fuck!!! life fucking sucks I fucking hate this shit!!!!!

[The Chronic Ninja]

My mom and I get along about as well as a cat and the dynomite up its ass crack!!! I swear to fucking god!!! Everytime we talk we end up fighting!!! I have been avoid her well for the last week or so but we always seem to get in a fight!! Today she went to go get my phone which got taken up in school a while ago and my principle is all like your son has completely given up in school this last week he won't do anywork and just sits there... And I'm like wat the hell do you expect!!! Its the last fucking week I'm not doing anywork at all!!! And she starts telling me all this shit about my uncle ( who is my number one inspiration for being a musician) and how he wishes so bad that he went to colledge and wasnt a musician!! And I know this is not true because I have talked to him and that's not what he said at all!!!!!!!! So there is another example of how she says shit to manipulate me
and then I was like whTevr and shit died down... Then I go up and I'm like mom when do you want to go get my Mohawk done Tuesday or should I get dad to take me... And she starts going into some big argument about how people with Mohawks and tattoos are trying to draw attention to themselves because they feel unmoved or some shit and I'm say no that's just my style they look flippin. Awesome' and I want one and she's like you need to get your heads out of the clouds cause your never going to be ausician and your never going to be successful unless you get your grades up and get a real job!!! And that PISSED the evver living shit out of me!!! My mother seat there and told me I was going to fail as a musician!!!!!!!!!!!! I flipped the fuck out!!!! She has been getting suspicious about me smoking so I have been clean for about three weeks now and that's part of the problem when. Smoked I was. So mellow the whole fucking time I didn't care but now she pissed me off so fucking much!!!!! I need something some drug or something that will not show I. A drug test and will calm me down better than a fucking ciggarret!! But so pissed right now

[orison319]

That was some rant there buddy... all in one breath Ill bet too..

[Stonertower420]

remember, go down the road, not across.

[FreedomFighter1555]

your young. It sounds like your mom is trying to look out for you. even though it might not seem like it right now. btw you shouldnt do drugs because you pissed that will lead to addiction. do them cause you like doin them

[Guitar]

Do you know your chances of becoming a sucessful musician? Sure it can happen if you practice every day but you still need to do good in school so you have a fallback if music doesnt work out.

[beccal58]

You could both sit down together and talk about stuff. Maybe you could both try and agree to get along? It's worth a shot. When me and my Dad didn't get along. I just asked him to talk one day and it helped. So, good luck to you anyways. =]

[-CoDy-]

remember, go down the road, not across.
that's some fucked up advice lol

[Captain Cannabis]

You do need to get good grades to get a good job man. Face it.

By the way, what instrument do you play? If you can post something here and I'll tell ya what I think.

[The Chronic Ninja]

I play guitar... But mostly bass I'm in a small band at the moment and we are working on tons of new shit!!! I will post it later!!!

[Captain Cannabis]

Trust me man, if you keep playing you'll eventually get a gig somewhere.

My bands actually getting really good, On the weekend I'm gonna film us playijng to se it lol.

[-beatnick]

yea, an artistic career might not be the most yielding. think of a secondary.

[High_Times_w_Kumar]

alrite i dont know where to start, first your 13, what 7th grade, maybe 8th. STOP SMOKING you are far to young, not til high school. second musician usully fail so stop being a bitch and get it done in school, unless your fucking jimi hendrix or some kind of prodigy youll never make it, get that thrugh your head. next mohawks are fucking gay, find a new way to get attention. and last(most important) dont fuck up your relationship with your mom. i did and it sux, i hate my parents and i dont want to, i kno you want your space ans a "teenager" but your not one so suck it up, your mom sounds like a smart person cuz shes right in everything you said and you are WRONG. so stop bitch, stop smoking, stop getting faggy mohawks, and get your shit together, or youll be a dead beat bum playing his guitar on the streets of NYC for nickles and quarters to buy heroin, cuz thats the road your going. and what did your mom do to you that makes you hate her, try to make sure you dont fuck up your life, like every careing mother does. she loves you but your just a little snot nose punk and if you were my child i would kick you out of my house and make you make it as a "musicain"

[Dr. Jon]

Why else would someone want a mohawk besides attention?

[st. stephen]

well first off do better in school, but u know that (or should anyways) so get on it. and by the way plenty of musicians have day jobs and just play gigs when they get the chance. also dont listen to what any body says about a mohawk. u want a mohawk get a mohawk, if u think there cool thats all that matters. and also wanna do drugs when ur 13, thats fine just its not gonna kill u just do good in school as well and everything well be fine. and patch things up with ur mom no need for either one of u to be up in each others shit just apologize and get back to ur life.

[weedwhacker]

yea first of all doing drugs for the sole purpose of escaping problems leads to addiction. i get high because its fun, and I like the deep thinking involved. that's not to say sometimes i like how it makes me forget my problems for a short time, but thats not the only reason i like to get high. second, you're only 13, you still probably don't know what you want to do yet. you have so much time to find out. one day you might want to be a fireman, the next an astronaut. stick to guitar, but don't assume school doesn't matter because you will end up playing guitar anyway. keep your options open. if you give up on school now you will regret it later in life.

[makesmomcry420]

mohawks draw attention, period.

maybe you are such a super duper mature 13 yr old, but im just going to say that your just bitching and moaning about dumb kid shit. you wanna be famous kid? well guess what! so does everybody else! you need a REAL JOB, thats right johnny! a REAL JOB!!

i understand your situation, i have a mohawk and im a musician of sorts, and im moving to NYC within the next yearish to get a jumpstart. and my mohawk? chicks dig it, so i have it, i mean, i do think it looks awesome, but its alot of work, and i kinda miss my long hair of old. so think a little bit about statistics and those words that your mom said, you dont wanna be a broke-as-fuck street musician

[WanderingSoul]

I can't believe all these hippie kids are telling you to get a job! haha.

