sadomasochism

[Claire]

Have you? Would you?

Would you like to be dominated or be the dominatrix?

(by the way this isn't an offer :p )

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[DoktorAtomik]

No. No.

No.

(thank god :p )

[Claire]

No. No.

No.

(thank god :p )
hehehe! Why havent you tried it? :)

[DoktorAtomik]

It doesn't hold any interest for me. I enjoy equality under the duvet.

[matthew]

It doesn't hold any interest for me. I enjoy equality under the duvet.
Take turns...

[Claire]

Take turns...
hehehe good point ;) :X

[matthew]

hehehe good point ;) :X
:p

I think i would be up for it with the right person of course.. and would take turns. I am all for equality in the bedroom:) .

[matthew]

No gimp suits or balls rammed in my mouth though..thats just not funny..:rolleyes:

[showmet]

:p

I think i would be up for it with the right person of course.. and would take turns. I am all for equality in the bedroom:) . What makes you think I'm letting you out of the gimp outfit?:eek:

[Claire]

What makes you think I'm letting you out of the gimp outfit?:eek:
what makes you think you're getting out of it either? :X

[DoktorAtomik]

Take turns...I know this must come as a bit of a shock, but I really don't need anything out of the ordinary in the bedroom (or any other room) to find sex rewarding and enjoyable. Being dominated just strikes me as silly. And sex is silly enough as it is.

[Power_13]

No balls rammed in my mouth though..
Do unto others...:p

[Claire]

I know this must come as a bit of a shock, but I really don't need anything out of the ordinary in the bedroom (or any other room) to find sex rewarding and enjoyable. Being dominated just strikes me as silly. And sex is silly enough as it is.
Do you need something to find it fun? :)

[DoktorAtomik]

Do you need something to find it fun? :)No, which is why I went on to point out that I also find it silly. I mean, if someone was to suggest I painted myself purple and dressed in a nappy I wouldn't do that either (sorry matthew ;) ).

[Claire]

No, which is why I went on to point out that I also find it silly. I mean, if someone was to suggest I painted myself purple and dressed in a nappy I wouldn't do that either (sorry matthew ;) ).
I suppose it depends where you want to start drawing boundaries? Love / Sex / Fun / Silliness / games / Friendship / Lust.... why do they have to be seperate?

[DoktorAtomik]

I suppose it depends where you want to start drawing boundaries? Love / Sex / Fun / Silliness / games / Friendship / Lust.... why do they have to be seperate?I didn't say they did. Me 'n' the wenchlette have a great deal of fun and silliness in our sex life. One of the very first conversations we ever had in bed was all about how sex had to be fun and how you had to be able to laugh at it. That doesn't mean that I need to have a desire to dominate/be dominated though, does it?

[matthew]

How did you become the perfect (though with a few well defined flaws, to show vunerability..of course) specimen of 'New man' Dok ?. I bet you carry half the shopping from Waitrose (after doing your weekly shop for fruits and berries) as well.


Showmet... i knew you'd leap at the prospect of me chatting about my sex life..but dude i aint into the dark forces of satan..of wich you practice.. I too have my limits.

[Claire]

That doesn't mean that I need to have a desire to dominate/be dominated though, does it?
No it dosn't, everyone has boundaries / preferences that are personal to them :)

[rainbow dew]

i don't know why dok, but that last post you made about you and sam having sex made me cringe.....feels almost like thinking about my parents doing it.:p

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[showmet]

i don't know why dok, but that last post you made about you and sam having sex made me cringe.....feels almost like thinking about my parents doing it.:p
Eurgh! Sex, at their age?:&

[DoktorAtomik]

face it dok, well all know you're 'not into that stuff' because sam won't let you :pI can tell you've never met her. You do realise she's from Essex, right?

[DoktorAtomik]

i don't know why dok, but that last post you made about you and sam having sex made me cringe.....feels almost like thinking about my parents doing it.:p So do you think about your parents doing it often? There's help out there if you want it..... :p

[TheFly]

I should bloody well hope my parents don't do it anymore... my dad's been dead for a few years... eeuuarrghh...


Fly...

[DoktorAtomik]

I should bloody well hope my parents don't do it anymore... my dad's been dead for a few years... eeuuarrghh...


Fly...Perhaps your mum..... no, even I'm not gonna go there!

