What turns you on most about a guy / girl?...

[Claire]

I love beautiful eyes and a wicked :X personality in a guy.

What turns you on most about a guy / girl?...

Be honest!!! 'cos I am a nosy grrl:p

Love Clairexxx

[showmet]

Cuteness is on the outside and is fleeting, being attracted to cuteness is shallow. Beauty comes from within.

[Koolaid]

Gotta be intelligent so you can sit round and have decent conversation, left wing political view, tolerant, funny and of course if they have a great body and are good in bed then everyone's happy...I think a little of everything but not too much of one thing....

Oh and someone who doesn't mind I work weird ass shifts...

[Paul]

I like small hands :)

[Claire]

I could never date a guy with rightwing views... I guess that comes down to morals and values.


Gawd, I dated a guy last year who turned out to be right-wing.... whenever I said anything about anti-war etc he used to say "Aww, I love these funny little ideas you have" grrrrr

What a plank:p

[Koolaid]

I am the same I could never date a girl who was right wing..I would just be so frustrated at her all the time..To me it is common sense to be tolerant, nice and to do the best for everyone not just yourself...If someone couldn't really see that then it just couldn't work

(sorry for the simplification of right/left wing there)

[DoktorAtomik]

*shrug*

It's all part 'n' parcel. Don't think I could ever narrow it down to one thing.

[Koolaid]

Yeah sometimes it is just ace...You can't really say why..its just brilliant :)

[Claire]

Can I be really shallow for a minute and say that I like a good bum on a man?:&


... as well as good morals and intelligence of course;)

Love Shallow Clairexxx:p

[Koolaid]

shallowness is good sometimes.....especially when it comes to nice bums..he he

[island dweller]

Bums are nice... its the hypnotising way they move when the person walks...



Have to say tho give me a nice pair of legs and i am happy...

[DoktorAtomik]

Yeah sometimes it is just ace...You can't really say why..its just brilliant :)Oh, Geoffrey!

[DaisaeFaerie]

sense of humour!! has to be..someone can be intelligent and gorgeous (and have best bum in la monde) but if u can't have a laugh with them then c'est incredibly and impossibly ennuyeux.
that's prioritised though. personally my shallow necessity is nice ears :)

love daisyness xxx

[tulip]

Good sense of humour! Definitely! :) Intelligence is another thing too...

Ohh, being tall and thin and having nice eyebrows doesn't hurt either... :p
Eyebrows... eyebrows... I loooove eyebrows...

~lovetulip.

[MBintheOC]

Eyes and hair:)

[JadeWarrior]

when she catches the eye !
initially movement (catlike lol i dint say pussy) and a flash of thigh/flesh but subtle not blatant...
a smile !

[DaisaeFaerie]

'cos I am a nosy grrl:p

Love Clairexxx
nosy as in inquisitive? or as in nice noses are a turn on?
i'm nosist, have to have nice noses personally

love daisyness xxx

[Claire]

No one has voted for body yet.... I think some of you are fibbing here:p

[monosphere]

I dunno, Claire. When it comes to physical preferences, I tend to look towards the face before noticing the body. I notice the eyes, especially when they smile. I have a feeling that most people would look towards a face before the body.

A gentle heart and a warm soul will win my affections over anything else. Intelligence isn't necessarily a must. It tells what you know, not how you feel. which is more important? Sense of humor is up on my list, but isn't worth much if I'm with a mean person. It all goes back to the heart.

But that's just my thoughts on the matter.

[stardust]

for me, i am attracted to some one who is daring and has a strong personality. someone who i would feel protected by.

intellegence and morals and values are all important to me aswell, but i couldnt go out with someone who was weakwilled and wouldnt stand up for themselves.

peace and love
stardust
xxx

[island dweller]

At the moment i think i'd accept anyone that came on to me right now...

regardless of personality, looks, charm and bank balance...


been a while... :p

[Power_13]

At the moment i think i'd accept anyone that came on to me right now...

regardless of personality, looks, charm and bank balance...

Hey babe

[Alomiakoda]

Aww you two would make such a cute couple :)

[Red13Faerie]

I like a guy depending on how sweaty he is
SWEAT ROCKS!