I think it's wrong for your mom to discourage you from your dreams and I'm sorry.

[pizzicatofive]

Part of growing up is understanding that SOMETIMES adults will have good advice that you should really put some thought into. Above all, do what you feel is right, but she is your mom, even if she is being manipulative I BET she is doing it out of love for you. Communication is key to any problem ever.

[A593]

alrite i dont know where to start, first your 13, what 7th grade, maybe 8th. STOP SMOKING you are far to young, not til high school. Dude, a 16 year old doesn't need to be talking about someone ELSE being "too young". Just like the 18 year olds tell you, and you disagree, its the same with 13 year olds and us. Relax.

OP: Dude... if you will speak like an adult, you will be respected as one. I cuss; I still think it emphasizes certain things and is sometimes necessary... but honestly, you lose all credibility cursing over and over. You sound extremely un-educated and ignorant. Chillax, and get your point across.

I have an mother that doesn't listen either. It sucks. Get used to it, and understand that you're going to have to branch out from her guidelines and realize which ones are necessary to follow and others that you decide to secretly disobey. Getting pissed off will do absolutely nothing. If you'll stop and think about this, you'll see that all anger does and make you have to get more angry the next time. Just understand that you're mother is a negative person, and what she says may not always be true.

[PharmaPhunk]

This is what happens when adults don't hit there kids.

[hippieatheart]

even though you think your mom is trying to ruin your life now, you'll appreciate it when you get older. she just wants best for her son. as for being a musician, practice and practice and practice and maybe you will get somewhere, but that kind of shit is hard to be successful at, and you should have something to fall back on if it doesn't work out.

[xLEFTOVERCRACKx]

Dude u gotta chill the fuck out man.

Moms are bitches no matter what age you are, but you just gotta learn to accept her as your mom. There will be no such thing as a perfect mom (even if you have a mom that condones bud, you gotta admit that theres always something about her nagging at you). Well what I would do if I were you is that I would pick topics that I know would not get my mom bursting into an arguement over. Just keep this up for a while and dont bring up shit that you know will get her explode like dynamite. I dont have a good relationship with my mom either, but its not downright horrible. I actually want it to be better, but at this point in life I realise what my dad meant when he told me "she's not gonna change so you're gonna have to change". I changed only a little bit, but still things never get better. Trust me kid, no matter how hard you try to please your mom, she will still find a way to bitch at you. I swear my mom's favorite hobby seems to be bitching at me, but I learned to live with it. My brain usually goes on autopilot when my mom starts bitching at me. Just breezes me through with the right answers n shit.

"So you wanna be a rock superstar? And live large, a big house, 5 cars, you're in charge..." Yeah so it seems like you really want to become mister rockstar when you grow up. Well keep playin the guitar and you'll make it through, but just in case you dont make it through, you need to get thru school first. Yeah sure he or she didnt graduate high school and now they're making millions. Yeah well just so you know, they made it through fucking record companys looking for a certain "look". Get your ass into school Rockstar, because before your career booms, you probably need to be flippin a couple burgers or haulin a couple boxes. Gigs are only a few nights out of the week, and they dont pay much or some dont pay for shit. Its gonna be probably around 10 - 15 years before your rock n roll dreams come true, so in the meantime, get your ass off the couch. And the mohawk... dude asking your mother for a mohawk when you are 13 is the dumbest thing to do. I remember when I was 13, I told my parents to take me to get a tattoo, and boy did they flip out. And when one day I came home with a lipring, they flipped out. Yeah its gonna happen. Just wait about 3 or 4 years before you looks like your favorite artists. Besides, nothing looks more patehic than seeing 13 year olds with mohawks. Punx is cool, but 13 year old punkers with mohawks fuckin suck balls. Wait a few years kid before you come home with that Justin Sane mohawk.

As for the drug use, dude, fuck the other shit. Just stick to pot, or since you're smoking now, cigarettes. Or better yet, just cut that shit out until high school. They call it "high school" for a reason, and that reason is because high school is the time in your life where you get high. But I dont think you intend on looking like Keith Richards, are you?. Just stop the weed till you're old enough and have a better relationship with your mom. As far as school goes, stop fuckin slackin kid. I fuckin slacked my way through middle school too, but it was by pure chance that I made it into high school. And trust me kid, I fuckin regret it like hell. Right now I wish I did harder in school rather than fucking slack it through.

Well I know I cant tell you what to do, but Im just giving you advice.

And my last advice to you is:
Cut the bad boy crap.

[-CoDy-]

cypress hill, son :spliff:

[jo_k_er_man]

remember, go down the road, not across.haha.. fuckin beat me to it...

well if that wasn't enough.. find this at the local Barnes & Noble
http://img158.imageshack.us/img158/5995/dummieslj9.gif

[pizzicatofive]

plus, guitar will make you more of an ass..


...take up bass

[neuroptican]

You sound lazy. There is no reason you can't play guitar and be passionate about music while still doing well in school. Listen to your Mom, because you hear her but you're not listening. She sounds like she just wants you to have numerous opportunities to succeed. Doing well and working hard in school gives you that. So don't set limits on what you are going to do with your life at 13.

This is what happens when adults don't hit there kids.Haha.

[hitsuzen]

and last(most important) dont fuck up your relationship with your mom. i did and it sux, i hate my parents and i dont want toIt's true.
Please, do not ruin your relationship. I did with my dad and I'm miserable a lot of the time. We always fight.. over stupid little things. Don't bring it to that level.
Deep down I want to fix it, but I don't know if it CAN be fixed.
So, fix it while you can. She only wants what's best for you, because she loves you.