I think I made a big mistake?

[OregonHerbalist]

Wow,, I really need to vent this one out..
Today I gave away two, 5 month old Hindu Kush mother plants, to a friend of mine that ive known for 4 years.... He promised me he would give me some Dank local herb for them. Well when he came over he had around a gram,,haha,, a fucking gram.. I said thanks, and that im just glad to be able to spread some good genetics around, and that he would really enjoy how it smokes. I was pissed but diddnt say anything about it.
As he was driving home I suppose that he finally understood that it was not a fair trade at all, and that he needed to make it right. So he called me back and said that he will hook me up in a few days with a proper sack. The thing is Im not quite sure he will.. True that I want to help more people to grow, but at what cost to me?? I think Im way to nice for my own good...
People like him used to be really down and kind, but now they are becoming selfish fuc$s..
Im so done with trying to feed the multitude with one loaf of bread (1 female plant). Im just fucking trying to help people grow so that we will overgrow and prevail. Im just trying to save people from becoming so disconnected from the process of growing a plant, and providing herb for there own self. None of my friends understand this, and im so fucking over getting shafted..

[BudBill]

Live and learn my man. You got good kharma for your act so accept things as they are but don't repeat them. Hopefully you kept some clones and are 3-4 months away from multiple fat sacks :D

A good deed is its own reward.

[Xzei]

man a doing something good is always a good thing
even if you feel like your loosing out now you will get yours :D
and so will the guy that gave you a measly gram for 2 plants
he will deffinatly get whats coming to him someday

[paperPlanes285]

You shoulda said something when he gave you the gram.

[Subliminal89]

all you got was a gram thats gay

[Duck]

yeah, I've known people who grew, that I wasn't even really involved in the process much that gave me way more than that...
I would have asked for more.

[lune]

I dunno man, with the other growers Ive met gifting cuts and what not is all about spreading the love and passing along the karma... so that person can hook someone else up with bomb genetics.... etc. etc. I guess it all comes down to the type of people you surround yourself with... the important thing is he realized the error of his ways and called you back... he knows what's up. Plus, you know in 2 monthes he's going to be chopping those moms down (unless hes cutting them up, idk), Im sure youll get a real nice sack then either way...

Just last week I met up with a real cool guy, after he knew I was down he hooked me up real nice (I wasnt even expecting that either), expected nothing in return... I don't really have a setup anywhere near his, but if I can ever help him Im 100% down, just because I know he has my back in that respect.... shit comes full circle....

But yeah, for a mom (esp a 5 month old one! damn bro...) he need to man the fuck up and hook you up with something... for that, honestly, I think you shouldve charged him some money... just so it's a square deal and over with then and there...

Nothing wrong with giving him a rooted cut or 2 and telling him to do it himself...

[CGhost]

explain that to them

[MarcoWasRight]

You should probably be more concerned about the people who know you grow.

[OregonHerbalist]

Great advice everyone, Many thanks..

[soaringeagle]

send me a plant and id psay ya back phat wont be today tho cause got nothin to give but come round harvest time id kick ya 3/4 of the buds just for the chance to grow and smoke the 1/4 id keep..

just sayion not askin for anything..lol but ya kno if i did have the setup to grow and had a dozen plants or more wouldnt hesitate to give 5 or so to anyone i know just so theyd be happy to grow...
im all for everyone having a few plants growin...i dont got alot biut i got all i need but id like to see there be alot more so nobody ever hasta feel stingy and can be shared freely
u shouldnt ever feel u didnt get enough when theres more right outside the door

its all about the happiness we bring when we share whats there

[MelvnDoo]

i think that´s a great thing you did. a no-strings-attached gift is a TRUE gift. dont let yourself get caught up in other peoples´ greed and selfishness.

especially with weed, there´s more of a need for good karma, giving freely, etc. that´s what it´s all about.

keep your good intentions. the more often you give in these good ways, the more the other person(s) will give back to you. good will/intentions/vibes/whatever are infectous. even if it were to not directly come back to you, how about it getting passed on to someone else? hard to make someone do that, but maybe just try to explain your thoughts and actions beforehand.

positive energy like this does spread around. perhaps that´s where you got it from!

[rippin tha bong]

the fact that he realized and called you back is saying alot, he probably will hook you up at some point. And also, when ever he harvests, you can just ask for a decent size sample since you hooked him up which he should have no problem doing.

[hippieatheart]

you only got a gram for that? wow!
at least he called ya back and said he'd hook ya up with a proper sack..
i hope he does! good luck.

[elover]

Karma will get to everyone man. Just look at it all as you did something nice to better the world...and the world will thank you in return!