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indian~summer
06-04-2009, 03:38 AM
this is a rant i wanted to post on facebook, but considering that if i did i'd end up making enemies of my friends i thought i could post it here instead.

Fucked up double standards

Maybe if I'd moved out when I was 16, dropped out of high school, popped out a kid, finished my GED through night school. Maybe if I did all that I'd be more acceptable in your eyes.

If I had done all that maybe then you would be less quick to judge. You'd realize "Oh she must have had a hard life, she's doing the best she can. What a great person she is to with stand all those obstacles."

Instead being a 21 yr old girl still living at home, I'm obviously pampered and so lucky to live such a nice life and I'm wasting my potential. Wasting all the great things I have in front of me. Everyone should be as lucky as me.

I haven't been living on my own for 10 yrs. I couldn't know what it's like to have real hardship in front of me. I might have almost lost my eye sight at 14 but I don't have cancer.

I drink too much.
In fact, I'm drinking right now instead of pounding the streets looking for a job.

You know Jessie, you are so crazy. You are such a mooch. All those times you helped me mean nothing if you don't buy the next round.

You don't know what it's like Jessie. You couldn't know what it's like, your parents are sooo great. You treat them with such disrespect, you really ought to change that. Your Daddy didn't beat you...Oh wait, he did? Well at least your mother isn't a drunk.

You really should be more lady like Jessie. You really should stop being so emotional.

BE ALL THAT YOU CAN BE
And then because you're not like me, change it.

Everything that you're doing..don't do it. Why aren't you doing anything Jessie?

You should be more fun Jessie. Why can you never be serious Jessie?

Dear society, fuck you. Love Jessie.

ghostkitty
06-04-2009, 03:50 AM
Fuck Yeah!!

BBAD
06-04-2009, 06:56 AM
That was great!!!....I hope it made you feel better...It made me feel better

wally m
06-04-2009, 07:22 AM
so what you're saying is you're spoiled and now feel guilty.

Cherea
06-04-2009, 11:16 AM
thank you

Asmodean
06-04-2009, 11:29 AM
Pretty recognizable to me. I hadn't moved out yet at 21 neither and the occasional bastard giving me shit for that made me wonder about me and my situation well. I came to the conclusion I didn't had any trouble with it though, my parents didn't had a problem with it and I liked it most of the time as well :cool:
It's good to listen to society and give some thought to the general standards, just don't let it get to you if you feel otherwise. Your standards are just as good. Even if you're just a slacker like me :cheers2:

McLeodGanja
06-04-2009, 11:58 AM
I find people who constantly criticise me a real drain.

Maybe if you didn't smoke pot your life wouldn't a mess, why don't you get a job and a wife and settle down, etc.

Yeah I hear you, try being 37 and living with your parents.

I'm out of here soon mind, just trying to avoid working until most of the summer is past. I need sun. Fuck the whole 9 to 5 ethos.

BBAD
06-04-2009, 05:23 PM
I'm out of here soon mind,

I been telling that to myself since I was 18:cool:

Asmodean
06-04-2009, 05:57 PM
Me too occasionally, but I'm moving now teehee! And yes, without my parents :D

Bonkai
06-04-2009, 06:00 PM
Well glad you got that out. Hot!

Asmodean
06-04-2009, 06:03 PM
The only reason I stayed so long was that it wasn't so bad for me to get me to move out ;). Oh yeah, and the meals of course. And it was cheap. And in the countryside :D

indian~summer
06-05-2009, 06:25 AM
so what you're saying is you're spoiled and now feel guilty.
i don't feel guilty at all
and if what i am is spoiled i'd sure hate to have been anything else

my mother was raised to stay in the family, save up and then move out <she was 23 when she moved out>
all the money i saved up went to "the greater good for the family"

a 12 yr old shouldn't have their college money given to them by their dead great grand mother taken away to pay the mortgage

any abuse i took was just "normal"

i sure as shit shouldn't have to justify myself to anyone, but all i ever have to do is put up with people and my friends even telling me i'm spoiled

unfortunately i turn 22 in 4 months so i can't have a kid at 21 :(

wally m
06-05-2009, 08:34 AM
well good for you for helping your family. If more people did that I think the world would be a better place.

Steele
06-13-2009, 03:53 AM
yeh fuck society, fuck people telling me to cut my hair, fuck people saying i should have done more and that my band wont make it, and fuck people telling me how to live my life let me do it. man you are so right on