[pixie moon madness]

i like loud funny girls.. and love eyeses and pretty noses. ive never fancied anyone with brown eyes before, short girls is good too. i like girls that could climb a tree, and good taste in music is important. scruffy is also good, im not loving the whole pointy shoe thing. i love diffrent coloured hair that looks like ropes and big stripey jumpers.... and eating dead animals is ming! so is pretenciousness!

[showmet]

Hmm, I have brown eyes:( ... thank god I'm so sweaty...?:confused:

[pixie moon madness]

ive got brown eyes too, i think thats why i dont fancy people with brown eyes, it all seems a bit insesty to me. but i could be wrong. theres bound to be someone with brown eyes that does it for me, but blue eyes....HUBBA HUBBA.

[Super_Grrl]

Physically, I love a guy with strong-looking shoulders/arms... I guess it seems kind of protective, you know? *shrug* and I like a guy who makes good eye contact, like he's actually listening, not staring at my boobies the whole time. (I gotta admit though, my boobies are quite nice rofl)

Personality, I like a guy with a big heart... the kind who will rescue puppies from highways and likes to hang out with kids... and who has a sense of humour, that's a must. But also intelligence.. I don't mean like Mensa intelligent (cos then I'd be too stupid for them) but just be able to carry on a good, solid conversation.

There. That's my list. And good news for me - I found someone with these qualities. Whoohoo!

[pixie moon madness]

openmindedness is a big turn on too, in fact thats a really big one for me. with out it half my conversations would go on a blank face. and big juciy tits too heh.

i used to love big tits, well i still do, but then i realised small ones have got there charms as well. so now i just love all tits. maybe i need to meet a girl with one big tit and one small one. yep tits are ace.

if i find someones face pretty though, then thats the most important thing as far as looks are concerned


TITS!!!!!

[pixie moon madness]

i could go on all night about what i fancy, the back of the neck is well sexy, peircings are gud. a girls arse in them shorty type knickers when ya ass cheeks hang out the bottom is wellll sexy, big boots are gud too.
but basically, when i fancy someone i fancy everything about them, and if there is stuff i dont fancy, then i honestly cant see it, so yeah i fancy everything about them.

[island dweller]

Aww you two would make such a cute couple :)
Admittedly i am the only person who laughs at mike's jokes!:p

... But it just wouldn't work, i only got a small mouth u see...;)

[DoktorAtomik]

Admittedly i am the only person who laughs at mike's jokes!:p

... But it just wouldn't work, i only got a small mouth u see...;)One word. Vaseline. :p

[island dweller]

vaseline could work, if my lips wouldn't catch fire during an "after-sex ciggie".:eek:


Should vaseline be flammable? or is it just the cheap greek stuff i got in my cupboard?...:confused:

[DoktorAtomik]

vaseline could work, if my lips wouldn't catch fire during an "after-sex ciggie".:eek:


Should vaseline be flammable? or is it just the cheap greek stuff i got in my cupboard?...:confused:Perhaps you just have hot lips? :eek:

[Smartie.uk]

yup yup.. i was 1 of the shallow 1's and chose body... but for good reason i think. i believe the phrase turn on must be related to the primative sexual instinct.. if you had said "what do you think would allow you to form a commited and loving relationship" then maybe i would have chosen something else. it is a shame that i couldn't choose more than 1 option as i would have chosen goodlooking and body, but as it is i look at a face and if it warrents it i look at the body.. but bodys are more of a turn on than faces. faces are nice.. some are very nice.. but as a turn on kinda thing.. i would have to say body.


so body body body,
some body,
anybody right now would do:p

[Power_13]

i am the only person who laughs at mike's jokes!:p
No you're not. Ohh no. No you're not.


I keep telling myself that, even if it's not true. :p

[island dweller]

No you're not. Ohh no. No you're not.


I keep telling myself that, even if it's not true. :p
Come on, don't you remember Jim Morrison being activated by strings on stage like a puppet? and the one when he flies across the audience like the plane at a pink floyd concert? :H

then we were unfortunately made to be quiet by some disgruntled fans...

[lascara]

WEll yo dont have an everything button so here she is....

