HELP!! -My boyfriend is addicted to sex!

[freedbypeace]

Yep, exactly what the title is. Although he is my fiance and I love him, he's addicted. If it's not sex it's head, and even when we do have sex, he cums and wants to go again, and again, and again, and again,... No joke! -On Sat. we had sex 8 times in a row! Maybe 15 sec in between at the most! What do I do? -As much as I enjoy it, I get tired, and I'm not constantly horny. Please help a girl out, how can I get him to not want sex as much, while still maintaining our good sex-life? :confused:

[trippymcnugget]

3 words. MAS-TUR-BATION

[WayfaringStranger]

tell him no everyonce in a while. if you keep up at that rate, you'll be preggo in no time. how old is this boy?

[God]

Hahahahahahahaha!

[southern_bell]

1. just lay there like a plastic doll and enjoy the ride.
2. get him a second woman
3. give him some porns to whack off too

hope i was of help!:D lol

[randomuserhaha]

What are you complaining about? or you trying to rub it in for the gals less fortunate than you eh?!!



Yep, exactly what the title is. Although he is my fiance and I love him, he's addicted. If it's not sex it's head, and even when we do have sex, he cums and wants to go again, and again, and again, and again,... No joke! -On Sat. we had sex 8 times in a row! Maybe 15 sec in between at the most! What do I do? -As much as I enjoy it, I get tired, and I'm not constantly horny. Please help a girl out, how can I get him to not want sex as much, while still maintaining our good sex-life? :confused:

[randy_savage]

I think the best way is to avoid making sex or even thinking of sex for a while, perhaps in 3 weeks or something.

Ask your boyfriend for the break. In the mean time, fulfill your time with him by doing something else just to deny the sex addiction. You both could do some hiking, camping or even a vacation to a new place (whatever that is non-related to sex).

I strongly suggest you not to watch or provoke him with porn stuff coz that will surely steam him up even more.

Hope this could help.

Peace forever....

[crackforkids]

woah. i dont know, get him on some SSRI's and he'll lose his sex drive, i garentee it. i take zoloft and i cant bust if i have had sex like 24 hours before hand, some people have trouble with it period. sucks for them, lol.

and randomuserhaha (http://www.hipforums.com/forums/member.php?u=1564), how are you less fortunate? if thats your pic in your sig, you are quite beatiful!

[mystical_shroom]

Easy solution...

Tell him you dont want to have sex eight times a day...
Just because he wants too doesnt mean you have too
Besides..doesnt that get sore...

[Fractual_]

tell him no once in a while sounds like a good solution.

or give him a lot of head... that way hes still happy. dont make the poor guy masturbate.

[mystical_shroom]

or give him a lot of head... that way hes still happy. dont make the poor guy masturbate.
;) Hehehehe....
why does he have to be happy, why cant she do what makes her happy
I say make'em masterbate until his dick falls off and then tell him thats how you feel after you have sex eight times in a row..

[Mintaoism]

well if are in real trouble you have a threesome...but if you aren't that despearte why not give him a nice strip tease and he can wank off to that...

[enjoylifeasmuchasyou]

3 words. MAS-TUR-BATION
These are 5 words: mas-tur-ba-ti-on. Makes sense, for u use 5 fingers!

[enjoylifeasmuchasyou]

dont make the poor guy masturbate.
??? what's wrong with masturbation ??? You can do it together, watching him jerkin off can be a turn on for both of you. It's a way of having sex together, but you will be less tired, lol

[freedbypeace]

sorry man but i don't like masturbation, never have, never will, it's not gross or anything at all, it's perfectly human, it's just not my cup of tea. yes i got sore. i wanted to cry about 3 hrs later. :eek: <--- ME. i like all your advice, but what about blackmail? -i know it's cruel, but it always seems to work.

[jungee]

I have some serious concerns for you :( it says you are 15 and you describe being stuck with a boyfriend who is "addicted to sex" and reclaims "head" from you at every corner.

The question then becomes: is there anything else he does with you? Do you ever time to enjoy each other's company outside of the bedroom, like *gasp* going to a movie ?

The second concern is you might be in a situation that is not necessarly healthy : A caring lover knows to read his/her partner and doesn't still go on 3h later as they're about to cry. That is date rape.

And lastly, you are extremely young, and need to learn to know YOURSELF sexually before getting into a relationship. That includes knowing to set limits for yourself and knowing when to say NO.

