How can I find a gay or bi-sexual guy?

[Borgy]

I'm not really sure what i am. I think i'm bi 'cause i feel atracted to both girls and boys. I have no sexual experiences and i want to meet some guy like me. My problem is that I don't know how to find out if someone of, more or less, my age (16) is gay or bi-sexual. I wan to meet but i don't know how, specially 'cause i'm scared of mistaking some guy's sexual preference; and also i'm very shy in this matter.

[WynterFrost]

search the web or on here

[meishka]

i am i think, but you're jail bait. like all gay and bi guys i know. or they're too old. or no where near where i live

[Mui]

i've had the best luck by talking to women actually... some of them know all the gay boys :D

[Seru]

Wait 2 years n i'll fuck ya :)

[Bug__Man]

Wait 2 years n i'll fuck ya :)

Considering you fuck your own dog, that's not very promising.

[SelfControl]

Eye up guys at school. 16-18 they're all at it these days. Go to parties where people get drunk and cop off, itll work.

[cerridwen]

how about going to a gay bar? there's lots of gay people there...

[Naturedude90]

Hi.
I'm new to to this. I also am questioning . I really, really like 1 of my best friends( a dude).I've been having sexual dreams about him& wake up all excited& hard. Does anybody have any helpful info for me? I could really use some good advice.One of my friends said that I'm going to turn gay because I have 2 Dads.I don't think you can just turn gay?? Maybe your just born that way. I do have 2 Dads, my Mom is a Lesbian. Would that make me gay?? I just have all these question. I don't want to like hurt my Dads over this, They are very loving to me. They NEVER do anything sexual around me or stuff like that. They do kiss, I think that's cool. I do know they Love each other very,very much! How does a person know if they are gay, straight, Bi, or transgender?? Like I said, I'm new to to this place here,and need advice. Peace& Love

[Snowdancer]

That sure does help when you can just go to a bar & assume that everyone there is same sex inclined but unless Borgy lives in one of the countries where you can get into bars @ 16 this won't work.
how about going to a gay bar? there's lots of gay people there...

[LogsOnSticks]

Sucks for you Borgy, because I'm pretty much in the same dilemma...So sucks for both of us!

[Piper82]

I don't know how you feel about meeting guys over the internet, but I have several gay guy friends and they all swear by www.gay.com (http://www.gay.com). They say that it really helps when you are first coming out because you can talk to people going through the same situation, and possibly meet new people through it. Best of luck!

[Duncan]

I've got a friend in Catalonia. Maybe he could give you a tip or two ;)

[Amanda N]

http://www.gaydar.co.uk/

[SkeeterVT]

Hi.
I'm new to to this. I also am questioning . I really, really like 1 of my best friends( a dude).I've been having sexual dreams about him& wake up all excited& hard. Does anybody have any helpful info for me? I could really use some good advice.One of my friends said that I'm going to turn gay because I have 2 Dads.I don't think you can just turn gay?? Maybe your just born that way. I do have 2 Dads, my Mom is a Lesbian. Would that make me gay?? I just have all these question. I don't want to like hurt my Dads over this, They are very loving to me. They NEVER do anything sexual around me or stuff like that. They do kiss, I think that's cool. I do know they Love each other very,very much! How does a person know if they are gay, straight, Bi, or transgender?? Like I said, I'm new to to this place here,and need advice. Peace& Love
Wow. The times sure have changed from when I was 14. It was 1967 and back then, I couldn't say a thing, because I knew that if I did, I would have gotten beaten up. Actually, it's still risky for anyone under 16 to "come out," especially for boys.

You're fortunate in that you've got soemthing that I didn't have when I was your age: Queer role models, namely your parents. Since they're openly gay themselves, it ought to be much easier for you to talk to your parents about your feelings than it would be if your parents were straight.

So I recommend that you talk with your parents. You've got nothing to lose and perhaps a lot to gain.

-- Skeeter