Ok maybe I am a little biased but still you have to see it lol

Ailsa xxx

[pixie moon madness]

sence of humour, very very important, i know i put loads of things, but i dont fancy everything with a pulse like someone said :P
i dont fancy many people, dont know why but i dont, or maybe i do but i dont meet them very often. its that certain somthing that does it for me, im not even gonna attempt to spell that french word, hmm i think i will actually, it wont be no where nr right though, here we go........

hmmm i cant figure out how to spell the first bit
jsuna ce quai
taddaaaaa

[showmet]

hmmm i cant figure out how to spell the first bit
jsuna ce quai
taddaaaaa
"je ne sais quoi"

[pixie moon madness]

weeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee

[DaisaeFaerie]

la petite je ne sais quoi...i love that phrase, someone said it to me once, was ever so chuffed for days :D

i agree. what pixie moon said. :)

love daisyness xxx

[bedlam]

yeap bedroom eyes...

[SharyBobbins]

His charming sense of humor and love of the outdoors. :)

[DSLC]

Looks, intelligence and morals/values are very important to me. If a girl has a nice laugh, smile or other gesture, that can really do it for me as well.
I can't stand (excessively) selfish or bossy women. Or consumeristic women either really - I find them pathologically boring and superficial!

[Time]

i love long hair and nice eyes is good.

Hair is almost always the first thing i notice about a girl, the longer the better in my opinion.

Intelligence and a good sense of humour aswell.

Thats what i look for.

[boog]

hmmm i like honesty and a conviction to there own identity.
and a pretty face is always nice:)

[Donna]

I like a long hair and brown eyes...and I like when guy plays a guitar :)

[yummy]

I love beautiful eyes and a wicked :X personality in a guy.

What turns you on most about a guy / girl?...

Be honest!!! 'cos I am a nosy grrl:p

Love Clairexxx

when she talks to me and returns my PMs......:rolleyes:

[Power_13]

when she talks to me and returns my PMs......:rolleyes:

Somebody playing hard-to-get, eh? :rolleyes:

[yummy]

Somebody playing hard-to-get, eh? :rolleyes:
all she ever wants to do is talk about sex sex sex....if i want to talk about anything else....she ignores me....:(

[Quest_techie]

I need someone I can talk to and cook for

[Power_13]

all she ever wants to do is talk about sex sex sex....if i want to talk about anything else....she ignores me....:(
I had a similar problem a while back, until I thought about it logically.

She wants to talk about sex, you want to talk about something else. Thus, the way to solve this problem is to tie whatever you want to talk about into sex. For example, instead of saying "I had to take my motorcycle to the mechanic's place today because the engine was vibrating funnily", say "I had to take my motorcycle to the mechanic's today, because it was throbbing like a huge, erect penis".

It'll be harder than a raging erection to come up with ideas for ways to tie certain subjects together for a while, but you'll get used to it eventually.

As I said, I had the same problem...luckily, I'm one of the greatest minds of the 21st century, so the solution came quicker than a man with premature ejaculation getting a blow job from a vacuum cleaner. All I can say is good luck, and tie those subjects together as tightly as a Dominatrix ties her victims to a four poster bed.

[yummy]

LOL.....sounds like a good idea...i will try it

[greenpeople]

great curly hair!!! :D

[Iago2]

She can make me laugh until i'm sick on my shoes.

[capricorn]

I always only liked tall guys with brown hair who played the guitar, but then I dated this guy who I thought was extremely fantastic who was short with blonde hair, but he still played the guitar....so I guess I learned I just like a guy who plays the guitar...Haha, oh yeah and I like guys who are deep, different, and don't give a damn.

[Packinalength]

Gotta be a nice body

[Power_13]

I'm really turned on by gullibility. It's strange, but I just can't resist it!

[Paul]

I like a peachy arse and a filthy mind :)

[Dustystar]

I def. notice a guys hair 1st---curly or dreads or just hair that catches my eye. But thats when I talking about initial attraction.

Then sense of humor is what I look for next. B/c if my guy & I can't laugh 2gether I don't c the pt. of moving forward w/anything. Usually the guys who have the best sense of humor are the more intellegent of the bunch as well!