[EarthWhirler]

God, you're such a charming bunch!!!!

face it dok, well all know you're 'not into that stuff' because sam won't let you :p
Of course I won't! Except tying him up does have some advantages, like eating ALL the icecream and going out on my own :X

[Smartie.uk]

im a sexual perv.. i'll do anything if the girl wants me to but she has to be the one to say it.. im more than happy just chuggin along in a dok like sexual relationship.. but i'm also as openminded as the sea is deep so i'm always up for anything... but will wait for the suggestion to come from elsewhere..
i dont need it to get off... but wouldn't mind getting off on it

[Bobba]

Tried it, went too far.

Didn't really like it :(

[Bilby]

I dunno. I have always been kinky.I am just naturally different.Guess that is why I am a hippy.Spanking leads to harder erections.

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[Vermillion]

Tried both, love both.

[PIXIEFIED]

yeah i can do either in the right frame of mind, i prefer other stuff more though.

[the_boy_liam]

no no no no! i like telling people what to do, tidy this up, get me this, etc etc

[Degenerate]

The poll is poorly phrased. Sadomasochism and dominance/submission are two different things. I'm a dominant type, but that doesn't mean I like to inflict pain.

[Samhain]

The poll is poorly phrased. Sadomasochism and dominance/submission are two different things. I'm a dominant type, but that doesn't mean I like to inflict pain.
why don't you educate us, post some imformation on this topic, for those of us that don't know
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[erzebet1961]

Been there on both counts..and its cool, as long as its just a game.

[Degenerate]

why don't you educate us, post some imformation on this topic, for those of us that don't know
SSadomasochism = the infliction/receiving of pain for sexual gratification.

Dominance/submission = A dominant partner being "in charge" to some degree over a submissive partner.

Ergo, while sadomasochism by it's nature features a Dominant/submissive relationship (the inflicter of pain is clearly being dominant over the receiver), there are many other ways to express a D/s relationship and many people who enjoy D/s may not like sadomasochism at all.

People express this in all sorts of ways, some confined to the bedroom, some more openly. Some submissives like to act as a slave (sexual or otherwise) to their master/mistress. Some like to be put in bondage. Some like to be trained as a "pet". Some girls like to hook up with an older man and be a good obediant "daughters" to their chosen "Daddy" (Which a lot of people will find creepy, of course.) None of this necessarily involves the infliction of pain.

There's a whole subculture of this stuff and you don't have to look too far to find it.

[Samhain]

I love being submissive (enough said!)
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[PsyGrunge]

not my cup of tea personally. an ex tied me to a bed once but whips and chains and the like can take a running jump.

[Cerebus]

I'd like to think that i'm open to most things, but the truth is my skin is sensitive, and i don't get off on pain, either giving or receiving. At least i haven't so far in me life, anyway.

[Quoth the Raven]

Tried both - liked it, but too often and it'd eventually get boring. Sadomasochism, however, is a big no-no. A little light whipping, possibly, but nothing that draws blood or causes bruising.
Plus it's quite fun to tie your partner up, get 'em all hot and bothered, then just go and read a book for a while. Come back in the room, say "oh - you still here? Oops" then get on with the rest of the sex ;)

[erzebet1961]

A silk cord dipped in water doesnt break the skin or leave bruises...but it has a wonderful sting to it !!!!!!!!

[Harry Tuttle]

:o Never tried but willing!

[erzebet1961]

Ummmmmmm...not that Ive ever done such a thing....hahaha

[BlackBillBlake]

It's OK up to a point - it's only a game.

[erzebet1961]

Of course......its all a part of role playing.....

[Harry Tuttle]

This isn't a D&D thread you know!

[erzebet1961]

ummmm...whats d and d ?

[Harry Tuttle]

Ah, sorry, Dungeons & Dragons... it's a roleplaying game... :p

[erzebet1961]

ok.........I played that before........

[lankymidget]

Not as good as Drunk & Disorderly Role-playing game :p

I like bdsm role-play, but admit I get nervous, scared and back out of alot of situations that come my way...

I have a guide, and seriously, I don't get into anything with stranges unless she's nearby..

[J0hn]

I like to be the dominator. the one who controls. Just send a girl down in my dungeon with a cup of tea with two sugars.


As the saying goes: Pain is close to pleasure.