Anal sex

[Paul]

Following on from the porn discussion in the main forum which also led in to discussions on fetish and other "alternative" sexual practises ...

Just a little poll as I'm curious as to how many people have and haven't done anal sex ... who likes it and who finds the idea totally taboo?

Anonymous voting of course :)

I would have had options on fingers and tongues etc but ran out of spaces ... I'll save that for another poll I suppose

(I'm guessing that this could be a sensitive subject so no slagging or I'll lock the thread)

[Smartie.uk]

well its half three in the morning and im about to start the uk end of my stupid little travelling game.. so i thought "oooo 1 last post" and imediately i see "Anal sex" staring at me from my monitor... so i guess this is as good a place as any to put a final post.


i would have voted paul mate... but there wasn't a tick box for;
male, done it, it was alright but nothing to write home about, if you look about an inch past that you got a better, self lubricating hole.

so i didn't bother.. but when you post a poll with all the fingers and tongues replies... put this one in and tick it for me.

cheers dude

take it easy all... and play safe

peace and love

over and out

t-t-t-t-t-t-thats all folks

andy
xxx

[Paul]

it was alright but nothing to write home about, if you look about an inch past that you got a better, self lubricating hole.My aim is fucking awful though :p

Have fun out there mate :)

[Peace-Phoenix]

Hmmm, it doesn't really appeal to me personally (in relation to men or women) but each to their own....

[Claire]

Got this off a medical website... for your info;)



Anal sex is medically risky behavior, even if condoms are used as a barrier for STDs.

The anal sphincter muscle is not anatomically designed to comfortably admit external objects--it is designed to relax and stretch when stimulated internally by rectal fullness from stool. The automatic reflex is for it to contract and tighten when pressure is applied externally. The risks, even with gentle insertion, are laceration of the anal tissue, and rectal mucosa, resulting in pain, bleeding, and difficulty passing stool comfortably.

Any presence of blood can potentially expose the insertive partner to bloodborne STDs like Hep. B, Hep. C, and HIV. In addition, exposure to stool can result in urethral infections in a male insertive partner.

The receptive partner is at more risk for contracting STDs if there is trauma (even microscopic) to the anus or rectum due to the potential presence of virus in semen, if ejaculation takes place in the rectum. Human papilloma virus also is likely to be spread anally due to this trauma to the anal and rectal tissue, and some of the most difficult persistent HPV infections we see are chronic anal warts, both external and internal to the anal sphincter and they are exceptionally difficult to treat, often requiring surgery to remove.

Aside from the traumatic and infectious risks, there is the risk of sphincter tone (tightness) loss over time due to repeated dilation for insertive intercourse. Many receptive partners experience stool incontinence (leaking of stool or poor control) when they have anal sphincter tone decrease. This, needless to say, is very bothersome and uncomfortable and has to be surgically corrected if it becomes chronic.

Lastly, there is increased risk of spreading gastrointestinal pathogens through anal contact--whether it is bacterial infections like salmonella or E. Coli, or parasitic infections like Giardia.

[lascara]

well you dont have a botton for me, either, i have noth given and recieved it and enjoyed it but only as something when I am in the mood which granted isnt very often. i know the risks and is something I will only do with a long term partner and it has to just feel right, if I was to feel any pressure to do it, I just couldnt as I wouldnt be able to relax and that would be increasing the risk.

Ok I will stop now before you all have to much info lol

Mistress Ailsa xx

[Paul]

well you dont have a botton for me, either, i have both given and recieved it and enjoyed itIt's a multiple choice ... you can tick more than one answer ;)

[DoktorAtomik]

There was this gay couple I knew years ago, and one guy used to work in this support charity for people with STDs and so forth. What he did tell me that always stuck in my mind was that a large number of gay men have to use tampons in later life in order to stop seepage.

Personally, I'm quite happy with the notion of the sphincter and associatted muscles as erogenous zones, so a bit of light fingering and so forth - no problemo. As for sticking my old man up the brown tunnel? Ummm... nope. Like thingy said, what's the point with a well lubriacted alternative ready and willing and just around the corner?

[Paul]

What he did tell me that always stuck in my mind was that a large number of gay men have to use tampons in later life in order to stop seepage. That really isn't a pleasant thought and I remember you posting it a while back and thinking that then.

[Claire]

There was this gay couple I knew years ago, and one guy used to work in this support charity for people with STDs and so forth. What he did tell me that always stuck in my mind was that a large number of gay men have to use tampons in later life in order to stop seepage.

