lonliness can be very inspiring, you really feel your individual when you feel all alone...

i definatly know where your coming form, except everyone knows i'm gay, i just don't have someone to be intimate with and its excruciating...
i went to a pride rally and it just made me feel lonelier, kuz theres all these happy queers with they boy/girlfriends and then theres you...alone

but i find loneliness to be worthwhile sometimes... if you learn to embrace that solitude it will be something definatly worthwhile

[interval_illusion]

haha, yes, they are all hiding. seems to me anyways....

[stone]

I feel your pain. Sometimes you feel like you are the only one who is gay/les. We are all here and if ya wanna talk I'm here to chat with.

[neckienoo]

Hi, I understand. Keep your mind and heart open to love. If you're as nice as you are cute it'll come (I saw your pic, that's how I know you're cute). Peace and Love.....oh, and incredible women.

[mystical_shroom]

Been home from school for a couple weeks and I feel lonely here. It's really conservative and there aren't really any like-minded people to hang out with. Just about nobody except my close friends know I'm Bi and i'm really longing to connect with a female - Not really interested in guys at all, especially the meat market scene. At least there's some fun festivals coming up!

*~sigh~*
Like everyone else stated, I too know how ya feel.. Only my friends in the state I lived in before knew that I am bi..
But when I moved, didnt really tell anyone. It does get hard sometimes, longing for a female connection..But ya just got to go out and meet people..and I am sure you will when you go to those festivals..

[Disarray]

Sometimes I just wonder where all the gay/bi girls ARE!! They can't all be hiding! It's torture!Yeah, no shit. But luckily; I found myself a great girl.