lostblackdog
04-12-2005, 06:01 PM
Okay boys and girls, this is a totally different side of Lostblackdog than what you have seen before.... this is the frantic, nervous as fuck, and worried shitless side that has taken the pilot's seat for a while here!
Last night I was in my room making love to my girlfriend and somewhere throughout our stoned frenzy, my libido dropped and I had to take a break to kinda "build things back up" if you catch my drift. I'm on lexapro, which is notorious for lowering libido, so this isn't like a new thing for us. I figure it was somewhere during this time that the condom I had on slipped off and fell on top of her. Neither of us noticed until it was too late and then we flipped out and tried to remember what the hell happened. We're assuming the worst here, so we went to the doctor and got a prescription for Plan B (levonorgestrel), which is the "morning after pill" as far as we know. She took a pregnancy test beforehand because of state law, and it came back negative as the doctor assumed she might have guessed. Unfortunately, this doctor made it apparent to her that he did not agree with emergency contraceptive measures, but then again... I dunno if this really is considered a contraceptive or not. Either way, she feels like shit and she's beating herself up for this and I'm beating myself up because I feel like it's all my fault. I mean, I'll do whatever I have to do as far as taking responsibility goes.... I just don't want her to feel like she's a terrible person for this.
PhotoGra1, I guess this is something that maybe you might know of seeing as you've got experience with pharmaceuticals and have been working with them for 10 years. Maybe you're lucky enough not to have to deal with this firsthand, but I trust you and your knowledge on this... Is this a good measure for her to take, or is there something more effective out there that she needs in order to be sure? I've done all I know to do short of cutting of my penis and taking a vow of celibacy, but neither of those things will help either... Any help, comments, suggestions???
-Mac
Last night I was in my room making love to my girlfriend and somewhere throughout our stoned frenzy, my libido dropped and I had to take a break to kinda "build things back up" if you catch my drift. I'm on lexapro, which is notorious for lowering libido, so this isn't like a new thing for us. I figure it was somewhere during this time that the condom I had on slipped off and fell on top of her. Neither of us noticed until it was too late and then we flipped out and tried to remember what the hell happened. We're assuming the worst here, so we went to the doctor and got a prescription for Plan B (levonorgestrel), which is the "morning after pill" as far as we know. She took a pregnancy test beforehand because of state law, and it came back negative as the doctor assumed she might have guessed. Unfortunately, this doctor made it apparent to her that he did not agree with emergency contraceptive measures, but then again... I dunno if this really is considered a contraceptive or not. Either way, she feels like shit and she's beating herself up for this and I'm beating myself up because I feel like it's all my fault. I mean, I'll do whatever I have to do as far as taking responsibility goes.... I just don't want her to feel like she's a terrible person for this.
PhotoGra1, I guess this is something that maybe you might know of seeing as you've got experience with pharmaceuticals and have been working with them for 10 years. Maybe you're lucky enough not to have to deal with this firsthand, but I trust you and your knowledge on this... Is this a good measure for her to take, or is there something more effective out there that she needs in order to be sure? I've done all I know to do short of cutting of my penis and taking a vow of celibacy, but neither of those things will help either... Any help, comments, suggestions???
-Mac