Is 8" too much for the ladies?

[Incubus]

First off this message is for ladies to reply, i dont really want dudes to see this but its inevitable... Okay when i was 16 i lost my virginity to a virgin girl. She said it was soo incredibly painful, but she came back the next week and we did it again, she said it was better but still hurt. and so that went for 20 times or so. I moved on to another girl, she said it felt great but she would get sore after about 45 minutes. I got frustrated after this continued for 10 times or so. The same pattern has gone on for 2 years. I cant get off and girls get too sore, whats the deal, Im only 8" ??!???

Oh yeah and Ive also tried different possisions; doggie, missionary, sideways, her on top...
So if theres salvation for some sensation please help me!

[Graham]

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[Alomiakoda]

The answer to that is:

LUBE. And lots of it.

The reason it hurt so much for the first girl was because losing your virginity is one of the most fucking painful things imaginable anyway...

[Incubus]

lube? like lotion? will that work

[Alomiakoda]

Yeah :)


But make sure you use a water based one (KY jelly or something), not vaseline or anything like that because the oil in them can make condoms split

[Incubus]

I just noticed your 15, how do you know so much about sex at 15!? Wait i dont wanna know, asking is probably a crime lol

[Alomiakoda]

Hahaha


I know too much for my own good :P

[FunkyConguero]

hey man, im about 8" myself, and i've never had complaints. but then again, the girls i've been with were all pretty.... oh how can i say this nicely.... 'experienced' so ive never had any problems, xcept my phone ringin off the hook...lol

[ronnyromance]

Actually im about 8 inches myself and ive always been told that it is a perfect size. They say anything over 8 hurts but 7 or 8 is just right.

[Rockstock2004]

You are one of the lucky ones lol. Im not average, but slightly shorter than you. But I still hurt the ladies. In fact, its not the length that hurts them actually. its the girth. Im damn thick so that hurts them if they are tense. So again, if you had an 8 incher that was like umm 2 inches around, not wide, but around, which is very skinny, you probably wouldnt hurt the ladies. Well now that i think about it , it could act like a giant needle, and poke them good,lol jk. But thats thought on this post.

[Ellie-Rose]

I can vouch for her.. :p

[rainbow dew]

yeah man, use lube....

just be gentle at first if you be too rough it will hurt untill she gets used to her size. women come in different sizes too so it depends on her sizing how much it will hurt. talk to her and see how she feels.
namaste and good luck
x x x

[Danielle]

My man is in between 7 and 8 inches and he hurts me every time we have sex the pain when he enters me and its painful till i get used to him inside me all over again:)

[Incubus]

Danielle - are you able to go for 1+ hours though or is it normal to get sore after 45 minutes

[Danielle]

My man and i go for more then 1 hour almost every time we have sex and yes after a while i can become sore. I normally start to become a bit dry after i cum and i have him pull out and a few seconds where we kiss and all again and he goes at it again. and like other people said it doesnt hurt to use some lube. I have some right beside my bed hehe flavored strawberry-kewi its great to add for Blow Jobs to hehe ;)

[Pablo]

wow id never heard of someone else with this problem before. mines just over 9 inches and it makes it harder to get off because my girlfriend gets sore very quickly, though she still comes before shes to sore, and the majority of the time i do, but it makes her sore pretty quick. Some times it feels good enough for her to put up with it for a long time but then shes to sore to do it again for a long time.

[Manolao]

as someone has pointed out.. the physical reason for hurt is the width, not the lenght.. but of course you do not have to bump continuosly on the utero wall!! :-P

if you do more petting perhaps then it is better... ;-)

[AutumnAuburn]

If a guy is over 6.5 inches, he has to enter me slowly, otherwise he will top-out, causing me quite a bit of pain. After a couple of minutes of going slow, my body adjusts to his size and he can go as fast as he wants. If we have sex regularly, then my body will remain adjusted to his size. But, if we go for a couple of weeks without, then we have to start all over again.

I've never really had a problem with a guy's girth. Sometimes it can be a little bit painful, upon entering, but it goes away, very quickly. Unlike the length problem.

For me, lube will help with the girth problem, but not the length problem.

[AutumnAuburn]

lube? like lotion? will that work
I don't know about anyone else, here... But, the last time I used lotion, as a lubricant, it was horrible. It caused me quite a bit of pain, the next morning. I was terribly swollen, very dry and quite uncomfortable, after using the lotion.

I would suggest that you get an actual sexual lubricant. Make sure you get something that is compatible with latex (assuming you are using condoms).

