I need to fuck

[Penny]

I need to fuck

[seamonster66]

well that should not be a problem for you

[Duck]

you forgot to put in the part about how it has to be me

[Penny]

it is a problem when I don't wanna use people

I could, but don't wanna

and there's the whole getting attached thing, I don't want anyone getting attached to me right now, and not be able to give them what they want

[seamonster66]

it is a problem when I don't wanna use people

I could, but don't wanna

and there's the whole getting attached thing, I don't want anyone getting attached to me right now, and not be able to give them what they wantIf you tell them whats up, still should not be a problem

[Duck]

^ I agree. Just make sure to use the right person. Find someone that likes you in a purely casual lusty way =)

[Penny]

If you tell them whats up, still should not be a problem
I think I just need to grind my teeth and not think about how I want it rough right now

[Penny]

^ I agree. Just make sure to use the right person. Find someone that likes you in a purely casual lusty way =)
they don't exist.. or if they do.. feelings are not mutual (iow.. I am not physically attracted to them)

[seamonster66]

I think I just need to grind my teeth and not think about how I want it rough right nowand now I have to grind my teeth too http://www.hipforums.com/forums/images/smilies/embarassed.gif

those guys do exist..though I would suggest being selective

[Penny]

they do exist - of course, everywhere, there's guys who absolutely don't care about my personality and would just fuck me.. but I wouldn't fuck those guys

[Penny]

(and I don't mean I just wanna fuck someone who likes me to better break their heart later.. I mean.. I happen to not be physically attracted to the guys I know would be OK with just having casual sex)

[seamonster66]

you need one of those fuck buddies that I always hear about

someone that does like your personality, but isn't going to push it

[Penny]

danger with that is developping feelings.. I mean, if it becomes mutual then that's great.. but I'm not looking for a relationship right now..

[seamonster66]

well thats about all the advice I have :D

[Penny]

thanks :) anyways I just had mac & cheese, I feel a little less frustrated

[BraveSirRubin]

Back in the good ol' days basketball players weren't allowed to masturbate or have sex a couple of days before the game so that they could use the energy for the game. In some more primal civilizations leaders would separate their warriors from their women before battle for the same reason.

Maybe you should go out and battle some basketball player.

[Elijah]

if you want to get off and don't want any of the hassle associated with a relationship or breaking someone's heart. perhaps you should just use sex toys or something? they don't care if you use a different sex toy and they most certainly won't give you anything you wouldn'ty wish to catch.

[mamaKCita]

but they don't smell as good and they're not warm and active. i mean, i love them more than more people i know, but still.

anyway, i'd pound you, but i'm sure i'm not quite what you're looking for and i'm far far away. but i'd make you breakfast in the morning and we could go window shopping like nothing ever happened. there's a place in the world for people like me.

[zilla939]

yeah i'm with KC on this one, if you want casual action with an incredibly sexy person, you're playing the wrong field sister.

[mamaKCita]

she can't help it if she enslaves men so easily. dave used to have the same problem. actually, he still kinda does, poor guy.

[Rock Hard]

Come to Australia, there are guys like me who would be willing to be your mate and have the occassional trip to Lusty Land....., no strings attached! :)

[indian~summer]

i know exactly what you mean laety and am in the same boat

[Elijah]

i dunno, but i'm not the type who can just casually have sex with someone without having feelings for them. i guess i'm just old fashioned. *shrugs

[Cate8]

In the SAME teeth gritting boat.

[Unknown American]

You people are funny.:)


There is any number of guys here that would be willing to buy a plane ticket to help you out.

Personally I need a connection to someone before I would sleep with them.

[Cate8]

That is my problem, UA. lol. So I grit my teeth.

[Elijah]

yeah, last time i had casual sex with a gal she made me feel horrible the next day when i tried to hold her hand and put an arm around her. as much as it hurts to admit, i cried when i walked home :( so needless to say recently when she invited me to go home with her i politely refused her offer. she's a buzzkill and then some.

[Cate8]

Oh you poor thing. Im sorry babe. That hurts my heart.

[Elijah]

thank you cate, i'm glad someone understands. i have my faults, but i'm not a bad guy. but nobody deserves that, including me.

[Cate8]

My problem is I fall too in love and then I am all alone all of a sudden.

[Elijah]

you have to be careful who you give your heart to.

[Cate8]

Yeah. I kind of feel perpetually melancholy these days, aside from being happy about life, when it comes to love, melancholic.

[Elijah]

never forget to love yourself first and foremost. how can you love another if you can't love yourself? that's why so many people are highly promiscuous. because they feel no love for themselves inside. they think they can find that in someone else to fill the hole in their hearts. this leaves them to be preyed upon by people who have equaly low self esteem or worse. really bad motives

[Cate8]

Oh, I love myself for sure. I have an unbridled love for others. Its just not often returned.

[mamaKCita]

I LOVE YOU.

no really, i think of you...often.

[mamaKCita]

yeah, last time i had casual sex with a gal she made me feel horrible the next day when i tried to hold her hand and put an arm around her. as much as it hurts to admit, i cried when i walked home :( so needless to say recently when she invited me to go home with her i politely refused her offer. she's a buzzkill and then some.
awww. that's so sad.

i don't just mercilessly fuck someone. i have a connection of geniune affection. but i have layers of affection and expressions of that that are a bit more liberal than most people would have. for me, sharing sexual love is an act of friendship, affection, communion, healing. i'm not just a one off fuck me then get out. people make the mistake of selfish fucking for free love.

[Penny]

I used to be like that.. and not be able to have sex with anyone unless I had feelings for them, but.. I think I'm just too horny now.. and yeah, sex toys are cold and they don't do anything for you, you make them do things! I wanna be taken care of.. and take care of somebody and have them have a reaction.. a very positive reaction :)

I definitely have a heart though and that's why I don't wanna start having sex with people who like me too much.. then they're gonna want more and I'm not gonna be able to give them what they want - and they'll end up being hurt!

I don't wanna fuck someone who's only interested in my body though and has no respect for me whatsoever either though.. if we have no connection - nothing, it'll suck.

[zilla939]

random hookups are so much fun... but 9 times out of ten someone gets hurt. usually i'm not the one who's hurt, and i think that's almost as terrible if you have a conscience at all. i still feel guilty sometimes because i think about the way i made someone feel. you don't realize what you're doing to their emotions at all. it's hard to find someone who's confident enough not to get hurt. and when you find that person, it's hard not to fall in love with them.