Personally, I'm quite happy with the notion of the sphincter and associatted muscles as erogenous zones, so a bit of light fingering and so forth - no problemo. As for sticking my old man up the brown tunnel? Ummm... nope. Like thingy said, what's the point with a well lubriacted alternative ready and willing and just around the corner?
He'll kill me for saying this (but he's not on the forums so thats ok i think:p ) but my best friend tim (gay) can't even hold himself in before he gets to the toilet sometimes now:&

Worth considering I think:&

[Alomiakoda]

Alot of damage can be done and I agree with Ailsa completely. You have to be in right frame of mind and have to be with someone you trust completely who has put your own pleasure and experience before their own. LOTS OF LUBE!! The orgasm's are mind blowing and its incredibly intimate and loving with the right partner. I am going to be frank for a moment lol ... I'm not on the pill at all because it makes me ill. My b/f doesnt like using condoms because they hurt him and I don't like them because they tend to give me problems down below.... so to be able to have penetrative sex through to ejaculation without worrying about getting pregnant is actually incredibly liberating. I wouldnt want to have anal sex everytime like, but once in a while its lovely :)
Sorry if that is way too much info but such an intelligent discussion deserves imput I feel.
I don't want to sound patronising - but you will eventually get pregnant through using the rhythm method...it's one of the least reliable forms of birth control.

[Alomiakoda]

The rhythm method is much more unreliable than using condoms. When used correctly condoms have a 98% success rate. The rhythm method seems to ignore the issue of pre-cum :p

[DoktorAtomik]

The rhythm method is much more unreliable than using condoms. When used correctly condoms have a 98% success rate. The rhythm method seems to ignore the issue of pre-cum :pI concur. Also, at the age of 33, I've never had a condom snap yet. Like Alimawotsitkothingy said, it's all about using them correctly.

[EarthWhirler]

This thread leads me to the conclusion that you pro-anal people just aren't getting enough mind-blowing vaginal sex!

I can honestly say that having a dick shoved up my arse is on a par with with hammering 9 inch nails through my hands. And I'm not even uptight sexually either! ;)

Even some of the gay men I know (my brother included) say there's more to (gay) sex than intercourse!

It speaks to me of pain/discomfort, dominance and extremism.

[DoktorAtomik]

It speaks to me of pain/discomfort, dominance and extremism.
Shut up, bitch. *thwack* ;)

[EarthWhirler]

Shut up, bitch. *thwack* ;)
Am I allowed to say the safeword yet?!? :eek:

:X

[DoktorAtomik]

Am I allowed to say the safeword yet?!? :eek:

:X
Not unless it's "phmmmwmmmmhhhnnmmmm" * ;)

* "I can't talk, there's a huge cock halfway down my throat"

[Paul]

I can honestly say that having a dick shoved up my arse is on a par with with hammering 9 inch nails through my hands.But 9 inches is far longer than the average nail ... (allegedly)

[EarthWhirler]

But 9 inches is far longer than the average nail ... (allegedly)
Well, size doesn't really matter :p

[Alomiakoda]

Not unless it's "phmmmwmmmmhhhnnmmmm" * ;)

* "I can't talk, there's a huge cock halfway down my throat"

She's been cheating on you? :p

[EarthWhirler]

She's been cheating on you? :p
LMAO!!!! That's tickled me, er, in a humorous kinda way :&

[DoktorAtomik]

She's been cheating on you? :pAre you stalking me again?

[DoktorAtomik]

i'm 18 and i've had 4 seperate incidents of condom breakage, and only one instance was really making the condom do more than it was designed to do...Then you ain't using the right condoms dude. Stop being a cheap bastard and buy some decent ones :p

[DoktorAtomik]

why buy them when i can get them for free? i don't actually use them currently, becky's on the pill (w00t)

seriously though, condoms aren't as durable as they claim, with exception of the extra strong ones for anal sex...Gotta disagree. I've seen the fuckers stress-tested, and they take a fair old hammering. And again..... 33 yrs old and no snappage ever. And Sam (the wench) is 30 and has never had a condom snap either. It's all down to using decent condoms and being careful.l

[TheFly]

Gotta go with Doc on this one... I'm 36 and I've only ever had one condom break on me... possibly your dick could be the size of a cucumber... in which case might I suggest recycling carrier bags?...

Fly...

[Alomiakoda]

*shrugs* who knows, maybe i just happened to recieve a dud 4 times...
Do you pinch the top down when putting them on?

Usually they snap because of compressed air in the tip. During ejaculation this air is forced out and has nowhere do go so the condom splits

[Packinalength]

So the question of this thread is do you like anal? Whether it be to give or receive. I've not acquired my brown wings yet and I wouldn't want to receive it so I can't really give an opinion, but I'd like to try it one day :H

[Packinalength]

I just realised this topic was done about 6 months ago, ah well I'm new and can't be arsed to read old topics :p

[all_rhodesian_reject]

dude....no....

[Ellie-Rose]

Eww :eek:

[Benjibean]

if she likes it, i like to give. :)

[monosphere]

I'm not big on receiving, but would probably do it for the right person. I'd perform it if my partner was wanting it as well. Not something I tend to make an effort to participate in, though.