The suggestion to not use Vaseline was a good one. Vaseline is petroleum based, not water based. It will not wash out of the orifice, very easily, with natural body fluids. It will also trap bacteria in there, possibly leading to infection.

If you can't get a lube from a store (maybe because of your age), you can always use olive oil. I've used it before. And actually, lubes tend to not taste very good, the olive oil isn't too bad. :)

[ronnyromance]

Good point autumn. It isnt girth that hurts but length. My cock is actually very thick as well. Girls arent going to complain about girth. Girth makes it more pleasureable because you are actually filling the hole. Maybe a virgin or somebody who is extremely tight might be hurt by girth but as said previously on this post that is something that will go away after you loosen it up. Even though at 8" im larger than average, its not something I like to brag about or anything. I was merely trying to support this guy who is around the same size by letting him know in my years of experience I have found that it is a very desirable size. But its funny how somebody comes along slighty smaller than average and cant wait to say well you must have a skinny ass cock. But then I guess they show their own ignorance and inexperience by suggesting girth is more painful than length.

[Peace]

im not sure about 8" but i know ladies always complain about my 11"

[Incubus]

See I wasn't really trying to have guys come here at tell me about their penis, like i said its inevitable, I found some very useful info from the ladies, I will try a sexual lubricant.

I also have a very kinky new girl Im with and she has a new techinque to sex i never tried and she can last for hours and so can i. I lay on my back and she strattles me and im all the way up against the very end.. (dunno the correct term) and she says it feels sooo good if i rub the end in a circluar motion, and it feels soo fucken good for me... we can go for 2 1/2 hours and then Im sore lol probably not a cure for a sore dick muscle!!:D Some of the girls replying to my message sound like real finds, maybe now one of you girls can tell me where the real horny into it type girls go. I am always looking for something new!

[vanilla]

My man's about 8" too. I see him every week so like the other people said, each time, I pretty much have to get used to it all over again. But when he fucks me hard and fast, its an amazing feeling. Rough, wild sex is so animal like. Really turns me on.

[ZePpeLinA]

man i need to get laid!

[vanilla]

Zeppelina

Hahaha...

Me too... I missed it this weekend dued to some food poisoning. And reading these posts is definitely not helping me get less horny!

[ZePpeLinA]

for me is worse since I don't have a boy to play with
:p

oh well..

[vanilla]

Will going to a pub help?Here, it's the men that get picked up by the girls and its the girls who disappeared after the night and never return or pick up calls.

[ZePpeLinA]

LOL that's hilarious!
Talk about girl power, it's always the other way round!

I'm horny but I can manage with myself, will see what happens when i get bored..LOL

[vanilla]

Aww.. hon, hope you feel better soon.

Actually, you know what? I feel so old because I haven't been to a pub in yonks! Man.... and also the friends I go with don't ever chat up any blokes. WE just go, dance, sweat it off and head home! Not even drinking! I miss my old high school mates.

Hey.. I mentioned that your avatar resembles you so much!

[Bilby]

You qualify for the well hung jury.http://www.hipforums.com/forums/images/smilies/wink.gif

[vanilla]

LOL that's hilarious!
Talk about girl power, it's always the other way round!

I'm horny but I can manage with myself, will see what happens when i get bored..LOL
Hehe...
Yup.. There is even a soap opera based on that.
Like my boyfriend told his ex roommate. It's the girls who fucked him. Not him who fucked the girls.

[ZePpeLinA]

oh yeah I kind of look look my avatar, LOL!:)

that's wild! I guess it's true...we girls are feeling much more liberated, it's great!!!!

[Jaque Imo]

It sounds like hipforums is just full of these guys with 8"+ dicks...We should do a survey and see if hipforums average penis size is higher than the real average...because as we all know, people who use online forums anonomously report thier penis size so very accurately.

[Peace]

what you dont believe i have a 11" penis. I feel hurt.

[Danielle]

Im just curious as to why so many men have to come on here and tell every one there penis size...Does it make them feel better or something? He didnt ask for no men to come on here and reply with thie penis size he asked a question why pst your size? What point does it make does it answer his question? Nope

[Pablo]

You arent the real Peace! you stole her name at the restart!