[Rock Hard]

Why don't you Cyber someone, its obviously not the same as touching, but it might help ease the lull you are in!

Just a suggestion!

[Elijah]

i have a feeling you're gonna end up breaking a heart or two in the future.



I used to be like that.. and not be able to have sex with anyone unless I had feelings for them, but.. I think I'm just too horny now.. and yeah, sex toys are cold and they don't do anything for you, you make them do things! I wanna be taken care of.. and take care of somebody and have them have a reaction.. a very positive reaction :)

I definitely have a heart though and that's why I don't wanna start having sex with people who like me too much.. then they're gonna want more and I'm not gonna be able to give them what they want - and they'll end up being hurt!

I don't wanna fuck someone who's only interested in my body though and has no respect for me whatsoever either though.. if we have no connection - nothing, it'll suck.

[Elijah]

thanks for understanding, i wish everyone was as understanding as you and cate are.




awww. that's so sad.

i don't just mercilessly fuck someone. i have a connection of geniune affection. but i have layers of affection and expressions of that that are a bit more liberal than most people would have. for me, sharing sexual love is an act of friendship, affection, communion, healing. i'm not just a one off fuck me then get out. people make the mistake of selfish fucking for free love.

[zilla939]

Why don't you Cyber someone, its obviously not the same as touching, but it might help ease the lull you are in!

Just a suggestion!there's your solution!! a stroke of pure genius!

[Rock Hard]

there's your solution!! a stroke of pure genius!
Are you taking the mickey Zilla?

[Penny]

Why don't you Cyber someone, its obviously not the same as touching, but it might help ease the lull you are in!

Just a suggestion!
lol what do you think I am - a dork? No - getting off by myself even if someone's talking to me DEFINITELY isn't like real physical contact with warm fresh.. not even close to as satisfying..

[Penny]

i have a feeling you're gonna end up breaking a heart or two in the future.
I hope not.. I'm not a sadist

[Rock Hard]

lol what do you think I am - a dork? No - getting off by myself even if someone's talking to me DEFINITELY isn't like real physical contact with warm fresh.. not even close to as satisfying..
Sorry....

[zilla939]

Are you taking the mickey Zilla?no.


yes.

[Penny]

I mean - unless it's a really bad fuck, I guess doing the work myself may do it better but.. thankfully I never had such a bad sexual experience :)

I mean come on - don't tell me jerking-off can replace real sex..

[Elijah]

it can if the other person is a terrible lay



I mean - unless it's a really bad fuck, I guess doing the work myself may do it better but.. thankfully I never had such a bad sexual experience :)

I mean come on - don't tell me jerking-off can replace real sex..

[Penny]

yeah.. that happens.. actually there's more people who are boring or bad in bed than people who are good!

[OlderWaterBrother]

Sorry to tell you Penny,
The only way to have the sex you speak of is to risk a relationship. Yet you say you can’t have a relationship now. I think it’s time for you to sit down and make up your mind, because you can’t have it both ways except in your mind.

[Penny]

I mean, I just don't wanna make any plans or anything.. right now, I'm not LOOKING for a relationship.. but if one happens.. all I hope is that it's gonna be chill cause I can't deal with drama..

It's true sex is better when you're in a relationship - especially long-term, you know each other's bodies so well, there's no tabboos - etc. and if you care you put more effort into it so it's better.. all that.. but.. I just don't want to promise someone I'm gonna be their girlfriend or anything if I don't wanna be with somebody.. as I said before.. if feelings get involved then that's great but only if they're mutual, really!

[OlderWaterBrother]

Really Penny isn’t that what it’s all about, like Jackson Browne said: “looking for the heart that’s been looking for mine, I hope I find it in time”. Finding that person isn’t easy but it’s worth the search and you have to realize that before you find them some hearts will be hurt, yours as well as others. The only way to prevent that is not to search at all and give up any chance of finding that person.

[Penny]

I am not searching and don't think/care about the consequences of it not coming to me. I just am here now and.. right now, all that's on my mind is that I wanna fuck.. and well :tongue:

[BraveSirRubin]

Random creepy old guy?

I wonder what brought him to this thread.

[OlderWaterBrother]

I beg your pardon!

[BraveSirRubin]

I beg your pardon!I wasn't talking about you.

I was talking about Moses.

[Penny]

lol Pavel.. it's me and my thread titles.. they do that, sometimes ;)

[fitzy21]

yea, i could go for some random pick up sex too

[OlderWaterBrother]

I apologize for interrupting.

Peace and Love and Sharing Man, Sharing

[BLUE-TARD]

Is anyone else here shocked that no jackasses have showed up and starting hitting on Penny yet? That pisses me off when ppls do that. Ruin threads

[Penny]

who's Jenny?

[Waking Life]

I need to fuck
I'm sitting there typing in random thoughts and this title comes up at the top of the screen so I think to myself .... hmm .... me fucking too.

[Cate8]

Peterborough is not too far...

[BLUE-TARD]

my bad ... multitasking *Penny*

[Waking Life]

Peterborough is not too far...
If I didn't have an assignment due at noon ................ ugh.

[Cate8]

next time ;)

[Waking Life]

next time ;)
I'm going to hold you to it.

[Penny]

haha between random old creepy guys as Pavel said and.. prebuscent teenagers.. hehe

[Cate8]

We'll plan ahead this time.

[Penny]

what's the deal with Peterborough?

[fitzy21]

i don't know...but it seems i'm missing out on some action

god damn VT :(

[Waking Life]

We'll plan ahead this time.
Hells yeah we will!!!!!!!

[Penny]

I need to fuck :(

[Duck]

=O you still haven't?!

What's wrong with the guys where you are? I would have figured one would have sniffed out a pretty little kitty like you by now.

[Waking Life]

what's the deal with Peterborough?
Its where albi the racist dragon lives.


.... and we all know what dragon tears turn into ..... jellybeans.




Peterborough sucks.

[Cate8]

LOL. Conchord quoting. Nice.

[Penny]

=O you still haven't?!