[matthew]

I just realised this topic was done about 6 months ago, ah well I'm new and can't be arsed to read old topics :p
More like every other week...:p I like the title of the thread though.. this is why you possibly did not find many when you searched ? all the threads were hilariosly titled in some way..just like this one.

[HippyFreek2004]

*giggles* I loved the title of this thread :D

[matthew]

*giggles* I loved the title of this thread :D
I knew you would be along sooner or later...:rolleyes:

[sumtinbuggy]

I'll fuck anyone who wants to get pounded in the ass. The ass was designed for the abuse. Any takers?

[HippyFreek2004]

I knew you would be along sooner or later...:rolleyes:
yeah, sure :p

I hardly ever post in the UK forums...except my fly, which has died...again....

Oh well...How did you know? is it because you know all? :p

[matthew]

I'll fuck anyone who wants to get pounded in the ass. The ass was designed for the abuse. Any takers?
I feel such a prude when i read stuff like this..its funny though and probably true, right ?.

No i don't wish to take you up on your offer thank you very much.. But thanks for the offer none the less.

[matthew]

yeah, sure :p

I hardly ever post in the UK forums...except my fly, which has died...again....

Oh well...How did you know? is it because you know all? :pI don't realy think you want to know why i thought what i thought ...

yeah i know it all.. thats all *walks away gently*..

seriously , i was just kidding... your confused again ?.:&

[HippyFreek2004]

I know :p

[SelfControl]

Taker here. Still not had an anal adminstered :( Uni was supposed to be a hotbed of sexual experimentation, what the hell happened?

[matthew]

Taker here. Still not had an anal adminstered :( Uni was supposed to be a hotbed of sexual experimentation, what the hell happened?
Here on the hipforums were you ?...

[matthew]

I know :p
sorry... i am sort of funny realy..not all the time though :rolleyes:

[SelfControl]

Here on the hipforums were you ?...
Probably. I think I've got more of it than most, but all the same, university is nothing like it was supposed to be. Everyone here seems intent on getting qualifications and paying off their loans. I mean, jesus, why would anyone pay to go somewhere that wasn't full of polymorphous sex and rampant drug abuse? The last generation got them for free! Cunts...

[Dreamcatcher]

I've done it about three times, but I find it a bit painful, even with a lot of lube!

[Smartie.uk]

yeah it aint that great.. obviously i have never recieved.. but apparently that where me g. spot is... but i owuldn't return to that hole unless the girl i was with really wanted me to.. if you look about an inch across.. there is another hole.. its self lubing and feels sooo much nicer.

[Trickster's Child]

Never tried it, but my girlfriend asked if I fancy trying it with her sometime so may as well.


Up the bum no harm done! (http://hipforums.com/forums/showthread.php?t=76900)Or as we say in Worksop, 'Up the bum, no babies'

[Bobba]

Love the title thread. :D

Not sure of the validity of it though.

[sensualerotica]

Never tried and dont think I will! !

As far as im concerned, things come out of ur bum.... not in!!!

[Timetraveller]

Anal is pretty cool, don't get too hung up about it. It really needs to be between two people who really get off and respect each other. There's a degree of trust in it. But when you get it right... it sure is nice for the girl.

[THE GOLDEN STRING]

every girl ive been with loves it

tounge first then 1finger then some lube then two fingers
then the penis ...and ahhhhh

[wolfie65]

I suddenly feel VERY ill.

[venture]

Now i know a lot of guys really like the idea of anal. I know a lot of girls who don't like even thought. Recently my girlfriend and I got carried away and she ended up using her dildo on me. I absolutely loved it- i mean wow what a feeling. What does everyone think of anal? especially girls doing guys?

[Degenerate]

He'll kill me for saying this (but he's not on the forums so thats ok i think:p ) but my best friend tim (gay) can't even hold himself in before he gets to the toilet sometimes now:&

Worth considering I think:&The experiences of some gay men are not necessarily representative of the overall risk of this sort of thing. There's a whole subculture of gay men who enjoy anal fisting as a major part of their sex life. At the extremes, there are men who celebrate the fact that they can get their entire forearm, right up to the elbow, inside each other. When stretching things that far it's hardly surprising that some suffer loss of control.

Contrast this with an average penis, which does not require the rectum to dilate much further than when it expels an average stool.

[Cerebus]

Exactly, it's just hysteria. It's fascinating to see how much more conservative the UK forum is compared to the US forum. It's something i've noted in serveral different areas, but particularly anal sex. Still can't quite kick those Victorian values, i guess.

[J0hn]

When it comes to sex, I am like Henry the VIII.

[Cerebus]

You cut their heads off first..??! :ack:

[Peace-Phoenix]

You suppress the Catholics through sex?

