I just tried a new (for me) flirtation technique

[Snowdancer]

I've seen females use this all my life & have thought about doing it myself but wanted to do it without it looking constrained or contrived. This afternoon I was walking by a cute guy that I have seen around a lot but we never talk much more than to say hi. I am not sure if he is gay or bi but he did starer initiating hellos with me more so once I started wearing skirts & dresses to work. Anyhow, I was walking out of one of the doors to our building & he was standing there having a cancer stick. He saw me just as I was by his side & said, "Hello" This was my chance to give the "over the shoulder as I saunter away smile". I did so as I said "Hello".

In a way this seems insignificant & I almost didn't write about it. As time went on I decided to ask the other guys though if you have seen a guy doing this before or/and if it would do anything for you if they did.

For the ladies here... Have any of you used this technique on other women?

For that matter, while I'm asking probing questions. What is the underlying concept of this form of flirting? I have pondered this some myself & other than it looks cute I haven't found a good reason behind it. Anyone have any thoughts?

Are there any reason that a guy wouldn't be able to use this?

[velvet]

Sorry.. not gay or bi but a great pic like that is asking for a reaction ;)


What a great pic! Is that you? You look awesome! :)

back on topic.. I do that a lot, it kinda comes natural to me so guys easily think I'm flirting, which is fun as well but.. besides the fact that is seems to look cute, it might be the 'I'm interested but I'm a little shy, so if you like me you can make a move now' thingie.. it's a really non-agressive way of flirting (instead of forcing someone into a conversation etc.). Just my two cents..

Good luck with it! :)

[Snowdancer]

The picture was taken I guess about a year ago. Thanks for the compliment.

I did kind of think that it was something like what you said about it being a really non-aggressive way of flirting. Thank you for your imput. I was beginning to think that no one was going to give me any perspective on it.