What's wrong with the guys where you are? I would have figured one would have sniffed out a pretty little kitty like you by now.
haha.. I went over it all.. maybe I should have more mac & cheese

me havin mac & cheese means me being sexually frustrated

[BLUE-TARD]

[QUOTE=Penny]"I mean, I just don't wanna make any plans or anything.. right now, I'm not LOOKING for a relationship.. but if one happens.. all I hope is that it's gonna be chill..." I no just what you mean. If it happens,fine, but until then I'll just wait. There's this girl I know(not my GF but she's a good friend. We have EVERYTHING in common(It's so cool but she's 17 so we're just friends.)She comes over and asks if I've got a GF yet and I'm like no,I'm not looking for 1 either.

[BLUE-TARD]

haha between random old creepy guys as Pavel said and.. prebuscent teenagers.. hehe
That not true. =( I now is sad. I have hit puberty. U look cute but U is being mean now.

[Penny]

aww I didn't mean to be mean.. I'm just.. sexually frustrated.. haha

[Waking Life]

LOL. Conchord quoting. Nice.
Its on constant repeat on my VLC and will be until the next season.

I read somewhere that Peterborough was the underground sex capital of Ontario. Apparently they hold massive orgy parties here. I've been keeping a keen eye out for them but I haven't been able to find a single one yet.

[SorchaA]

you know, your not the only who needs a fuck.

[Penny]

you know, my personal forum has never had such a popular thread.

[Duck]

you know, we got a pattern goin =D

[BLUE-TARD]

I just chose the first thing that looked interesting.

[Penny]

I know.. you search active threads and you see something like "I need to fuck" and all of sudden.. all these people are interested.. haha

[BLUE-TARD]

BTW, that is a nice picture,Penny. Just thought I'd put that out there.

[SorchaA]

they do say sex sells.

maybe thats even true.

[Penny]

thanks blue tard

[BLUE-TARD]

I is tired now... had an hour and a half soccer practice 2night. sleepy sleepy sleepy

[Waking Life]

you know, my personal forum has never had such a popular thread.
Its too hard to get to the personal forums. I'm a lazy fucking poster. The path of least resistance takes me to random thoughts.

[Aristartle]

I know! Go fuck yourself!

:D

[Rock Hard]

So...Correct me if I'm wrong Penny you:
1)Need to fuck someone (a guy I think), whom you know, who lusts after you, but you don't want any strings attached?
2) you dont want to fuck someone (a guy I think), who lusts after you and doesn't want anything to do with you afterwards?
3) you don't want to fuck someone, who lusts after you, but wants to hang around afterwards and see what happens?

[BLUE-TARD]

Bye peeps... C U 2morrow. Good luck on the quest 4 sexual satisfaction! =) :leaving:

[Penny]

So...Correct me if I'm wrong Penny you:
1)Need to fuck someone (a guy I think), whom you know, who lusts after you, but you don't want any strings attached?
2) you dont want to fuck someone (a guy I think), who lusts after you and doesn't want anything to do with you afterwards?
3) you don't want to fuck someone, who lusts after you, but wants to hang around afterwards and see what happens?
no, it's none of that..

I explained it all before.. I can't explain it better..

blah it doesn't matter :tongue:

this is getting complicated, I don't like complicated!

[Penny]

I know! Go fuck yourself!

:D
I totally would :D

[Rock Hard]

Oh shit, I'm totally confused now......

I need to fuck aswell!

[Unknown American]

So...Correct me if I'm wrong Penny you:
1)Need to fuck someone (a guy I think), whom you know, who lusts after you, but you don't want any strings attached?
2) you dont want to fuck someone (a guy I think), who lusts after you and doesn't want anything to do with you afterwards?
3) you don't want to fuck someone, who lusts after you, but wants to hang around afterwards and see what happens?
You forgot she also does not want "old pervs" and "prepubescent kids", either.

[Penny]

lol

k having mac & cheese now

[SorchaA]

i think im going to the free love forum to see about how to get a fuck buddy.

[Aristartle]

No seriously hun, if I were you I would totally turn to chocolate.

(Doesn't chocolate do something to your brain that is better than sex?)

Mmm... choc-o-late.

[SorchaA]

i gave chocolate up, put to much weight on.

[Waking Life]

No seriously hun, if I were you I would totally turn to chocolate.

(Doesn't chocolate do something to your brain that is better than sex?)

Mmm... choc-o-late.
You're sleeping with the wrong people!

I don't mean that you should find someone who'll fuck you better, but someone that will combine the two.

[Cate8]

Maybe to your brain but not to your body :( However mixing sex and chocolate...now thats something

[Aristartle]

*le sigh*

[Waking Life]

*le sigh*
You can take some solace in the fact that the leafs won tonight.

[Elijah]

i didn't mean intentionally breaking someone's heart. people inadvertently break the hearts of others all of the time.




I hope not.. I'm not a sadist

[zilla939]

hipforums is always where i go when i need to get laid...

[Duck]

^ you're another one I would think wouldn't have any troubles.
Damn, where the hell are all the real guys where yinz live?

[MollyBoston]

hipforums is always where i go when i need to get laid...

I always need to get laid after I go to hipforums.

omg I'm in Penny's world! Is that okay? Do I need to get invited or something? Hi Penny! I wouldn't mind some sex either.

[Aristartle]

You can take some solace in the fact that the leafs won tonight.Fuck the Leafs, I'm a Senators convert. But people tell me all of the time that my dad looks like Pat Quinn.

http://www.cbc.ca/gfx/topstory/sports/quinn_pat060420_cp.jpg

My dad:

http://i20.photobucket.com/albums/b222/Aristartle/Allison/IMG_0144.jpg

I've been going to a couple OHL and AHL hockey games this year. I saw the Toronto Marlies play the Hamilton Bulldogs in Hamilton, and the Plymouth Whalers play the Sarnia Sting in Sarnia. I got a great picture of Steven Stamkos (Junoir World Champion) and watched his banner being hung up in the arena. Jamie Arniel got a hat-trick that game too.

I've turned to Minor Hockey since the strike for some reason. My neighbour used to play for the Ottawa 67's so I just started going to more and more games.

[praxiskepsis]

I'd help Penny if she worked out her fear of intimacy.


I'm afraid of intimacy too, everyone is. It's just admitting to it that's hard.

[Penny]

I don't go on the Hip Forums when I need to have sex.. or because I need to have sex.. I just go on the Hip Forums to vent about random stuff and sometimes it happens to be about sex.

I am not afraid of intimacy.. I just don't want to promise someone an exclusive relationship when I don't want it.. you know.. there's people I just don't care to be with! And some of these people I care about, so.. it's an even better reason not to wanna break their heart.