[TheFly]

I like somebody who is still breathing...

Fly...

[Power_13]

You prude, Fly :p

[kier]

physicaly...


her face is foremost...in perticular her eyes and hair...it depends on her physical charecteristics what looks best, but my fave is long hair, dark or reddish (or both...mm auburn)

her smile and laugh is good too...and also voice...certain accents are super hot :)

as for her body, healthy :) not too thin, not overweight, that nice balance which allows for soft hugs and such, and is healthy and beautiful and causes the beauty to be radiant :)

and also the way she moves...as a whole, and little things like hands :) i'm not talking about confidence, sometimes a bit of shyness is great, and overconfidence is daunting

but most importantly it's what's inside...

a BIG heart, for caring and happyness and love and laughter and all those wonderfull things

and similar passions and viewpoints...not all the way through, im sure i've got some wrong viewpoints, and also it's cool to be able to discuss and natter about things

some of the passions i like sharing is music, adventure and of course view points on things such as politics and such

annnyways, ive rambled, i've been thinking about this before now...anyways, that'd be my match in some shape or form!

[kier]

I like somebody who is still breathing...

Fly...
you meany, that excludes plants!

[Iago2]

Absence of goitres is a must.

[showmet]

Absence of goitres is a must.
Ooh, fat necks *rubs legs*

[britishman2525]

ahhh, strictly cosmetically.

For guys, the chest and torso and stomach. Being muscular is a plus being close shaven is a ultra plus!

For girls, either black with a huge ass, or asian, period.

White women don't turn me on, even though i'm white. Especially not white AMERICAN women. :eek:

But I would fall for a white woman, with a germanic accent, ooh thats good!
German, sweedish, hell swiss. You know what they say about them swiss women in bed.


"they open up in more ways than they're knives, and faster too!"

HAIR PEACE! FREE LOVE! SIXTIES FOREVER!

[Claire]

thanks for sharing

[lionface]

Eyes for me are the gateway to thought, the greatest asset available. I don't have a particular type of eye that attracts me but when i see a pair of eyes that enchant me i cant get them out of my head.

[Bobba]

So recap;

Eyes, shoulders, arms, eyebrows, smile, sense of humour plus more I've probably forgotten.

The bar keeps getting raised higher and higher :(

[Kabbalist]

Absolutely the sense of humor, that's what will remain forever :)

[Insight_m]

A woman which knows what she wants.

[joker]

i'd have to say intelligence and personality. i dig a chick whose a critical thinker. I could never date a right wing or materialistic chick. I just don't get along with them for some reason.

[Silver rain]

personality defo,godda make me laugh
and i have a thing for glasses yummy
they godda smell good too that alone can turn me on

[Libertine]

1- Physical Appearance (including body, face, scent, etc)
2- Open-Mindedness
3- Straightforwardness

[dapablo]

A wiggle and a smile.

[fountains of nay]

a sense of humour and pretty eyes, does it for me everytime. Guys with girly bums are always a bonus too!

[the_boy_liam]

i think sharing the same values or morals is important for any kind of long term relationship. i dont think i could be THAT close to someone with any right of centre views. but in terms of getting to know someone, and deciding that you fancy them hair and a similar sense of humour is vital!

[Laura-the-flowergirl]

Hmm, I guess similar morals and values are quite important in a serious relationship. But when you're just starting to get to know someone, there are many things that can have a positive effect. Beautiful eyes and hair always turn me on, and a sense of humour is also a good thing. About intelligence...I don't need someone who is a genious, but I'd like to have a partner with some brains, so we can have proper conversations :p

[wolfie65]

I'm easily pleased I think. I do have a thing for redheads. I mean the natural ginger hair type. Not that I've had the pleasure of going out with one!

[Cheeky]

im very attracted to legs!

[Greengirl]

The hair,it`s allways the hair and the smile!;)

[paintingjames]

only Felines who on their Intuitions rely do i love to wine and dine

[woodcat]

A filthy mind, I love a woman with a filthy mind!