You need to do something about this

[Peace]

These are 5 words: mas-tur-ba-ti-on. Makes sense, for u use 5 fingers!
Actually "masturbation" is one word. Didn't you pay attention in school?

[shutterfly]

Touche' ! Jungee is soo right on this one. Did you say you're engaged to be married to this guy? Crazy. Don't mean to call you out on your age but you are young. You have so many other loves to experience. How old is your fiance'? I've been with boyfriends before that liked to have a lot of sex or weird sex. I finally decided that I'm not doing anything I don't want to do with someone just to make them happy if it's going to make me miserable. Compromise and communication from both sides is definately a must in any successful relationship. Tell him how you feel about the whole thing and if he loves you he'll respect your needs and you can start to work out some kind of compromise with each other.

[enjoylifeasmuchasyou]

Actually "masturbation" is one word. Didn't you pay attention in school?
1. In my time (I'm very old aged) we didn't learn this nasty word in school :o
2. it was a joke ;)
3. but I'm glad YOU pay attention in school :p

xxx

[freedbypeace]

I dont't really like telling people our age differences, he isn't 30 or anything, I just don't like trouble. Are you kidding??!?!? Of course we do other things! I'm just talking about at night when we are spending the night together. We go to the races, go to movies, he takes me out to dinner at nice resturants. Two days ago he took me to a nearby beach and we watched the sun go down. Afterwards we watched the seals showing off for mating season. We often go swimming and he takes me shopping even though I refuse to spend his money. The best part is he doesn't care what I look like. When I recently had dreads, he didn't care. He loves me for my personality. I just grew up a little faster then other people. I'm not a whore, I just fell deeply in love. It's perfect because he acts immature while I am more mature, so it perfectly evens out. :p

[Bassplayerjojo]

Hehe I wish I had your problem. My boyfriend and I have sex once in a weekend if I'm lucky :(

[CckBlocking]

Say "no" once in a while and that problem will go away. If he won't stop then maybe he isn't a person you should be with.

[Spinner]

I'm a sex addict too.
Now if I could only find a girl that will have sex with me 11 times in a row.
Hypersexuality is a disease!

[HippieFlowerGirl67]

Your problem sound like what my bf and I will be doing once we start doing it....

[spasticsofa]

I sound like your bf. I'm a fiend. I don't really have any solutions for you, though. Sorry.

[PeaceAndLove]

what's wrong with sex all the time huh?

hit that shit

[freedbypeace]

what's wrong with sex all the time huh?

hit that shit

we aren't together anymore. thank god. and i want it out of my mind :(

[toolmaggot]

...Lucky bastard.

[sonador_hermosa]

we aren't together anymore. thank god. and i want it out of my mind :(
i hope you are doing okay, dear. it sucks when love doesn't work out, and even though you do have an old soul and were deeply in love with him, that doesn't mean that you won't one day find love with someone else...when i was your age i was with my first love, and we were pretty much engaged because we talked about being together forever, being married, having kids, etc. but it didn't work out. i felt like the world was going to end, but then i got a chance to be single for awhile and discover who i really am and what i want with my life, and also what i want in a relationship with someone else. you must be happy with you before you can be happy with anyone else. hopefully this will be a similar lesson for you. you may have an old soul, but you are a young person who needs life experience. a chapter has closed for you, but think of another chapter of your life opening. be happy and explore life, and you will be truly happy.

*HUGS*
-amy

[freedbypeace]

i hope you are doing okay, dear. it sucks when love doesn't work out, and even though you do have an old soul and were deeply in love with him, that doesn't mean that you won't one day find love with someone else...when i was your age i was with my first love, and we were pretty much engaged because we talked about being together forever, being married, having kids, etc. but it didn't work out. i felt like the world was going to end, but then i got a chance to be single for awhile and discover who i really am and what i want with my life, and also what i want in a relationship with someone else. you must be happy with you before you can be happy with anyone else. hopefully this will be a similar lesson for you. you may have an old soul, but you are a young person who needs life experience. a chapter has closed for you, but think of another chapter of your life opening. be happy and explore life, and you will be truly happy.

*HUGS*
-amy

thank you for being so sweet to me. i don't understand why people decided to bring back my old post. :confused: it really hurts. is there a way i could delete it anyone?- so i don't have to deal with mean people anymore?

[Nolan14]

had sex 8 times in a row! Maybe 15 sec in between at the most! WOW most dusdes only WISH they had that kind of stamina