[raymond the fabulous]

i think with women its like this when there in the mood any thing goes tut tut

[lithium]

You're fat and dead?

[phoenix_indigo]

lol ... why does it not suprise me that the "i'm male have given it and enjoy it" is the highest voting block.

[J0hn]

Best thing about anal is that you can still feel it afterward.

[*Minxy*]

i am female and have tryed it and frickin hated it :(

[dapablo]

No never been something that has held any interest for me either giving or receiving.
Never been asked never enquired.

[CrucifiedDreams]

No no no no no.
There is very few things I am closed minded to in bed, but that is one of them!

[froggy7]

so who wants to talk dirty contact me lee 19yo sexy body at :07875241007 up 4 pic fun so send me ya pics

[newlondongirl]

It adds variety and can be fun

[Harry Tuttle]

Not worried if I ever try it or not... I'm sure it's intense though

[fountains of nay]

It's not that bad, but not that good either.

[mellowthyme]

Up the jacksie!! Whey hey.

[lithium]

Is it just me who can't help picturing everyone who posts in this thread either giving or receiving anal:confused:
Oh shit, now I'm doing it! Aarrrgh! My mind!
http://www.hipforums.com/forums/images/newsmilies/leaving.gif

[CrucifiedDreams]

Is it just me who can't help picturing everyone who posts in this thread either giving or receiving anal:confused:
Oh shit, now I'm doing it! Aarrrgh! My mind!
http://www.hipforums.com/forums/images/newsmilies/leaving.gifHaha! It's just you.

[CrucifiedDreams]

Though now that you've mentioned it... Crap...

[Peace-Phoenix]

Now I can picture you both doing it. Lithium's recieving strangely....

[lithium]

Yeah, for some reason I was picturing Crucified dreams giving rather than receiving, with a huge black strap-on:eek:

[*Andy*]

I'm a dude and can't wait for my first time :D I am gay though so I don't know if my post is valid or not.

Why is this thread in the filthiness forum? I find that quite offensive :(

[Samhain]

I'm a dude and can't wait for my first time :D I am gay though so I don't know if my post is valid or not.

Why is this thread in the filthiness forum? I find that quite offensive :(
its only offensive if you place a judgement on being filthy, everyone in here are filthy and proud
S

[CrucifiedDreams]

Yeah, for some reason I was picturing Crucified dreams giving rather than receiving, with a huge black strap-on:eek:Bend over! http://www.hipforums.com/forums/images/newsmilies/3/set12_b/whip.gif

[Samhain]

Bend over! http://www.hipforums.com/forums/images/newsmilies/3/set12_b/whip.gif
C.D are you filthy and proud??
S

[CrucifiedDreams]

C.D are you filthy and proud??
SHell yeah! :D

[Peace-Phoenix]

I'm a dude and can't wait for my first time :D I am gay though so I don't know if my post is valid or not.

Why is this thread in the filthiness forum? I find that quite offensive :(Don't be offended, it's a love and sex forum. If it makes you feel better, heterosexual sex is filthy too....

[Kollontai]

interestingly, we see how different between individuals' perception from this thread. some say not pleasent at all, some love it....

[CrucifiedDreams]

Yeah, who knew, people have different tastes. :eek:

[Samhain]

Yeah, who knew, people have different tastes. :eek:
oh you!! :rolleyes:

[CrucifiedDreams]

oh you!! :rolleyes:Oh me?! :D

[Samhain]

Oh me?! :D
Oh you!!
:jester:

[Harry Tuttle]

I'm on a sig hunt, and Samhains wins!

[CrucifiedDreams]

I'm on a sig hunt, and Samhains wins!Yeah, I'd have to agree. His sig picture is golden.

[Samhain]

Yeah, I'd have to agree. His sig picture is golden.
ohhhhhh!!!!
new thread idea!!!
S

[CrucifiedDreams]

ohhhhhh!!!!
new thread idea!!!
SOh god... :eek:

[wiggy]

interestingly, we see how different between individuals' perception from this thread. some say not pleasent at all, some love it....Just like marmite innit

[antony26uk]

never tried anal with women an im not sure if i would try it so dunno

[repro-bait]

'rimming', the term in bdsm for kissing and/or licking around the puckered orifice, can be very pleasing. both giving and receiving.
of course there is risk........as there is in all sexual encounters when more than one single partner is the norm.
but given good hygiene before and after contact.......result........yummmmms.
penetration.same hygiene applies.
female dominants get off by penetrating the male's anal passage.
give me head every time, over anal.

[deefer666]

Given it but only when she asks for it, But I think the main thing is that proper anal sex in a loving relationship is not the violent hammering that you see on porn films and despite what they show on the screen a bit of saliva is no adequate lube!

I enjoy it and she enjoys it but only when we are both in the mood.

[verseau_miracle]

"Why would i want to put anything near your bottom Jeremy?"...