[MollyBoston]

Don't worry Penny, most of us know what you mean.

Also, some of us just looked through your pictures and are really jealous of your eyes.

[OverTheStars4Us]

Yeah I hear ya, most of the time I usually end up being with a girl who wants to have a commited relationship even though the initial physical interaction was agreed upon to be mutual beneficial, sexually speaking of course. However I am aware that for women, and I dont mean all women, it tends to be a gradual progression to become intimately/emotionally attached to whoever is sharing in sexual interaction. I wish I could find a female who could just be friends, have a good time, and know that any sexual play we have is just that and nothing more. Although it probably goes without saying that most guys probably wouldnt mind that either. You are indeed unique penny, and even if this is only a temporary state of being until you decide you do want a commited relationship I seriously doubt it would be hard for someone as incredibly beautiful as you to not have legions of guys throwing themselves at you in the hope of being the one you pick for whatever kind of deviance you have in mind... Haha deviance rocks. PLUR. -Joseph

[Penny]

Don't worry Penny, most of us know what you mean.

Also, some of us just looked through your pictures and are really jealous of your eyes.
my eyes? lol really? I really don't know what's so special about them.. but.. thanks :)

[MollyBoston]

Are you kidding?! They're huuuuuuuge! And mysterious. And they smile.

[Penny]

Yeah I hear ya, most of the time I usually end up being with a girl who wants to have a commited relationship even though the initial physical interaction was agreed upon to be mutual beneficial, sexually speaking of course. However I am aware that for women, and I dont mean all women, it tends to be a gradual progression to become intimately/emotionally attached to whoever is sharing in sexual interaction. I wish I could find a female who could just be friends, have a good time, and know that any sexual play we have is just that and nothing more. Although it probably goes without saying that most guys probably wouldnt mind that either. You are indeed unique penny, and even if this is only a temporary state of being until you decide you do want a commited relationship I seriously doubt it would be hard for someone as incredibly beautiful as you to not have legions of guys throwing themselves at you in the hope of being the one you pick for whatever kind of deviance you have in mind... Haha deviance rocks. PLUR. -Joseph
Aww.. trust me.. from my experience, I haven't been able to find a guy who I could be friends with and fuck without them eventually falling in love with me.. or.. maybe not that strong of a feeling but.. wanting to own me, be in a relationship.. an official, couple relationship. And I TOTALLY understand.. if I started getting feelings for a guy I'd want that too.. but I am not getting feelings that's the thing.

Guys who just wanna fuck casually are assholes.. most of the time! I don't share anything with them. I am not interested in having sex with someone who takes me for an object, is gonna fuck me pathetically, and who I will have no interest in truly pleasing..

Feelings happen. It's natural, and maybe someday, in 5 minutes or 10 years or never I'll start dating somebody who I will get attached to, and wanna be exclusive with and love. But I don't think about it. I am not looking for it.

I'm just randy baby :H

[Penny]

Are you kidding?! They're huuuuuuuge! And mysterious. And they smile.
Aww.. thank you :blush:

[OverTheStars4Us]

Yeah I know how you feel, personally I've been in too many commited relationships and I really want to just have fun for a while. Thing is most females will considera a guy just looking for fun to be a playa, or asshole, douche bag, etc. lol and that really leaves people like me with very few options. I've done the friends with benefits thing before with some close female friends of mine and I loved it, we had a good time and it made us closer but we also were able to talk about other people we were interested in, who we wanted to date, etc so it worked out great for a while. But then people move away and the few individuals who really understand you become scarce or non-existent. Then what? We are left to deal with the general populous who cant really understand our ideas or feelings in the way we would like them to, without taking the risk of hurting someone elses feelings unnecessarily because they made the mistake of becoming to attached. Tis a tangled web we weave is it not? I dont consider myself to be really good looking although I have female friends who would disagree, I dont have an ego about it either so I could kind of care less, but if I could be there to help you with your.. ahem.. problem then I'd be sure to satisfy you totally without all the drama. And really is that so wrong? To be physically satisfied can be just as special as emotionally/spiritually... as a matter of fact unless all aspects of our needs are met can we really say we are happy or content? I think ultimately thats the ideal... contentment; regard less of what that entails to the exclusion of another. Peace, Love, Understand, and Respect. Love ya all! Got to go to work crap lol Cya Later!

[Penny]

I just don't wanna deal with drama.. that pretty much sums it up.

[praxiskepsis]

Strickly speaking...all sex leads to relationships when it happens repeatedly.


As a matter of fact, any kind of continuing interaction between two people IS a relationship.

However, people usually understand relationship to mean, sexually exclusive.

As for me, I like to be sexually exclusive for periods of time, regardless of who it is and how much I love them. Other periods of the relationship, I like to go back to uncommitted, again regardless of who it is or how much I love them.

[praxiskepsis]

I don't go on the Hip Forums when I need to have sex.. or because I need to have sex.. I just go on the Hip Forums to vent about random stuff and sometimes it happens to be about sex.

I am not afraid of intimacy.. I just don't want to promise someone an exclusive relationship when I don't want it.. you know.. there's people I just don't care to be with! And some of these people I care about, so.. it's an even better reason not to wanna break their heart.I know you don't have reason to come here and look for sex. Sorry if my post made it sound like some kind of proposition or something.

I said you're afraid of intimacy because you're looking for something utterly impossible to find.

[Penny]

maybe it is impossible to find.. oh well.

[praxiskepsis]

maybe it is impossible to find.. oh well.It's contradictory Penny. Do you see that?

Unless I misunderstand, you're basically asking for a relationship without having one.

I'll agree, it WOULD be nice.

[Penny]

I'm not asking for anything.. that's the thing.

[praxiskepsis]

I'm not asking for anything.. that's the thing.Well, that settles it then. :)

[Penny]

well.. not really :tongue:

[mamaKCita]

she just wants someone to fuck her and not fall in love.

[praxiskepsis]

well.. not really :tongue:Well, I guess that doesn't (!) then. Jeez, what do you want from me?! :&

[praxiskepsis]

she just wants someone to fuck her and not fall in love.KC, let's not be ridiculous here. She can find that anytime, anywhere, at the local bar and you, I, and she know it.

There is much more to the story.

[mamaKCita]

for you to fuck her then go make her a sammich.