[madcap]

have to be intelligent, left wing, have dark mystical eyes, good sense of humour is important! i could go on forever, i want it all like anyone, but its better when you just click with someone and you love them for their flaws too =)

[Peace-Phoenix]

Intelligent, check, left-wing, check, dark mystical eyes, check... good sense of humour? Damn, failed miserably there. But seriously, know what you mean about people having to be left-wing, at least reasonably so, I could never find myself with a Conservative no matter how nice they were!

[mynameiskc]

i found myself with a man who at first didn't fit any of my physical criteria: he's a blue-eyed devil, and not very tall. but now, i can't believe i ever thought i wanted anything else. he's a prime combination of everything i think a man should be.

[CrucifiedDreams]

Intelligence, humor, passion, artistic is nice laid back (A must I can't stand high strung people), left wing, adventurous, mischievous, naughty! Physically, I notice eyes first, always, smile. Cliche but true "tall dark and handsome." In women physically, I loooove curves.

[Harry Tuttle]

1. Must have huge... tracts of land!
2. See 1

[al-Hallaj Kabir Ali]

Beautiful girls (NOT masculine) with hair on their arms.

[Little Miss Strange]

i found myself with a man who at first didn't fit any of my physical criteria: he's a blue-eyed devil, and not very tall. but now, i can't believe i ever thought i wanted anything else. he's a prime combination of everything i think a man should be.I agree with this! The man I am to marry is the complete opposite it terms of looks that I used to go for, but he is intelligent and kind and hilarious! Meeting him taught me alot about what is important in people's characters. But he is awfully pretty too... http://www.hipforums.com/forums/images/smilies/devil.gif http://www.hipforums.com/forums/images/smilies/smile.gif

[Jewmanjii]

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[phoenix_indigo]

this should have multiple selections

[Ruberx Omati]

I would like someone who likes playing music at a subtle volume.

[*Andy*]

I mostly get turned on by someone's weight and by their face really. Oh and of course their personality. I love fat guys with dark hair and stubble...I'll stop.

[Harry Tuttle]

haha! love your sig *Andy* :D not so sure about your taste in women though :eek:

[PurplePearl]

I like small hands :)

I like hands too , particularly long slender fingers. Artistic looking hands.

[J0hn]

I love lassiviousness in a girl. Sometimes I like a bit of hard to get. I chase Olivia around the room before we collapse on the bed.

[datmandan]

Its part of a package..... I find a pretty girl attractive from a sexual point of view, and I don't mean a model lookalike, just a normal healthy woman with a pretty face :-) I love a sexy girl with some curves :-) But for a relationship it has to be someone with a pleasant personality and a brain. I can't stand trying to make conversation to someone with no intelligence lol.

[verseau_miracle]

Kindness is a really underrated quality and one which is think is probably most important for a man. And honesty. Ill have to say intelligence too, not that id judge or cancel out chances of friendship if someone had little intelligence but was a nice person, or spoke in ways i didnt understand because they were cleverer than me, but its always nice to find someone on my intellectual level so we can have a decent talk without getting lost

Im one of those types they always mistake for a prude though:confused: I mean "turning on" sexually would take a lot more than any of those things alone. My triggers are deep. Im not a prude though:)

[Pocket]

tallness and a nice back

[justmoi]

mind, belly and thighs(both girls and guys)

[Quoth the Raven]

Intelligence - a girl with a good mind is worth 10 with good tits.
After intelligence comes humour.. then the physical things like nice hair, nice eyes, tits, arse etc.

[Pocket]

aye a good Sense of Humour another key thing for me

[hillbillyhippiechick]

Some other options you might want to include in your poll choices might be "Interests,"
or "Life Goals or Commitments," maybe even "Spirituality." Just a thought to add a little more variety.

[jimmyblazingstar]

Eyes lips nice round ass and a willingness to start playing with herself without even being asked to ;P

[Rah]

I like girls to be slutty and have nicely kept pubic hair

[Rah]

I like women to have a fungal foot infection

[InsaneAndProud]

lol i like eyes and slightly long hair, then good personality, fun etc. so yea i start with looks cos i need attraction first lol

[codeye]

the ass:)......mmmmm, i looooove a good looking female ass

[dusk]

the mind is a beautiful thing, legs and then i would say hair, god i wish i had some, hair that is, lol

[zman28]

Well on a physical level it is said that "it is always darkest just before dawn" and so it goe's that as "the guilt of a thousand religious zealots" is removed from the true beauty of creation, satin shimmerimg in the morning light, there can be nothing more beautiful than what causes man and woman a like to fall upon bended knee in total submission!
In simple terms a woman wearing form fitting selected satin lingerie highlighted with thigh high stiockings is in my opinion the 8th wonder of the world.