[Pablo]

Im just curious as to why so many men have to come on here and tell every one there penis size...Does it make them feel better or something? He didnt ask for no men to come on here and reply with thie penis size he asked a question why pst your size? What point does it make does it answer his question? Nope
how come whenever men do something the reason must be immature and stupid, but if a woman talks about stuff that no one could posibly care about shes just letting off steam, or opening up or something that sounds good like that, its the same thing

[Danielle]

:confused: :confused: Um Eh? :confused: :confused:

[BoogyInYrButt]

I'm a full 3" and the ladies still get sore. What's with that?

[Pablo]

sorry that was kinda off topic, im just beginning to get a bit pissed about peoples attitudes, i mean some stuff men do is dumb ego driven nonsence, just like a lot of stuf women do is drama to get atention. But ive lately heard all these hypocritical women (not you daniell) doing stuff like cheating and everyone acts like if a woman does it its for romantic reasons like "i just needed excitement, i felt empty" a mans reasons are the same, he just doesnt say it that way. And if women talk about their vaginas then its bautiful and some such, which im not saying vaginas arent beutiful, but if a guy talks about his stuff hes just being a jack ass, no one came in and just said "my dong is huge" or something, they all added something with relavance to the topic. This is largly a rant caused by other stuff but i had to say it to someone.

[Incubus]

Ummm what happened to the topic!?!?! lol

[Tamee]

penis size don't matter. but eight inches is kinda big. I get sore from too much sex no matter how big the guy is, though.

[Danielle]

:) I never talk about my vagina i see no reason to he just asked a question and some one had to come on here and point out his size i dont see why he had to do that i mean come on answer the original topic.:)

[Pablo]

I only saw size mentioned as part of a relavent reply to the topic.

[balibalistic]

it really is all about expierience!!i've been with my girl for two years now and if i fully penetrate her she squeels.you dont need to literally barry the needle man.just throw it half way im for the first couple minutes until shes worked in and really wet,then you can slowly go a bit further in,i wouldnt recomend barrying it at all.its not the size of the boat its the motion of the ocean that counts brotha.

[Incubus]

hey man i like that expression, but it feels so fucken good to burry the needle lol!! if only there were a girl out there who likes to have an 8" burried in her... Ill keep tappin them girls till i find one who does!

[Pablo]

really though most women are fine and love having it all the way in if you get them worked up enough first. You just need to ease it in for a while.

[Peace]

i just hope that i'll find someone who can handle my 11". maybe im just an outkast :(

[Bug_Man]

I don't ever get laid so the ladies don't get sore from me. I just stay home suckin' on my big 10"er, Uh Huh!

[Pablo]

i just hope that i'll find someone who can handle my 11". maybe im just an outkast :(
ok well this guy is saying it just to say it. Its all hes saying and hes repeating it, and hes acting sad about it to make people think its true.

[Bug_Man]

How do you know he doesn't have an 11"er, Pablo? Maybe it's true! Maybe he craves the intimacy that his 11" won't allow him to embrace.

[Pablo]

haha, but there are plenty of women who can take 11", even if hes not into big ladies im sure he can find one.

[neckienoo]

8" is perfect! That's how big my ex was and at first it hurt to have sex, but after a while it was awesome. Just take your time. you'll be cool.

[Incubus]

neckie was he able to put it all the way in though, i have yet to find a girl who can actually let me hump he balls deep. they only let me go slow if its all the way in and its so lame. and getting head is out of the question with some girls they say its too big.. damn high school girls

[Pablo]

i can sympathise man, but ive been with one girl now for over a year and shes getting to where i can put it all the way in fast and it doesnt hurt her, it does hurt her if i do it again right away some times, and she only recently started being able to give me head without it being bit down on me and hurting her jaw too bad. So maybe you need to just stick with one girl long enough that she can adjust. Though it wont be so tight that it feels like a hard grip any more, but aparently thats not how pussy normally feels.

[Incubus]

I envy you pablo, id give up a tight pussy that is complaining about pain for a sumwut not tight pussy that can take my 8 like a pro! But screwing the same girl everyday requiresa relationship! Fack dat, im 18 i got too many freshmen, sophomore, junior and senior girls to fack!

[Pablo]

i wasnt complaining, her pussy feels wonderful, and its not just the physical adaptation, we both know so many tricks to getting eachother off and making eachother feel good.

[Incubus]

I bet you could use those same tricks on any girl, sorry if it sounded like i thought you were complaining, i said i envied you, i wouldnt envy a complainer :p

[Bug_Man]

See if her anal cavity can accomadate your large member. Anal sex is wonderful and ALL women love it even if they say they don't!