[mamaKCita]

nah. from experience i know that a guy who says he just wants to fuck ends up being a guy who won't leave you alone.

[Elijah]

this just goes to show how much peoples needs can vary from person to person. i don't think casual sex is a good idea for psychologically troubled or emotionally unstable people. they seem like the types who'd most easily get too attached to the other person who is just looking for sex. i'm not the type who wants that because if she were to get accidently pregnant it would complicate shit even more. because yes, birth control is NOT effective 100% of the time. besides, the pill, patch and shot have some serious health effects on a woman's body. new studies show birth control can increase a woman's risk for certain forms of cancer. years ago i knew this girl that was the pill, even before she ever had sex with anyone. she ended up getting a bunch of cysts on her ovaries. thankfully for her they were not fatal. because she's still alive today. though she did end up becoming a big methhead and all of her teeth rotted out.
:(

[praxiskepsis]

for you to fuck her then go make her a sammich.A what???

[praxiskepsis]

nah. from experience i know that a guy who says he just wants to fuck ends up being a guy who won't leave you alone.Whatever. You probably indulged the dude.

I fucked women and never exchanged numbers. You're complicating things

[Elijah]

more often than not it turns out that way. not always because he ends up falling in love. often times it's because he got it once and is convinced he can or will get it again. it's just like when you lay down apples, corn or salt licks for a deer. it's going to keep coming back to that same location, because it expects the tasty treat might be there again. many hunters will use it to their advantage.



nah. from experience i know that a guy who says he just wants to fuck ends up being a guy who won't leave you alone.

[mamaKCita]

more often than not it turns out that way. not always because he ends up falling in love. often times it's because he got it once and is convinced he can or will get it again. it's just like when you lay down apples, corn or salt licks for a deer. it's going to keep coming back to that same location, because it expects the tasty treat might be there again. many hunters will use it to their advantage.
yup. it's annoying. and if you don't give it to them suddenly you're a slut. fuck that shit. find a woman.

[mamaKCita]

Whatever. You probably indulged the dude.

I fucked women and never exchanged numbers. You're complicating things
whatever yourself, man. why the hostility? penny is gorgeous, french, sexy, etc etc. a guy gets a taste of that and every time he sees her he's goin back for more.

[praxiskepsis]

whatever yourself, man. why the hostility? penny is gorgeous, french, sexy, etc etc. a guy gets a taste of that and every time he sees her he's goin back for more.I wasn't being hostile! lol

I'm just saying that when women really, really just want sex, they can get that and just that. It's simple: don't give 'em your number and tell 'em in advance it's a one-night stand only.

But the fact is, people rarely only want just sex. They say they do, but they don't. So they put themselves in situations.

[mamaKCita]

i guess that works in big cities, but not in small communities.

[praxiskepsis]

i guess that works in big cities, but not in small communities.Pick up the car and go to the next county. Give 'em a fake name.

Where there is a will, there is a way!

But, yeah, in New York, an anonymous lay is not a problem for a woman. No.

[mamaKCita]

ew. that's kinda gross, though. picking up a stranger and fucking them. i'm not entirely sure you're getting the point.

[praxiskepsis]

ew. that's kinda gross, though. picking up a stranger and fucking them. i'm not entirely sure you're getting the point.I'm not.

Other then a classical case of wanting to have the cake and eat it too, I'm not. I really ain't.

[mamaKCita]

women annoy you quite a lot, huh?

[praxiskepsis]

women annoy you quite a lot, huh?Oh shit. Now the spotlight is on me...

Why do you say that?

Men annoy me too, but I'm trying to recover from annoyed disease! lol

[mamaKCita]

i was actually chuckling when i typed that. we are a frustrating lot and we can't help it, i TOTALLY know. we want someone safe, to fuck, that won't be back for more and won't think we're shitty people if we don't. we don't want them to be all hurt and despairing and feeling cast off. we just have an itch to scratch and want a safe place to do it. i don't think that's unreasonable, just in nearly every circumstance, undoable. but it does no harm to wish, to fantasize.

[praxiskepsis]

i was actually chuckling when i typed that. we are a frustrating lot and we can't help it, i TOTALLY know. we want someone safe, to fuck, that won't be back for more and won't think we're shitty people if we don't. we don't want them to be all hurt and despairing and feeling cast off. we just have an itch to scratch and want a safe place to do it. i don't think that's unreasonable, just in nearly every circumstance, undoable. but it does no harm to wish, to fantasize.Oh ok. I thought you were like, turning the tables on me and shit!

P.S. I guess I have my own fantasies too (like my hot shrink)...sigh.

[mamaKCita]

well, i was just a little bit, but mainly because you seemed to be getting genuinely annoyed when really it's just a matter of male and female perspective. but without anger, because mostly this shit is just silly and harmless.

[MollyBoston]

Yeah, you have this friend who's a really nice guy, and he's okay looking, and you're hanging out with him and you just want to be like "You know what? Let's go have sex. I could use some sex right now." But afterwards you want him to be completely fine and normal and never bring it up again - unless YOU bring it up again - and not get all weird about it and fall in love with you or anything. Unless you decide you want him to.

Also, I would like a pet unicorn.

[mamaKCita]

hehhehe. and a flying pig.

[praxiskepsis]

well, i was just a little bit, but mainly because you seemed to be getting genuinely annoyed when really it's just a matter of male and female perspective. but without anger, because mostly this shit is just silly and harmless.I wasn't annoyed just then. Trust me.

I do get annoyed with women when they go around in circles talking about the impossible sometimes.

But just now I was simply...well, putting y'all's foot to the fire.

[praxiskepsis]

hehhehe. and a flying pig.What is my flying pig?

Why don't men have the right to be unreasonable too????

[mamaKCita]

wasn't about you, sweets. it was about what molly said.

[mamaKCita]

and in my experience, men are frequently unreasonable and i'm totally okay with that.

[praxiskepsis]

wasn't about you, sweets. it was about what molly said.I know!!! Now I'm annoyed!

I wanna be unreasonable and fantasize about flying piggy uni too!

[MollyBoston]

and in my experience, men are frequently unreasonable and i'm totally okay with that.Whereas I am completely reasonable all the time. The sooner guys realize that it's always them being stupid and not us, the sooner we can all go back to watching Project Runway marathons.

[praxiskepsis]

and in my experience, men are frequently unreasonable and i'm totally okay with that.How are we unreasonable??? Least we are rational!!!

