Am I a bad person?.

[K@teLittleJoint]

I don't know if I am a bad person or not.

I constantly ask my boyfriend what he is doing, I'm paranoid to hell about him.

I have no empathy for others, My mind thinks, "Not my problem, why should I care?".
I mean my friend just lost her uncle, I couldn't give a damn, I don't know that person, so why should I care?
Am I bad for thinking this way?.
Should I show some empathy, lie and pretend I care?

How can I stop stressing about my boyfriend?
Any woman and girl anywhere, I think he is getting all hot about them.

What the hell is up with me?.

Kate.
Age:17.
Location: England.

[Wiseman]

I don't think that means you're a bad person. I was kinda like that. Just kinda worried that there was someone else. It's a really pointless thing to worry about, believe me. But stopping the worrying is far easier said than done.

Have you talked to your boyfriend about this at all?

[I'minmyunderwear]

it's hard to give a shit about someone else's uncle. hell, it didn't affect me that much when my own uncle died.

although, you do claim to be female, so i have to assume that you are, in fact, a terrible person, and that your boyfriend is most likely thinking about other women because he's also young and doesn't yet realize that all women are evil.

[K@teLittleJoint]

Yeah.
We fall out about it.

I live with him, and I see everything he does.
But there is always a little voice in my head saying "He's doing something" "He's cheating on you"
I hate it.
Sometimes I really do think I am insane.

[K@teLittleJoint]

it's hard to give a shit about someone else's uncle. hell, it didn't affect me that much when my own uncle died.

although, you do claim to be female, so i have to assume that you are, in fact, a terrible person, and that your boyfriend is most likely thinking about other women because he's also young and doesn't yet realize that all women are evil.

He's older, by a bit.
He says he is not interested, I believe him.
As I stated below, my mind tells me otherwise.

[fitzy21]

empathy is for the weak

[spinningtop]

K@te it sounds like you need to work on your self-esteem a bit. I definitely don't think you are a bad person, but sometimes it's hard to give a shit about stuff that's quite removed from you (your friend's uncle) when you've got your own issues to deal with. The lack of empathy might be more a symptom of just needing to take some time for yourself and concentrate on what you want for your life and relationship. What are you goals?

I think definitely talk to your boyfriend about your jealousy - if you think he's open to having that kind of conversation - cos it'll eat away at your relationship.

Hugs

[indian~summer]

i am so confused.......

i really don't think that this, my personal forum is a good place for this, the basis being that i am a bad person
and you coming here and asking that..well you're pretty much asking me to make fun of you...

i was 17 once too so i shall bite my tongue...

[Hippie McRaver]

no empathy = sociopath