[Pablo]

Yeh thats true, its easier to fit it in the back entrance. My girfreind really likes how it feels, but shes embaresed too much by the stuff that gets on it. Too bad. I might add another advantage of a long term relationship, we know eachother well enough to know we dont have any diseases, and shes on birth controll pills and we share the cost of them, so we can do it any time any where, no rubber necisary. BOOYAH

[Bug_Man]

Yeh thats true, its easier to fit it in the back entrance. My girfreind really likes how it feels, but shes embaresed too much by the stuff that gets on it. Too bad. I might add another advantage of a long term relationship, we know eachother well enough to know we dont have any diseases, and shes on birth controll pills and we share the cost of them, so we can do it any time any where, no rubber necisary. BOOYAH



Then why in the fuck are you complaining then? Just for attention? Just curious.

[cosmicreation]

8" is not too much! My boyfriend is 9.5 and I love it! At first I was a little sore but I can't get enough of it now. He did tell me that I am the first girl that he's been able to put it in all the way with though which surprises me b/c he's pretty experienced and so are most of the girls he's been with. I'm guessing he's been in the same situation you're in up until me so just wait. Find someone you love and give it to her a lot, she'll get used to it and never want anything else. :) Peace out man

[freedbypeace]

I had a bf, 10 1/2 in,...no joke, not a fucking joke, I tried giving him head and it hurt so bad! :eek:

[TARABELLE]

I don't think it's your length (maybe your girth), I think it is your awesome staying power. Maybe take breaks and switch to some other activity to keep the girls' interest up.

[Pablo]

Then why in the fuck are you complaining then? Just for attention? Just curious.
It wasnt a complaint, just cause one thing i said was a complaint doesnt mean it all is.

[kittykat]

Anything over 7" is a stretch for me. 5 to 6" feels the best I think.

[Ikarion]

I´ve got this personal belief(just a belief) that women well loose sensebility over the time ( i´m not sure if it has to do with the loosening down there...) and will need wider cocks to experience pleasure, while medium cocks will become boring. Is this true? Only the women can satisfy my curiosity on this.

[PurpleGel]

sorry but very few women would call eight inches the "perfect" size. you're just playing it up. in truth, you're too big. oh well.

[Biggen]

Anything over 7" is a stretch for me. 5 to 6" feels the best I think.

The girl of my dreams?????

Eh...kidding darling. My dong sure is small, though.

[Biggen]

It sounds like hipforums is just full of these guys with 8"+ dicks...We should do a survey and see if hipforums average penis size is higher than the real average...because as we all know, people who use online forums anonomously report thier penis size so very accurately.

Yep....every dude in these forums seems to be packin' a fucking fleshy billy club in their trousers.

[Wicked Penetration]

lol its amazing how many guys here have 8+ inch dicks... I feel so small now. I'll be the first to admit I wish I was larger. I mean, I should be happy with what I got, it has a nice curve to it that can hit a woman right where it feels good, and its still about 6.5 inches long. It isn't 8 which I think I would like (lol), but I'm pretty happy with 6 and a half.

[ihmurria]

8"... too big if he doesn't know what he's doing, yeah. hell, 7" is too much if he doesn't know what he's doing and ain't willing to learn/listen to me. arg

[Pablo]

It is pretty pointless to ask, women vary in what they like as much as men vary in size, it's just as easy to be too big as too small, so it isnt the bigger the better, and you cant get an accurate measurement anyway because it changes in size so much. Besides that, if you do the right stuff you can get a girl mentally turned on enough and make her orgasm just by running your fingers over her skin and not even touching the vagina, nipples or rectum, if you have the touch and skill, so im sure you can do it with a little penis if thats what you have. Infact it seems better to be too small than too big, because if your too small you can put it in her and get your pleasure thatway while making her feel good with the other things you do. But if your too big it'll hurt her so much you wont be able to make her and you feel good at the same time.

besides that point, the average is 5 or 6 inches, but even if youve got like 2" im sure you can still satisfy women just fine if you learn how to find their sweet spots. I've even heard of a guy who picked up women and while he was talking to them he would say something about him having a tiney penis, It aparently worked well because they figured he must have some reason that hes pretty sure of his other qualities. Im sure it wouldent work nearly as well to walk up and say you have a huge one, they probably just would think you were lieing and/or a jerk.

[Bobinbed]

My boyfriend`s cock is 8" or slightly over. It's PERFECT!
I love it when he fucks me hard and deep... *horny*
As some of you girls already pointed out, soreness can
be caused by not having sex often enough to adapt to
the guys penis size.