Seriously crushing on this girl...

[MyAphrodesiac]

that I work with, but I won't work with her for long...I'm leaving my job for another one in a week.
And me and her are having a little get together/drinking party next friday for my last day.
Im very nervous cause I've had the hots for her for a while...and she has a boyfriend, so do I. I really want to make a move when I go over there but I'm not sure where to start. I want to flirt with her a little bit and give her little hints but I'm not sure how...any suggestions?

[FreakyJoeMan]

French kiss her? Then ya'll can have a 4-some or somethin.

[MyAphrodesiac]

Ohhh...the thought of french kissing her actually makes me wet. Damn...
What if I try and she backs away all wierd? I'm not sure that she's into that at all...

[FreakyJoeMan]

Well, ya can't have it both ways, ya know, ya gotta be either a friend, or a lover, and wouldn't it be cheatin, anyways?

[We_All_Shine_On]

ah damn that's a total sticky situation. ( lol )

I think uhm, maybe you should say like, after drinking for a bit.... say "okay im just gonna say it.. I really want to kiss you right now"
cuz if you say you've wanted to, or have thought about it alot, or since day or w/e its like this whole time you've liked her so it's a sobering thought, like it would make me think twice.. I dunno maybe it's just me PLUS you cant blame it on the drinks if she freaks out.......
I think you should give her the opportunity to say yes or no to a kiss.... cuz man, gay just suddenly kissing straight NEVER goes well....

[MyAphrodesiac]

As far as the "cheating" thing goes...I got the o.k. from my boyfriend. And...to be honest I don't think her boyfriend would mind either, he's a pretty open minded guy. I actually talked to my b.f. about what I should do...he told me to bring bananas, haha! So that's how cool he is. Since we'll be drinking too, we'll have smoothie ingredients. Very convienent. ;)

[Snowdancer]

I don't know for sure but girls kiss each other a lot anyhow it seems. I have seen straight women kiss each other plenty so, especially after you have partied for a while, it likely would be pretty safe to give her a smooch. Huggs are also very safe. They are good starts. If you have been flirting with her throughout the night you are going to have some kind of idea what she thinks or may do. See what happens.

Your boyfriends are going to love it I'd guess at watching. That may creep you out or not but be prepared for that.