And realistic!!! lol

[mamaKCita]

AHAHAHAHAHAHHAHAAAAAA! you SLAY me. rational....*snicker*

[mamaKCita]

I know!!! Now I'm annoyed!

I wanna be unreasonable and fantasize about flying piggy uni too!
i bet that'd make going for walks very complicated.

[praxiskepsis]

i bet that'd make going for walks very complicated.KC, why you being a smart-ass with me?

See, I'm so freaking rational I can't even THINK of a freaking unreasonable scenario to fantasize about women.

Like you, Molly, and Penny do about men.

RATIONAL!!!!

[mamaKCita]

i'm a smartass with everyone. if you weren't so irrational, you'd totally understand that.

[praxiskepsis]

i'm a smartass with everyone. if you weren't so irrational, you'd totally understand that.I understand it!!!

Smarty-smar!!!

But I'll tell you what I want in a sec...then you girls will know what irrational is all about.

[mamaKCita]

lol. I WIN!

[praxiskepsis]

lol. I WIN!You WIN????????


You LOSE!!

Check it out: I want a woman that switches by remote control: you know, one day she's Naomi Campbell, the other day she's like...I don't know, blondy or brunette or Asian chick so-and-so...

THEN, I want her to like be sweet at all times and leave me the fuck alone when I need her to!

Now, who WINS???

[mamaKCita]

i do. because i actually get what i want.

[MollyBoston]

Ha...I would LOVE that. "Today I want to look like Kate Winslet!" "Now I want to look like Devon Aoki!" As long as you're okay with the fact that about once a week I'm going to come out looking like George Clooney...and I'm still going to want sex.

[praxiskepsis]

Ha...I would LOVE that. "Today I want to look like Kate Winslet!" "Now I want to look like Devon Aoki!" As long as you're okay with the fact that about once a week I'm going to come out looking like George Clooney...and I'm still going to want sex.Yuck! That's sick!

I think I'll call it all off.

[praxiskepsis]

i do. because i actually get what i want.Yeah, but you don't want as much as me.

[mamaKCita]

and THAT'S why i'm more rational.

[Piaf]

Ha...I would LOVE that. "Today I want to look like Kate Winslet!" "Now I want to look like Devon Aoki!" As long as you're okay with the fact that about once a week I'm going to come out looking like George Clooney...and I'm still going to want sex.
Hahaha...
You're great !!!!

[praxiskepsis]

and THAT'S why i'm more rational.No. You just tailored your desires to reality. I can do that too.

I'm irrational on demand....

I think that's more rational (being irrational on demand) than being simply rational.

As you can plainly see, you can't win with me. lol

[mamaKCita]

No. You just tailored your desires to reality. I can do that too.

I'm irrational on demand....

I think that's more rational (being irrational on demand) than being simply rational.

As you can plainly see, you can't win with me. lol
being irrational on demand? that's called fantasizing you silly git. rational people know that.

[Elijah]

KC, you seem as if you've lived many previous lifetimes.

[mamaKCita]

apparently i don't learn my lessons very well then, eh?

[praxiskepsis]

being irrational on demand? that's called fantasizing you silly git. rational people know that.Apparently I'm rational.

I don't know what git is, so I'll go ahead and not take offense.

[mamaKCita]

it means bastard, and i say that with the utmost affection.

[Elijah]

you often times act more sensible than a lot of people i see who post in these forum threads.




apparently i don't learn my lessons very well then, eh?

[mamaKCita]

that's just because i just had my nap.

[praxiskepsis]

it means bastard, and i say that with the utmost affection.In that case...:huh:

I should know it's some kind of KC speak or another. Cheers.

[mamaKCita]

i think it's english slang. my grandma used to call us that.

[mamaKCita]

nevermind, it's much worse than bastard. dang, gramma had an ATTITUDE. she never sounded like it. being all posh brit and all.

[praxiskepsis]

nevermind, it's much worse than bastard. dang, gramma had an ATTITUDE. she never sounded like it. being all posh brit and all.Stop being mean!

Brit-mean is THE WORST.

An uptight German, or an American buffon I can compete with. But Brits, I just go right ahead and pack a punch on the lip...the fuckers...

The only way I know how to deal with presumptiousness is violence. Sometimes verbal violence does it.

[mamaKCita]

hmph. you should be so sensitive, i'm a brit/german/cherokee/irish american buffoon.

[InsaneAndProud]

im british...other than sarcasm im very nice XD
is it odd this thread about a fuck makes me want a hug? :S

[praxiskepsis]

hmph. you should be so sensitive, i'm a brit/german/cherokee/irish american buffoon.That should work for me. We shouldn't have any problems.

Just don't pull some House of Windsor shit on my ass, I'm a bust somebody right up! Telling you.

[praxiskepsis]

sorry double post

[praxiskepsis]

im british...other than sarcasm im very nice XD
is it odd this thread about a fuck makes me want a hug? :SAll I always really want is a hug!

But then...caress here, kiss there, and before you know it, you're right in there again.

It's a mess.

P.S. That's not really true. Sometimes I just want it hard and sweaty. It's just, those occasions are becoming rarer and rarer.

[mamaKCita]

That should work for me. We shouldn't have any problems.

Just don't pull some House of Windsor shit on my ass, I'm a bust somebody right up! Telling you.
i'm not sure i can pull that off. my voice is too high and breathy. people take me much more seriously on the internet. otherwise i find myself shamefully bouncing around and squealing at shiny things. it's awful.

[praxiskepsis]

Squealing at shiny things??? wtf?


KC you're truly a forumer virtuoso extraordinaire or whatever.

[mamaKCita]

puppies and kittens, too. i'm a total sucker for puppies and kittens.

[MollyBoston]

OMG you have a squeaky voice? Boy, that completely screws up my mental image of you. In my head you're just like this friend I have (who is awesome), and she has a pretty deep voice. And she swears like a sailor all the time.

ps if only I could get a shiny kitten...

[mamaKCita]

nope. i sound like a little girl. it's annoying. i'm short, too. but then, so was napoleon.

[MollyBoston]

Now I can't stop picturing Napoleon wearing a pretty little frock.

[mamaKCita]

he probably did.

[praxiskepsis]

nope. i sound like a little girl. it's annoying. i'm short, too. but then, so was napoleon.I pegged you somewhere in between. Neither squealy nor deep. Maybe favoring squealy actually...