On an emotional level support, honesty and the willingness to forgoe one's own uniqueness and merge together as one, as it were, similar to each time the magical moment of new lfe is born amongnst us.
The power generated in that second that moment occurrs, before union is completed, is elemental and a force to be reconded with.
Alas the farther away from our roots we move, inked by a chain of succession, that elemental bond becomes weaker and weaker.

[tomandhismuse]

Eyes and personality. Nuff said really.

[Purple_Muse]

There has to be a 'spark' when I meet a man if I persue any sort of relationship with him.

My boyfriend has very dark smouldering eyes and has great eye contact, that was really very attractive to me.

I prefer dark haired men.

An intelligent person who has a silly sense of humour is a dynamite combination for me!

[RessotaspiksMan]

1st I'd say cheekbones and the face.
2nd eyes , hair , body
3rd fun/ chilled personality
4th - well , she's scored by then..probabaly.: )

After that , there's an X factor, its hard to define..

[lithium]

An inability to cook and a tendency to fall over.

[Power_13]

a tendency to fall over.


Oh fuck man, you should've been there when Claire tripped over a tent peg at Glastonbury. You'd have asked her to marry you there and then.

[lithium]

Oh fuck man, you should've been there when Claire tripped over a tent peg at Glastonbury. You'd have asked her to marry you there and then.

Ha, Claire cooks some mean vegan dishes though:tongue:

[Power_13]

Even if she was like Jamie Oliver in t'kitchen, this falling over would perfectly balance it out for you. It was beautiful. A one-time piece of performance art that I was honoured to be the only person to witness. :cool:

[repro-bait]

looking at a girl.....she must be slim..she must be small titted......young girl like.
intelligent, and have an 'edge' to her..rthe indedfinable something that says.....mmmmm!

[Raskalization]

Duct tape lovers are my favorite...also known as duck tape lovers.

[Libertine]

Attitude towards getting naked and committing lewd acts of sexual degradation.

[verseau_miracle]

Strength of character, kindness and humility,open-mindedness and good conversation, decent sense of humour. I also like to feel protected:oWell, Im only a littleun

[Amethyst21]

Personality, compatibility, nice eyes,
but above all ... NICE BIG MANLY HANDS!

a little strange i know....

[opel diamond]

kindness, sweet smile, nice eyes, nice hands, funny, protective, clever and lovely.

i dont ask for much do i? :D

luckily ive found the chap with all these qualities.

[atla23]

a beautiful face for sure

[piscesqueen]

SOH a must but for me it has to be sarcastic wit...noel gallagher could laugh my knickers off anyday...love him!!! on the whole i have to say i find northerners funnier than southerners...controversial i know!! so let me rephrase...its not that you southerners aren't funny...its just from my experience you tend to tell very longwinded jokes & aren't so quick at getting witty sarcasm...& when something has to be explained its soooo not funny!!

wait just thought of an exception...russell brand noels mate actually...he is very very funny, very quick & very clever...but really don't think i'd have sex with him...can you imagine?? it'd be like being in bed with a deranged scarecrow...on speed...


another must is a naughty twinkle in their eye...george clooney has it & still has a laddishness (is that a word?? well it is now :)) about him too. apparently hes quite easy on the eye too...so i'm told ;) now russell does have this twinkle too but to me his smacks of more mania than naughtiness!!

[lithium]

kindness, sweet smile, nice eyes, nice hands, funny, protective, clever and lovely.

i dont ask for much do i? :D

luckily ive found the chap with all these qualities.

:seeya:;)

[ThePmiester]

Kindness, sense of humour, personality & worshipping of aircooled VW's :P

[orionrising]

intelligence, great personality, a conscience/moral values, deep eyes and a toned bum will keep me interested:)