I totally knew you were compensating...lol. You must be a real sweethard deep down.

[mamaKCita]

i'm not really squealy, i just squeal sometimes when i see somethin pretty. i have a breathy voice.

[praxiskepsis]

i'm not really squealy, i just squeal sometimes when i see somethin pretty. i have a breathy voice.I can hear it just now, the way you describe.

That can be cute too.

[mamaKCita]

i bounce a little, too. so embarassing.

but yeah, i talk the same, i'm just more inclined to get a pat on the head than a serious response. unless they hate women and don't like women who speak their minds, or supposedly hot chicks who don't like women who don't bow before their superior social status. those people HATE ME. it just makes it more fun for me.

[InsaneAndProud]

i go Oooh shineyyyy and make awwing noises at animals mamakcita, shiney/glittery stuff just hypnotises me

[praxiskepsis]

[QUOTE=mamaKCita]-

[praxiskepsis]

i bounce a little, too. so embarassing.

but yeah, i talk the same, i'm just more inclined to get a pat on the head than a serious response. unless they hate women and don't like women who speak their minds, or supposedly hot chicks who don't like women who don't bow before their superior social status. those people HATE ME. it just makes it more fun for me.We share the napoleonic stuff.

I really just stick my nose in whatever it is and those tall motherfuckers just have to get used to it. It's simple.

[mamaKCita]

yup. i deserve a spot on this planet and i'm not going to let other people dictate to me where that space should be.

[MollyBoston]

I clap my hands and yell "Doggy!" and then skip over to it and molest it. It's probably incredibly annoying to everyone else.

[praxiskepsis]

yup. i deserve a spot on this planet and i'm not going to let other people dictate to me where that space should be.deserve...:leaving:

[praxiskepsis]

I clap my hands and yell "Doggy!" and then skip over to it and molest it. It's probably incredibly annoying to everyone else.Well, it wouldn't be if you were rational about your libidinal demands!!!

LOL!

[Penny]

I'm not fucking strangers. I'm sorry, I don't want it to suck.. cause it will.. I won't care to please them, they won't care to please me, fuck me pathetically.. and I don't know them! How do I know they don't have Hepatitis (well I got the shot for that, but still) or Herpes or.. AIDS?? People lie about their std's, it's happened to me, I've known people who had std's and didn't tell people.

[MollyBoston]

I'm totally rational! I was just saying that I understand Penny's libidinal demands! I'm easy, though. Tie me up, spank me til I scream, fuck me til I cry, cum in my mouth, go get me some ice cream. Nothing to it!

[MollyBoston]

I'm not fucking strangers. I'm sorry, I don't want it to suck.. cause it will.. I won't care to please them, they won't care to please me, fuck me pathetically.. and I don't know them! How do I know they don't have Hepatitis (well I got the shot for that, but still) or Herpes or.. AIDS?? People lie about their std's, it's happened to me, I've known people who had std's and didn't tell people.Oh hi Penny! Sorry we're derailing your thread. I brought it back to how nice it would be to just casually have sex with a friend once in a while without knowing that every time you hung out with him for the rest of your life he was going to hit on you, but then we ended up talking about Napoleon.

No, nobody (who is sensible) thinks fucking strangers is a good solution to anything.

[mamaKCita]

well *blushes* there's been a couple times when i've been INCREDIBLY tempted, but i didn't go through with it. sometimes there's just chemistry.

[praxiskepsis]

I'm totally rational! I was just saying that I understand Penny's libidinal demands! I'm easy, though. Tie me up, spank me til I scream, fuck me til I cry, cum in my mouth, go get me some ice cream. Nothing to it!Jesus, we got a new winner. KC you're laggin behind, man...

[Penny]

I'm totally rational! I was just saying that I understand Penny's libidinal demands! I'm easy, though. Tie me up, spank me til I scream, fuck me til I cry, cum in my mouth, go get me some ice cream. Nothing to it!
I wanna be tied up so baaaaaaaaad

that's my fetish.. bondage

[praxiskepsis]

well *blushes* there's been a couple times when i've been INCREDIBLY tempted, but i didn't go through with it. sometimes there's just chemistry.So you guys never had like a one-night stand???

Jesus, what's the world coming to?

[praxiskepsis]

I wanna be tied up so baaaaaaaaad

that's my fetish.. bondageOh hell no!

Hey, whatever rocks your boat!

Just reminded me of a friend telling me he hooked up with an S/M chick. HILARIOUS! Guy couldn't hurt a fly! lol

[Penny]

So you guys never had like a one-night stand???

Jesus, what's the world coming to?
I did.. and it sucked.

[Penny]

Oh hell no!

Hey, whatever rocks your boat!

Just reminded me of a friend telling me he hooked up with an S/M chick. HILARIOUS! Guy couldn't hurt a fly! lol
I am not into S/M. I just like being tied-up. It turns me on. I also like being shoved around a little and dominated. Sometimes. I can also really enjoy "making love". That the great thing about me, I'm very sexually versatile.

[praxiskepsis]

I did.. and it sucked.Yeah. Well, what didja expect from a one-night stand?:)

No, really. I THINK I had a couple one-night stands that I still remember with fondness. The problem is the next day is so fucking awkward.

You're all hung-over and shit and you realize you don't know this person at all.

I'm not much of a regretter though, but then again I'm MALE. AND RATIONAL. Ok I shouldn't have re-hatched it lol

[praxiskepsis]

I am not into S/M. I just like being tied-up. It turns me on. I also like being shoved around a little and dominated. Sometimes. I can also really enjoy "making love". That the great thing about me, I'm very sexually versatile.I don't much like to be roughed up by women, more the opposite.

But I don't wanna be in a position to treat women like shit either...even in a fantasy world. Just a little rough, bity, scratchy, squeezy, bumpy rough is all.:H

[Penny]

I don't wanna be treated like shit.. like raped..

I can be rough too, sometimes, like.. scratch and bite, be on top.. dominate.

But that's the thing - I'm not ALL about ONE thing. Depends on my mood really.

[praxiskepsis]

A certain attitude is ok. Even a turn on. Talking dirty is hot too, if done right.

But when women are rough...

My versatility's rope starts coming to an end.

I don't know why. I'm not macho man either. Maybe I just have control issues or something.

[MollyBoston]

Penny, that's pretty much how I am too. I like to be tied up, but that doesn't mean I'm into all kinds of crazy S&M stuff. Bondage is different. It's about restriction or loss of control, not about pain

Not to say I don't love a good spanking.

I've had a few one night stands. One of them was AWESOME. One was terrible, and one was fine. So there ya go.

[Penny]

mine just sucked cause I was wasted, I didn't share anything with them, we hardly talked, and neither of us cared about pleasing the other - it was all very selfish.

I love giving the other pleasure.. it allows me to experience more pleasure too.

if I'm being fingered, I like giving the guy a handjob at the same time - them getting pleasure at the same time as me allows me to get off faster AND better.

but for me to care about pleasing the other so much I have to share something with them, one night stands just don't do it.. at all.

[praxiskepsis]

I've had a few one night stands. One of them was AWESOME. One was terrible, and one was fine. So there ya go.See, that's reasonable.

At least ONE woman has had an experience similar to mine.

Everyone these days seems to be so doctrinaire against one-night stands...it's really a pain in the ass.

Sometimes people just want to fuck. And life entails risks. Deal.

[Penny]

nah I don't *just* wanna fuck. I wanna fuck well.

[praxiskepsis]

nah I don't *just* wanna fuck. I wanna fuck well.I know...but there is just no way to legislate that.

Trial and error unfortunately.

I wish there was some kind of formula, then I'd be a sexually fulfilled person. Actually, sex is really the least of my problems ATM.

[MollyBoston]

At least ONE woman has had an experience similar to mine.
Heh. Oh, I doubt it was very similar to yours. *SLUTTY WINK*

Penny just wants to fuck...like a superstar!

[Penny]

not like a superstar.. like a French girl ;)

[praxiskepsis]

Heh. Oh, I doubt it was very similar to yours. *SLUTTY WINK*

Penny just wants to fuck...like a superstar!see, i got you there...girly-girl.

[MollyBoston]

not like a superstar.. like a French girl ;)Same thing.

[praxiskepsis]

i'm like the only dude on this thread for the last 5 pages...wha't wrong with me?

[Penny]

Same thing.
haha.. true :tongue:

[MollyBoston]

i'm like the only dude on this thread for the last 5 pages...wha't wrong with me?Yeah, what kind of freak would want to be the only guy present while a bunch of girls talked about their sexual fantasies? You're so weird!

[praxiskepsis]

Yeah, what kind of freak would want to be the only guy present while a bunch of girls talked about their sexual fantasies? You're so weird!HA! Guess I'm the smart guy!!!:drool:

[mamaKCita]

i'm picky. i like to leanr all the fantasies a person has then set about fulfilling them. also, sometimes you just want the comfort of a friend. i'v ehad one night stands for sure, just not with strangers. can't deal with the strangers thing.

[Penny]

I love being the one who fulfills all of a person's fantasies :)

[mamaKCita]

yeah, then i can go about fulfilling some of my own.

[mamaKCita]

A certain attitude is ok. Even a turn on. Talking dirty is hot too, if done right.

But when women are rough...

My versatility's rope starts coming to an end.

I don't know why. I'm not macho man either. Maybe I just have control issues or something.
i think that the macho manly types tend to be more inclined to being bound, because for just a little while, they don't have to do all the work, someone else can take over from them. they can just be. and they don't have to be in control for a while.

[MollyBoston]

I like when the person's fantasies happen to be the same as my fantasies. Boy, is THAT convenient.

But there's something kinda hot about fulfilling someone else's fantasy that's not necessarily mine, too. (Duh - there goes my sub side again.)

By the way, KC - did you suggest that book to me because you suspect I might be guilty of topping from the bottom?

Edit: I'm with KC. People who seem aggressive in life tend to want exactly the opposite in bed, and vice versa. That's a HUGE generalization and not true for everyone, of course.

[Penny]

I think it should be a balance. When sex lasts a long time I like to change positions every 5-10 minutes.

[mamaKCita]

i'm of the opinion that in the vast majority of the toppers and bottom relationships, the topper has more work on their hands, emotionally, physically and in terms of self control. really what the bottom does is behave passively. they don't have ot be creative, they don't have to work AND they have a safe word that says unequivocably "stop now." unless they're of the truly hardcore slave variety. yes, having done both, i believe that the topper is really the servant, ultimately.

[mamaKCita]

I think it should be a balance. When sex lasts a long time I like to change positions every 5-10 minutes.
i never could be still. 5-10 minutes is a bet long in my opinion.

[Penny]

well, it depends really.. if I'm about to orgasm.. I try and stay in the same position or I have to start all over again..

[Penny]

but you're right now that I think about it 5-10 minutes seems a little too long.. I don't really keep up with time but it's probably less than that..

[MollyBoston]

i'm of the opinion that in the vast majority of the toppers and bottom relationships, the topper has more work on their hands, emotionally, physically and in terms of self control. really what the bottom does is behave passively. they don't have ot be creative, they don't have to work AND they have a safe word that says unequivocably "stop now." unless they're of the truly hardcore slave variety. yes, having done both, i believe that the topper is really the servant, ultimately.I agree with a lot of that, yeah. I think his job is pretty tough. Like you said, a lot of the time I'm just kinda hanging out enjoying myself while he's tying knots, repositioning me, spanking me, whatever...

I do think we're both creative - I know I'm constantly suggesting "Would you do this or that to me?" - but we actually joke about it sometimes, that he's got all this STUFF he's gotta do, and me...not so much.

He counters with "We're both turned on, but you're the one who's uncomfortable because I've got you in some crazy position with god-knows-what sticking out of you - hell, I can leave the room and grab a soda if I feel like it." (And sometimes he does.) He feels like he has the best part of our relationship - but deep down, I feel like I do.

[stalk]

25 pages of sex chakra dominated text.
Get offline and fuck.
peace

[Penny]

I love to be "put" in a position..

[DroopySnoopy]

I like to change positions, but not so much that it makes it harder for my partner to climax. It's much better if both people are in tune with one another as well, almost to a point where you just KNOW what position the other wants at that moment.

[Penny]

25 pages of sex chakra dominated text.
Get offline and fuck.
peace
obviously you haven't read and understood everything I've been explaining or else you would know why I don't have a human sex object to use right now

[Penny]

I like to change positions, but not so much that it makes it harder for my partner to climax. It's much better if both people are in tune with one another as well, almost to a point where you just KNOW what position the other wants at that moment.
exactly